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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Any advice for a fresh couple to the scene.....???
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I see that you’ve stated on your profile that you don’t give anyone permission to share your pictures so you don’t need any advice regarding being wary and staying safe online as you’ve made it impossible for anyone to share your pictures and you obviously know what you’re doing in that regard.
One piece of advice I’ll give you is don’t let someone who you’ve only known for about an hour gag you and tie you to his bed by your wrists and ankles, even if he promises to be gentle with you and untie you at the end of the night….I wish someone had given me that advice |
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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago
Nr Brighton 1 till 5pm areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat |
Meet men aswell as women
Reply to everyone
Be nice
Have fun
WATCH OUT THERE ARE SOME WEIRDO RETARD KNOBS on here smashed out of there brains on blue pill or sniff rubbish.
Most have no photos
Xxxx
Terry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meet men aswell as women
Reply to everyone
Be nice
Have fun
WATCH OUT THERE ARE SOME WEIRDO RETARD KNOBS on here smashed out of there brains on blue pill or sniff rubbish.
Most have no photos
Xxxx
Terry"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meet men aswell as women
Reply to everyone
Be nice
Have fun
WATCH OUT THERE ARE SOME WEIRDO RETARD KNOBS on here smashed out of there brains on blue pill or sniff rubbish.
Most have no photos
Xxxx
Terry
Why do they need to reply to everyone? "
Was thinking the same? |
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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire/Northwest |
Make sure you know your boundaries.
Be open and honest in your fantasies and what you feel isn't working, communication is key between you.
Don't take it seriously and if you go to events, just enjoy with no expectations.
Don't respond to all messages because if you end up blocking all men for example they can still message you unless you block individually. |
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My biggest advice would be don't overthink it, at some point just go for it.
The first time is not likely to go well, but then you will have a better idea of what you are looking for and how you feel about swinging.
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By *izredCouple
over a year ago
mid cornwall |
If you like Podcasts, listen to the some episodes of the Bedhoppers podcast - it's a great way to hear about some of the highs and lows of being involved in this madness 
Also, try to get to a club - its a great way of exposing your self to the lifestyle and getting a feel for if it's what you want.
Enjoy |
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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago
galway |
Don't overthink it as has been mentioned.
Don't be nieve as I was when I first joined. I found out the hard way that there aren't very nice people on here.
There can be clicks, decided yourself what you think about them.
Always play safe and never get to d*unk.
Enjoy the excitement and nerves on your first meet.
Most importantly, just enjoy your time here. Once you've had your first few meets, you will say to yourself why didn't you do this sooner!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More and better pictures of him. Lots of cock pics means nothing when you can see what it’s attached to.
Don’t expect anything as the site can get demoralising if you expect too much.
Set your email filters.
Don’t live on the site.
Be lighthearted about the whole experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be yourselves, enjoy the social elements first and whatever happens will happen. Too many people try and force things onto others and it comes across as super thirsty.
Also as a couple if this is your first time dipping your toes in make sure you de brief fully after each meet and talk about what you liked and did not like. It's all a learning curve that gets better and better each time. |
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Delete any profile references to Sydney university, copyright claims, ownership or sharing of images.
Discuss what you both want
Discuss it again
Go to a club
Repeat the discussion.
I sound like a dick. But try it
And have fun
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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago
Central France dept 36 |
I’ve got lost of advice but my biggest piece of advice after many years on here and over 35 years in the lifestyle is to ignore big t and his advice.
Enjoy things your way.
99.9% of men just want tho chuck their muck.
Be true you both of yourselves and don’t take things too seriously.
Tony |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any advice for a fresh couple to the scene.....???
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the more you over think things the less you'll try. set your own boundaries but go with the flow, you might find that you want to change your boundaries as you go and work out between you how you do that |
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Good luck on here though 
