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To be fair, the only " excuses" we've encountered have been our own. Our play time is very limited sometimes only 3 or 4 times a year. That's down to punishing work life, family time, & a busy social life. It's unfortunate but that's real life. If we arranged a meet would fully understand if someone wanted to rearrange or cancel if necessary. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"To be fair, the only " excuses" we've encountered have been our own. Our play time is very limited sometimes only 3 or 4 times a year. That's down to punishing work life, family time, & a busy social life. It's unfortunate but that's real life. If we arranged a meet would fully understand if someone wanted to rearrange or cancel if necessary. "
Plus are you looking for 'excuses' or what are actually valid reasons, either prior to a meet or during one?
We've called time on a play meet because someone has got over enthusiastic (watching too much porn possibly) and Fox hasn't been enjoying it at all. We've chatted online (and off) and subsequently decided that we don't want to progress anything towards a meet in person.
None have been excuses. They've all been decisions based on what has been said or done, and have been choices we've made together.
One man's (or woman's or couples) excuse is just someone else's valid choice.
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"To be fair, the only " excuses" we've encountered have been our own. Our play time is very limited sometimes only 3 or 4 times a year. That's down to punishing work life, family time, & a busy social life. It's unfortunate but that's real life. If we arranged a meet would fully
understand if someone wanted to rearrange or cancel if necessary.
Plus are you looking for 'excuses' or what are actually valid reasons, either prior to a meet or during one?
We've called time on a play meet because someone has got over enthusiastic (watching too much porn possibly) and Fox hasn't been enjoying it at all. We've chatted online (and off) and subsequently decided that we don't want to progress anything towards a meet in person.
None have been excuses. They've all been decisions based on what has been said or done, and have been choices we've made together.
One man's (or woman's or couples) excuse is just someone else's valid choice.
A"
Just to clarify we were just looking at excuses people had encountered no to meet or to stop play. We were looking at the genuine ones to the damn right nasty, we are just inquisitive to how people have dealt with these. We like to think that we would always do our homework prior to meets and would alway try our best to meet someone, the only one time when we couldn't unfortunately was when me had plurisy, we feel that is one of the genuine valid reasons. |
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"To be fair, the only " excuses" we've encountered have been our own. Our play time is very limited sometimes only 3 or 4 times a year. That's down to punishing work life, family time, & a busy social life. It's unfortunate but that's real life. If we arranged a meet would fully understand if someone wanted to rearrange or cancel if necessary.
Plus are you looking for 'excuses' or what are actually valid reasons, either prior to a meet or during one?
We've called time on a play meet because someone has got over enthusiastic (watching too much porn possibly) and Fox hasn't been enjoying it at all. We've chatted online (and off) and subsequently decided that we don't want to progress anything towards a meet in person.
None have been excuses. They've all been decisions based on what has been said or done, and have been choices we've made together.
One man's (or woman's or couples) excuse is just someone else's valid choice.
A"
We pulled the plug on a cpl in a club when the male suddenly decided he wanted to go bare back.
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"To be fair, the only " excuses" we've encountered have been our own. Our play time is very limited sometimes only 3 or 4 times a year. That's down to punishing work life, family time, & a busy social life. It's unfortunate but that's real life. If we arranged a meet would fully understand if someone wanted to rearrange or cancel if necessary.
Plus are you looking for 'excuses' or what are actually valid reasons, either prior to a meet or during one?
We've called time on a play meet because someone has got over enthusiastic (watching too much porn possibly) and Fox hasn't been enjoying it at all. We've chatted online (and off) and subsequently decided that we don't want to progress anything towards a meet in person.
None have been excuses. They've all been decisions based on what has been said or done, and have been choices we've made together.
One man's (or woman's or couples) excuse is just someone else's valid choice.
A
We pulled the plug on a cpl in a club when the male suddenly decided he wanted to go bare back.
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Tbf that is something which we have done too even after mentioning in chats before, we found it so disrespectful and yeah pulled the plug with that person and cut all communication |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"To be fair, the only " excuses" we've encountered have been our own. Our play time is very limited sometimes only 3 or 4 times a year. That's down to punishing work life, family time, & a busy social life. It's unfortunate but that's real life. If we arranged a meet would fully understand if someone wanted to rearrange or cancel if necessary.
Plus are you looking for 'excuses' or what are actually valid reasons, either prior to a meet or during one?
We've called time on a play meet because someone has got over enthusiastic (watching too much porn possibly) and Fox hasn't been enjoying it at all. We've chatted online (and off) and subsequently decided that we don't want to progress anything towards a meet in person.
None have been excuses. They've all been decisions based on what has been said or done, and have been choices we've made together.
One man's (or woman's or couples) excuse is just someone else's valid choice.
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We pulled the plug on a cpl in a club when the male suddenly decided he wanted to go bare back.
Tbf that is something which we have done too even after mentioning in chats before, we found it so disrespectful and yeah pulled the plug with that person and cut all communication "
Never experienced it yet thankfully as its one of the first things mentioned.
Would result in a swift 'cock swat' from me and a rapid end to proceedings, as generally I initially sit back and observe so am always keeping an eye out for Fox.
No guy we've ever invited to join us has been daft enough to suggest it.
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"To be fair, the only " excuses" we've encountered have been our own. Our play time is very limited sometimes only 3 or 4 times a year. That's down to punishing work life, family time, & a busy social life. It's unfortunate but that's real life. If we arranged a meet would fully understand if someone wanted to rearrange or cancel if necessary.
Plus are you looking for 'excuses' or what are actually valid reasons, either prior to a meet or during one?
We've called time on a play meet because someone has got over enthusiastic (watching too much porn possibly) and Fox hasn't been enjoying it at all. We've chatted online (and off) and subsequently decided that we don't want to progress anything towards a meet in person.
None have been excuses. They've all been decisions based on what has been said or done, and have been choices we've made together.
One man's (or woman's or couples) excuse is just someone else's valid choice.
A
We pulled the plug on a cpl in a club when the male suddenly decided he wanted to go bare back.
Tbf that is something which we have done too even after mentioning in chats before, we found it so disrespectful and yeah pulled the plug with that person and cut all communication
Never experienced it yet thankfully as its one of the first things mentioned.
Would result in a swift 'cock swat' from me and a rapid end to proceedings, as generally I initially sit back and observe so am always keeping an eye out for Fox.
No guy we've ever invited to join us has been daft enough to suggest it.
A"
That's been the only one to try to be fair. When he smirked an said "just this once" was left in no doubt where he'd end up if he even tried.
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Not really an 'excuse' as such, but we did meet one couple socially. I (Mr) then needed to explain that nothing else could happen because the other female looked like, and had very similar mannerisms to my sister. Even sitting there doing 'naughty chat' weirded me out!  |
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