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We are looking to go to a club for 2 nights in a row (weekend of it)
However, the first night is a greedy girl night, Kate isn't a greedy girl, and we're soft swap...but love the idea of watching and enjoying the show.
Would this be frowned upon, would/could kate be getting too much attention due to the event, or just enjoy it for what it is and say no... |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
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"We are looking to go to a club for 2 nights in a row (weekend of it)
However, the first night is a greedy girl night, Kate isn't a greedy girl, and we're soft swap...but love the idea of watching and enjoying the show.
Would this be frowned upon, would/could kate be getting too much attention due to the event, or just enjoy it for what it is and say no..."
enjoy for what it is ... use any wristband or reference from the club to ensure that patrons (single guys) know the score - a polite "sorry we are not playing that scene" should suffice ... x |
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"We are looking to go to a club for 2 nights in a row (weekend of it)
However, the first night is a greedy girl night, Kate isn't a greedy girl, and we're soft swap...but love the idea of watching and enjoying the show.
Would this be frowned upon, would/could kate be getting too much attention due to the event, or just enjoy it for what it is and say no..."
Probably best to contact the club ahead of going, and asking their opinion. Ordinarily, it wouldn't matter whether Kate is a greedy girl or not, because you are there for your own purposes. However, we recently visited a club on 'bi-night', only to find the couples room is not restricted to couples on those nights.
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I've been to plenty of GG nights in different clubs & in all cases whether you play or not is entirely your decision. GG nights are not a free for all & the usual levels of respect & etiquette are followed. So go & enjoy the show ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are looking to go to a club for 2 nights in a row (weekend of it)
However, the first night is a greedy girl night, Kate isn't a greedy girl, and we're soft swap...but love the idea of watching and enjoying the show.
Would this be frowned upon, would/could kate be getting too much attention due to the event, or just enjoy it for what it is and say no..."
Actually a great point, often kept a way from certain nights because we are similar to you both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We avoid clubs on a Friday these days, they tend to all let too many single guys in and they can follow you around and put you off... "
This is why we never go Fridays, even though we have wanted to go to a club but couldn’t on Saturday for what ever reason
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Hi everyone. We have been reading the replies about this now we have actually spoke to vixey and cooper directly
But have also seen a few people saying they don’t like to attend the events on Fridays due to single guys , now we have found that is not the case xtasia has been very active at only having males in that are fully respectful to women/couples and don’t break the clubs rules and anyone who has have been not aloud back in
When it comes to our event we host greedy girls there. We are very strict to them and all women/couples that attend will not be made to feel uncomfortable in any way . And if anyone does please come speak to us or security there
We hope with the fact this event is now being hosted by ourselves we will get a lot of support from people who attend to show everyone who has issues with Friday night events are unjustified
So we say please look at our event , come to it we would love to see everyone who’s keep on trying event and the club
D&J x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even though it’s greedy girls night it isn’t a free for all everyone has the right to say no at any point and time people who have a problem with that then they are the problem not yous |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
From my experience, a Greedy Girl Night at a club is just another club night; whilst you might find lovers (male and female) of this event, you'll also find club goes there that have come for whatever reason they want; no one (from my experience) seems to mind.
So OP, pop along and have fun your way. |
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"Hi everyone. We have been reading the replies about this now we have actually spoke to vixey and cooper directly
But have also seen a few people saying they don’t like to attend the events on Fridays due to single guys , now we have found that is not the case xtasia has been very active at only having males in that are fully respectful to women/couples and don’t break the clubs rules and anyone who has have been not aloud back in
When it comes to our event we host greedy girls there. We are very strict to them and all women/couples that attend will not be made to feel uncomfortable in any way . And if anyone does please come speak to us or security there
We hope with the fact this event is now being hosted by ourselves we will get a lot of support from people who attend to show everyone who has issues with Friday night events are unjustified
So we say please look at our event , come to it we would love to see everyone who’s keep on trying event and the club
D&J x"
We have been to Xtasia several times and it has always been very friendly, including Fridays...
Our concern was more about the event and people's expectations...
We're now really looking forward to it even more, thank you everyone xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We avoid clubs on a Friday these days, they tend to all let too many single guys in and they can follow you around and put you off... "
A highly relevant bash of single guys thrown into a thread for good measure.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even though it’s greedy girls night it isn’t a free for all everyone has the right to say no at any point and time people who have a problem with that then they are the problem not yous "
This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We avoid clubs on a Friday these days, they tend to all let too many single guys in and they can follow you around and put you off...
A highly relevant bash of single guys thrown into a thread for good measure. "
Orrible fings mens! 
A simple not this time should suffice. There should be plenty of greedy females taking the pervy little fellas attention leaving you free to observe the debauchery and perhaps try to join in next time. |
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"Even though it’s greedy girls night it isn’t a free for all everyone has the right to say no at any point and time people who have a problem with that then they are the problem not yous
This! "
Yeah, there should never be any expectation that you are going to play in a certain way, or at all...and no one should try to coerce you either...to be fair, most clubs enforce the idea that 'no means no' in their rules and when you sign up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It may be GG event but lots of couples go to clubs just to have a drink and chill in an adult environment. There is never any expectation to play at a couples club night and this is the same for a GGs. I've attended clubs as a single woman and not played. It's not an issue. Hope you have fun xxx |
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Surely it still depends on what you want to do? I don’t think you’re surrendering your rights when you step through the club door. If Kate would rather watch I’m sure she would be allowed to do so. |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
Durham |
"Being a Greedy girl personally I find it awkward and uncomfortable when there are people there not participating it makes me feel like they are judgemental.
It can put a damper on the night."
For me, it depends on who they are and what they’re doing? Little things like telling someone you enjoyed watching them play can make a big difference though |
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"Thank you for your replies everyone xxx"
Can say for sure tonight when you come xtasia greedy girls you will have a lot of fun. There will be a big selection of men women and couples to chat to meet. Flirt and even join in with for fun , if at anytime you have any issues please come find myself or J or any of the staff and we can help you ( your know who we are as your be greeted by us with your free drink and challenge bag if you want to participate). Look forward to seeing you both tonight xx |
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