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Are many women put off if a guy states he’s Bi on his profile?
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Wondering if many women overlook men who openly state they’re bi or have verifications from other men that clearly show they swing both ways?
Would many women see this as a definite attraction?
I get quite a few men message me and visit the gloryhole who don’t accept messages from singles guys and who definitely don’t want me to verify them as they want to keep their curious/bi side under wraps from potential female play partners. Some have two accounts. One for the straight play and one for their bi/gay selves. Are they making life unnecessarily complicated or is this a good move on their part? |
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over a year ago
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"Are they making life unnecessarily complicated or is this a good move on their part? "
To us that deceiving.
If someone doesn't like that we are both curious then clearly we are not for them.... we certainly wouldn't gaslight someone to get in with them!
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Bi-sexuality doesn't bother me in the slightest, but being into risky sex play would make me more cautious about having sex with someone. If they are fucking random men bareback every night and never getting tested I'm less inclined to want their cock in me  |
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Many straight guys message me and ask for meets but they don't have CD/TV are a 'looked for' category. Usually they just have MF couples and females.
I have also had multiplr people say they don't verify because they think a meet with a CD/TV will put off women.
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"Many straight guys message me and ask for meets but they don't have CD/TV are a 'looked for' category. Usually they just have MF couples and females.
I have also had multiplr people say they don't verify because they think a meet with a CD/TV will put off women.
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Yep this is soooo common x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we put on our profile only looking for straight men. Its our preference and also have had a few bad experiences in the past.
Everyone is different though that’s what makes fab so interesting
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"Bi-sexuality doesn't bother me in the slightest, but being into risky sex play would make me more cautious about having sex with someone. If they are fucking random men bareback every night and never getting tested I'm less inclined to want their cock in me "
This for me too. I love it when a man is sexually open minded but if I see loads of bare back photos /veris from other men and women that would put me off! |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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Feel some get very sanctimonious/judgemental on Fab. This is just another example, and dislike the double standard regards bi woman and bi guy's intensely!!
That said it's up to each and everyone one of us how we portray ourselves on here and up to others whether they choose to connect.
Neither of us feel we deserve to every detail of those we engage with and everybody's comfort level as to what they 'reveal' here is different.
As long as we're not cat fished and play is consensual and boundaries honoured we're good!  |
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"Are they making life unnecessarily complicated or is this a good move on their part?
To us that deceiving.
If someone doesn't like that we are both curious then clearly we are not for them.... we certainly wouldn't gaslight someone to get in with them!
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I love this answer.
We may not be everyone's cup of tea, but we are true to who we are and when we get to spend quality time with people being bi does not divide our ability to please, quite the opposite in fact. |
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"Bi-sexuality doesn't bother me in the slightest, but being into risky sex play would make me more cautious about having sex with someone. If they are fucking random men bareback every night and never getting tested I'm less inclined to want their cock in me
This for me too. I love it when a man is sexually open minded but if I see loads of bare back photos /veris from other men and women that would put me off! "
Bare back from anyone would put me off, not just from same-sex, we reserve that for each other. |
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We both have bisexual set on our profile, I (hubby) have only just come out, so not willing to hide who I am any more.
We are happy to play straight as well, always safe sex, but there are plenty of people who would still like to play if it is off putting |
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"Many straight guys message me and ask for meets but they don't have CD/TV are a 'looked for' category. Usually they just have MF couples and females.
I have also had multiplr people say they don't verify because they think a meet with a CD/TV will put off women.
Yep this is soooo common x"
Third   almost a daily occurrence. |
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Almost need two accounts
1 as straight male to meet women and straight couples
Other account as bi curious to explore bi curiosities and to meet bi couples, maybe guy.
As otherwise currently not explored bi side so as categories go I’m still straight!
But being ignored by those not wanting a bi guy, or not able to message and bi couples aren’t interested due to no experience and put off by way over the top eager bi/gay guys who quite frankly some shouldn’t be outside let alone on a hook up site  |
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"Are they making life unnecessarily complicated or is this a good move on their part?
To us that deceiving.
If someone doesn't like that we are both curious then clearly we are not for them.... we certainly wouldn't gaslight someone to get in with them!
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Perfectly put.
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By (user no longer on site)
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As a couple who have met bi guys, as long as they know that with us there playing straight with us then theres no issues, that goes for bi women or couples with any element of bi.
we do however still both get propositions as if were for turning. |
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