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Is Swinging a physical or psychological thrill..
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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
Mainly for couples really, but all others more than welcome  
We've discussed with couples that while extremely enjoyable playing with others is possibly the mental thrill than physical gratification.
When you have sex with your partner, nobody else can (with the exception of regular play friends over a decent time) can know the little things that push you over the edge..
Maybe the naughty thrill of doing something society frowns on, the kick of someone new, watching your partner, doing things impossible with lust you two (improvisation with toy's aside ) 'reclaim' sex after, social elements etc..
Thoughts please x
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It's Definitely a big turn on mentally.Totally agree that for it to get to a point of being totally satisfying you need to really meet up more times to know what buttons to press.We love the excitement and anticipation of meeting new people who hopefully will become naughty friends.Also as a couple it can be difficult to actually be both totally attracted to both in another couple that has always been problematic sadly.  |
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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
"It's Definitely a big turn on mentally.Totally agree that for it to get to a point of being totally satisfying you need to really meet up more times to know what buttons to press.We love the excitement and anticipation of meeting new people who hopefully will become naughty friends.Also as a couple it can be difficult to actually be both totally attracted to both in another couple that has always been problematic sadly. "
Yes, in agreement! Mutual attraction is a stumbling point we find |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mainly for couples really, but all others more than welcome
We've discussed with couples that while extremely enjoyable playing with others is possibly the mental thrill than physical gratification.
When you have sex with your partner, nobody else can (with the exception of regular play friends over a decent time) can know the little things that push you over the edge..
Maybe the naughty thrill of doing something society frowns on, the kick of someone new, watching your partner, doing things impossible with lust you two (improvisation with toy's aside ) 'reclaim' sex after, social elements etc..
Thoughts please x
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I totally agree when you say that nothing beats being intimate with your partner. But with swinging, for us it's the sharing of pleasure with other people that we find horny. Knowing that we are both getting turned on watching each other be pleasured by someone else, or giving pleasure to someone else, is what we love...if that even makes sense haha
Mrs |
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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
"Mainly for couples really, but all others more than welcome
We've discussed with couples that while extremely enjoyable playing with others is possibly the mental thrill than physical gratification.
When you have sex with your partner, nobody else can (with the exception of regular play friends over a decent time) can know the little things that push you over the edge..
Maybe the naughty thrill of doing something society frowns on, the kick of someone new, watching your partner, doing things impossible with lust you two (improvisation with toy's aside ) 'reclaim' sex after, social elements etc..
Thoughts please x
I totally agree when you say that nothing beats being intimate with your partner. But with swinging, for us it's the sharing of pleasure with other people that we find horny. Knowing that we are both getting turned on watching each other be pleasured by someone else, or giving pleasure to someone else, is what we love...if that even makes sense haha
Mrs"
Absolutely the point! Unadulterated pleasure without hindrance.. Looking in each others eyes at 'that' moment.. Wow!!! |
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