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Ok one member asked if we could start a discussion on glory holes as we were discussing how faces are important to us unless it's a glory hole.
As a woman, if 10 men queued up to play with you at a glory hole in a club. You found all of them unattractive, would you still get into the glory hole knowing this? |
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"Equally from the other side, if you are waiting for a glory hole to open and you saw an unattractive person going behind it would you carry on?"
Good question
I couldn't do glory hole. Porno make it out it's really erotic full of hot sexy people. In reality, is this really true? |
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"Ok one member asked if we could start a discussion on glory holes as we were discussing how faces are important to us unless it's a glory hole.
As a woman, if 10 men queued up to play with you at a glory hole in a club. You found all of them unattractive, would you still get into the glory hole knowing this?"
That's not how they normally work, you don't see who's going in. Someone (or more than one person) goes in and cocks appear, you wouldn't normally know who they are. |
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I guess we all see this very differently...
Historically the gh has been a male to male thing, but it is now evolving into something else,as swingers and sex clubs create their own versions..
Many use the gay sauna type model or the chezch type.
My take on it as a gh host is based on anonymity..We don't see each other so attraction doesn't come into it ..I prefer to use my imagination and just enjoy it.
It seems the trend to police the active participants, for a safer sex outcome, again it's personal choice and I do understand the reasons as this involves penetrative sex, this would take away the spontaneous angle and make it quite organised.
I think the similarities between a dark room and gloryhole exist..In this set up you wouldn't know if the 10 men queuing were attractive or not and I think this is the reason why for many people, the gloryhole is not for them.. |
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"Ok one member asked if we could start a discussion on glory holes as we were discussing how faces are important to us unless it's a glory hole.
As a woman, if 10 men queued up to play with you at a glory hole in a club. You found all of them unattractive, would you still get into the glory hole knowing this?
That's not how they normally work, you don't see who's going in. Someone (or more than one person) goes in and cocks appear, you wouldn't normally know who they are. "
Yes I do understand that how it normally works. But what if you had an opportunity to see who was queuing? |
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"Ok one member asked if we could start a discussion on glory holes as we were discussing how faces are important to us unless it's a glory hole.
As a woman, if 10 men queued up to play with you at a glory hole in a club. You found all of them unattractive, would you still get into the glory hole knowing this?
That's not how they normally work, you don't see who's going in. Someone (or more than one person) goes in and cocks appear, you wouldn't normally know who they are.
Yes I do understand that how it normally works. But what if you had an opportunity to see who was queuing?"
Perhaps Women would respond differently to Men..
Would this depend on how you are feeling at the time..horny? fussy?or would you simply refuse regardless, if all 10 men were unattractive..
I think I would make sure that I found one or two attractive.. |
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We have both done this at a club and wasn’t that over enamoured with the choice of offerings.. out of the half dozen that were on offer only 1 turned up hard and he lost his hard on after a minute or two.. so porn films have a lot to answer for…. And yes we did both suck the guy together and they knew it was a bi couple on the other side x |
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I dont want to see who it is the other side of the wall, and if I did see them then it might put me off, it's hard to tell... but for me, gh is about the not knowing the anonymity of it all so I much prefer not knowing who they are and I can imagine they are anyone lol.
I have been put off by offerings through the gh and have chosen not to play with some cocks but I'm in the gh so I totally get to pick and choose...
So nope, I don't think I'd wanna see them first
Vixen x |
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Good question
I couldn't do glory hole. Porno make it out it's really erotic full of hot sexy people. In reality, is this really true?"
That's a shame, I was hoping to meet you at a glory hole one day |
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What a great debate - my fave club pastime if I’m honest …
I genuinely don’t care who’s on the other side and I don’t want that to sound crude , but hey if they know how to work a cock then I’m happy |
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"What a great debate - my fave club pastime if I’m honest …
I genuinely don’t care who’s on the other side and I don’t want that to sound crude , but hey if they know how to work a cock then I’m happy "
Totally this... should be about the not knowing surely.... |
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"Ok one member asked if we could start a discussion on glory holes as we were discussing how faces are important to us unless it's a glory hole.
As a woman, if 10 men queued up to play with you at a glory hole in a club. You found all of them unattractive, would you still get into the glory hole knowing this?"
100% wouldn’t go in.
Shallow? Maybe.
Not that I care I get turned on by attractive people, not by getting a semi-hard sausage flung up my
Sasha |
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"What a great debate - my fave club pastime if I’m honest …
I genuinely don’t care who’s on the other side and I don’t want that to sound crude , but hey if they know how to work a cock then I’m happy "
What if the sex is terrible, can you tell them to stop? |
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"What a great debate - my fave club pastime if I’m honest …
I genuinely don’t care who’s on the other side and I don’t want that to sound crude , but hey if they know how to work a cock then I’m happy
What if the sex is terrible, can you tell them to stop?"
It has to be consenting, you can stop at anytime...
The sucker rather that the suckee is in charge..
If you are fucking, I imagine a stop word is agreed.. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
I don’t have any person experience of glory holes and it’s not something I’ve ever been particularly interested in but isn’t the whole point of a glory hole that neither person knows who’s on the other side? So if a man’s in the glory hole he doesn’t know who’s sucking his dick and the person on the other side doesn’t know who’s dick they’re sucking? Otherwise what’s the point of them? What’s the point in 2 people seeing each other face to face, then one goes behind a screen, puts his dick in a hole and the other person sucks it? They might as well just do it face to face….my understanding is that the exciting thing about glory holes is the anonymity, I don’t think it’s the physical act of standing behind a screen with their dick in a hole or sucking a dick that’s poking through a hole in a screen that’s exciting, it’s the mystery and risk that’s exciting which are both taken away if you see each others faces before hand. That’s like blindfolding someone with cling film, or tying someone to a bed using a single thread of cotton…absolutely pointless. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Never see much happening how it should be at chams. Last time we went Mr ended up getting sucked off by a woman on the same side along with 2 others. That was hot to see "
Do you mean he was sucked off by a woman on the same side as he was? So they were face to face? |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Nope. For me there's no point in sex without desire, and anon-knobs would have me drier than a saltine "
So do you mean that you’d suck a dick that was poking through a flirt hole as long as you knew whose dick it was and you were attracted to him?
Would you be ok with him not knowing who was sucking his cock while you’re sucking it? |
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"Nope. For me there's no point in sex without desire, and anon-knobs would have me drier than a saltine
So do you mean that you’d suck a dick that was poking through a flirt hole as long as you knew whose dick it was and you were attracted to him?
Would you be ok with him not knowing who was sucking his cock while you’re sucking it?"
Yep, but as said previously it kinda defeats the point.
As long as he was happy about it, sure! |
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I personally love them, my husband usually watches, partly for his own pleasure, partly to make sure the condom I hold out is actually used.
To know who is on the other side would ruin the mystery for me. And that's the bit I think the most appealing. I have enough tattoos that the ladies and gents who opt to play will know it's me but unless they come clean, I have no idea and that's personally a turn on.
I have however stopped it if it wasn't good. I tap on them or on the surround till they stop then just pull myself back through. I haven't told them it wasn't good as that's just my preference, someone else could find them mindblowing, that's the fun thing about sex, there's something for everyone |
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By *9alMan
over a year ago
Bridgend |
"I guess the link is the unknown, letting your imagination run away. I (Mr) love the idea of the Mrs going into a glory hole, and I watch "
I have a Glory hole & have used many, you can imagine who is on the other side, the realty would probably be a disappointment |
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"Ok one member asked if we could start a discussion on glory holes as we were discussing how faces are important to us unless it's a glory hole.
As a woman, if 10 men queued up to play with you at a glory hole in a club. You found all of them unattractive, would you still get into the glory hole knowing this?"
Interesting question. I see a few people have commented along the lines of this is not how they happen. I think this misses the point of the question which is more of what philosophers call a "thought experiment" - an imaginary scenario to try to pin point thoughts on a particular issue.
I think lots would not get into the glory hole if they had seen the faces before and found them unattractive as some had commented so faces are important even if just sucking a cock so "faces are important even if glory hole" if you see them. Of course rarely do so perhaps better phrase "faces are important unless a glory hole in which case they are irrelevant in practice".
Another interesting one is dark rooms. People get in and can't see very much, if anything, and have fun. If they could see people beforehand would they get in? Many would not. Or if the lights were suddenly turned on for 10 seconds and then off again would you stay or leave? I guess many might leave. The whole experience changes once the mystery goes. Some things the mind doesn't want to know
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"I dont want to see who it is the other side of the wall, and if I did see them then it might put me off, it's hard to tell... but for me, gh is about the not knowing the anonymity of it all so I much prefer not knowing who they are and I can imagine they are anyone lol.
I have been put off by offerings through the gh and have chosen not to play with some cocks but I'm in the gh so I totally get to pick and choose...
So nope, I don't think I'd wanna see them first
Vixen x "
Yes I agree, my feelings too. Particularly enjoy the Czech-style GH. The excitement comes from not knowing who are what is going to happen and when I come out not knowing who it was.
J x |
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"I dont want to see who it is the other side of the wall, and if I did see them then it might put me off, it's hard to tell... but for me, gh is about the not knowing the anonymity of it all so I much prefer not knowing who they are and I can imagine they are anyone lol.
What's a Czech glory hole?
I have been put off by offerings through the gh and have chosen not to play with some cocks but I'm in the gh so I totally get to pick and choose...
So nope, I don't think I'd wanna see them first
Vixen x
Yes I agree, my feelings too. Particularly enjoy the Czech-style GH. The excitement comes from not knowing who are what is going to happen and when I come out not knowing who it was.
J x"
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Never sure on how the males side of it works, especially on a solid wall glory hole. I'd have my cock through the wall, then a hard, solid slab of wall right in front of me. Kinda weird having something so close to your face that's blank, it's not like looking down and seeing your cock sinking into someone or the rest of the room. Do they draw cartoons at eye level? How does it work out if you can't focus on a wall being that close in front of your face? Close eyes or get eye strain??
Also balance too. If it's a flat wall, anything to grip to keep your closer and pushing your nob through the hole? |
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I’ve been entertaining visitors to my gloryhole at home for about 3 years now. The key thing for me is that I’m attracted to their cock. I love the idea that I could walk past someone in the street or be introduced in another context and have no idea that I’ve been their cocksucker. Some lads might have a face pic on their profile and if I’m attracted to them or indifferent and they’ve got a nice cock I’ll meet them. The other key thing for me about the experience is giving pleasure. So satisfying hearing their enjoyment at my skills. My set up is with a fabric gloryhole that has some batons above and below the hole to keep the middle bit flat which is good if they want me to record (many lads like to see themselves being worshiped on my profile afterward). The fabric gloryhole is good as you can hear everything through it and it flexes with the thrusting. When you’re having fun, it feels like there’s hardly any barrier at between you which is especially great for fucking. |
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"I dont want to see who it is the other side of the wall, and if I did see them then it might put me off, it's hard to tell... but for me, gh is about the not knowing the anonymity of it all so I much prefer not knowing who they are and I can imagine they are anyone lol.
What's a Czech glory hole?
I have been put off by offerings through the gh and have chosen not to play with some cocks but I'm in the gh so I totally get to pick and choose...
So nope, I don't think I'd wanna see them first
Vixen x
Yes I agree, my feelings too. Particularly enjoy the Czech-style GH. The excitement comes from not knowing who are what is going to happen and when I come out not knowing who it was.
J x"
This deleted for some reason. What's a czech glory hole? |
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By *empusMan
over a year ago
Poole |
"I guess the link is the unknown, letting your imagination run away. I (Mr) love the idea of the Mrs going into a glory hole, and I watch "
I love the idea of Mrs in a glory hole too... wow, hot pics! xxx
I’ve never been to one but think I would enjoy it, definitely on the to-do list |
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I think the whole point of the glory hole is that neither side knows what the other looks like. The person doing the sucking can objectively choose to suck the most amazing cock without the distraction of who it's attached to. And yes, both of us have been in the sucking side, it's entirely possible you had your cock sucked by both of us. |
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By *M737Couple
over a year ago
Thanet |
"Ok one member asked if we could start a discussion on glory holes as we were discussing how faces are important to us unless it's a glory hole.
As a woman, if 10 men queued up to play with you at a glory hole in a club. You found all of them unattractive, would you still get into the glory hole knowing this?"
As long as it’s hard, I’ll suck it x |
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I would live to do a glory hole. The idea of not know who was fucking me adds to that so it wouldn't matter what they looked like to me.
What puts me off even looking for a local glory hole (if one even exists) is th3 lack of control I have over the men wearing protection. I would, for sure need a spotter I trusted to make sure they all glove up |
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