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over a year ago
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If I message someone and don't get a reply I take that as a no.
What's the point in remessaging again and again , if there interested they'll get back to you ......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps it's because you pester them. I log on sometimes and have tonnes of messages. I read one and by the time I've reached the top they have sent me another three messages " well then?" " what's your answer ffs?" " rude bitch, I didn't want to meet you anyway". This is something that happens a lot with men, there is no justification for " hassling" someone. Some of the men who have done this would have got a meet if they hadn't of been so rude. |
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Just as a heads up, traditionally this sort of thread is made on a Thursday Robbie. 
In all serious though some women on here have that many messages in a day they can't message all of them, they would never have the time.
That's why I have introduced a service where I will receive messages on any one of my single bi female accounts where you will receive a sympathetic and considered reply.
I will of course be compensated for my time. (financially)*
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*Price is based on a per word basis and if you want a sympathetic 'no' or a sexually orientated correspondence of multiple messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I reply even to say no. However I don't reply if somebody didn't read my profile as on my profile it says what I'm looking for so if a guy is not what I'm looking for I can't be bothered to waste my time replying if they couldn't be bothered to read my profile!
Also just in the last hour I got 43 emails it gets to the point where you can't reply to everybody.
And sometimes I say sorry but I'm not interested and I get lots if abuse back, it puts you off replying to the next guy.
So it's really simple why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are so many ppl on here ignorant would it kill them to simply say no thanks and they wonder why ppl pester them.
Sorry for moaning xx  "
No response = no thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I message someone and don't get a reply I take that as a no.
What's the point in remessaging again and again , if there interested they'll get back to you ...... "
Life is frankly too short to worry..or fret.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have filters set and still get too many messages to reply to each day
I get messages for not replying and even when I have took the time to message back I get pestered, can't win either way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a shame that people respond to a kind no pretty badly... Not everyone attracts everyone and it's really nothing personal. I'd take no offence to a kind "Sorry but no thanks" or similar, and just move on! I don't think I'd even take offence to just "No" haha
Not everyone works for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As I said I don't worry about non replies. I wouldn't personally ignore any message but if I had the number of messages ladies and couples get I may have a different _iew.
Today I sent a message to a new lady user, welcoming her to FAB asking her to maybe look at my profile if she had time but if not for her then I wish her well on the site...
She didn't reply (which was fine) and she blocked me...which I found strange but guess she had had hassles before from people she had not replied to.
As is say life is too short.....
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" and they wonder why ppl pester them.
and there in lies the answer........"
exactly.. if you dont get a reply go away.. if you send another before you get a reply (we always reply at our convenience) then you will get an automatic block. dont care what site we are on no need to pester anyone just makes you look and sound needy and desperate. if you send multiple messages you deserve to get ignored as thats rude as well. |
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