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So the main thing I have been hoping to find is a long term sex buddy/FWB. Someone I know the sex is amazing, we can hold a conversation, texting and keeping touch and occasionally have nights in with a takeaway/films and lots of naughty fun sending me home in the morning exhausted .
However it seems that 99% of the guys on here are after a quickie and to just shoot their load as fast as possible.
My hubby reckons that the guys I’m looking for don’t exist in this type of place and I fear he may be right.. what do you think, am I dreaming and should I lower my expectations and go along with the quickies? |
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They do exist but like most things not everyone is honest about what they are looking for and it's never as simple as two people looking for a fwb unless they are compatible.
I have a long term fwb here and we knew each other a couple of years before even discussing the fwb tag.
We put equally if not more emphasis on the friendship part as we do on the benefits but it takes both to be on the same page right from the start and requires patience. |
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By *ick34Man
over a year ago
Overton |
there is a few of us around I love the FWB I am looking for that relationship for days out country walks cosy pub lunches but having the benefit of sometimes just having fun in bed on those occasions when you nee that close comfort |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree I don't think they exist either and the ones that do rarely ends well as people can catch feelings especially. Some people confuse fwb with fb, 9 times out of 10 they want a booty call and nothing more. |
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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago
wirral |
We had a regular guy for a year and it was fun. It definitely can happen. But it took speaking to lots of guys to find someone that was serious about it.
Something we will be looking for again soon but I understand it takes time and a good bullshit filter.
Good luck.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi OP,
Don’t think it’s impossible, anything is possible, but remember there is very thin line between friendship and proper relationship, it’s easy to go a step to fare and one will want more than just friendship and fuck. It’s a risky game.
Keep trying.  |
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I don't want anything exclusive, but I do want to have something better than one off fuck and go. Ideally I would like friends, people that I can get to know through repeat meetings, who I can talk about books with, or watch netflix together, cook food in each others houses, criticise each others clothing styles, give lifts to the tip when clearing out the garage, share a weekend break at Cleethorpes or Cardiff or Coventry with... And once in a while if we feel like it, yes have a fuck. But without any sense of ownership, in fact even taking delight that the others have got themselves some others, getting happiness out of their happiness...
Yeah, it is improbable, maybe even impossible. But a girl has to have some sort of dream. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
What you’ve described is basically what the majority of men want…regular sex without any real commitment is the ideal situation for most men….considering how difficult it is for men to find just one woman who’s even remotely interested in chatting, let alone meeting, on this site why on earth would 99% of them prefer to meet once and then return to the excruciatingly painful and seemingly endless search to find another woman to meet rather than carrying on meeting the same woman regularly without any commitment? I think most men, if they’re being honest, would tell you that meeting a stranger for a quickie and leaving straight after is a lot less enjoyable than meeting someone you have established a connection with and feel safe and comfortable with for a prolonged period.
I’m very surprised that you’re finding it so difficult to find what you want because I reckon most men would relish the opportunity to enjoy that kind of relationship with you. |
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"Thanks, it’s always good to get others opinions and it’s nice to see that’s it’s a mixed bag too quite reassuring. I would love to meet guys in the real world but I wouldn’t know how lol
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I'm in the similar position. I'm not overly keen on one nighters but think I deserve more than being used as a sex toy. I get more stimulation out of knowing the person well. But most of the messages i get on here are thinking I'm their wank bank. Especially at this time in the morning!  |
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"What you’ve described is basically what the majority of men want…regular sex without any real commitment is the ideal situation for most men….considering how difficult it is for men to find just one woman who’s even remotely interested in chatting, let alone meeting, on this site why on earth would 99% of them prefer to meet once and then return to the excruciatingly painful and seemingly endless search to find another woman to meet rather than carrying on meeting the same woman regularly without any commitment? I think most men, if they’re being honest, would tell you that meeting a stranger for a quickie and leaving straight after is a lot less enjoyable than meeting someone you have established a connection with and feel safe and comfortable with for a prolonged period.
I’m very surprised that you’re finding it so difficult to find what you want because I reckon most men would relish the opportunity to enjoy that kind of relationship with you. "
Disagree from my experience from fab. Maybe they struggle with knowing how to behave with the opposite sex, most are socially very immature |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is possible to find someone for FWB but I wouldn’t say it’s common. When I was a single lady on here I was looking for the same but struggled to find anyone wanting the same.
Then I found T on here and we ended up married 
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"It is possible to find someone for FWB but I wouldn’t say it’s common. When I was a single lady on here I was looking for the same but struggled to find anyone wanting the same.
Then I found T on here and we ended up married
Mrs "
Lucky you, I do hear many swingers meeting on fab and marrying. Just got to read a billion unsuitable messages to find a decent guy who mature enough to create fwb or even fall in love with the right person. I get way too many weird messages and my profile isn't even the type to encourage it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is possible to find someone for FWB but I wouldn’t say it’s common. When I was a single lady on here I was looking for the same but struggled to find anyone wanting the same.
Then I found T on here and we ended up married
Mrs
Lucky you, I do hear many swingers meeting on fab and marrying. Just got to read a billion unsuitable messages to find a decent guy who mature enough to create fwb or even fall in love with the right person. I get way too many weird messages and my profile isn't even the type to encourage it "
I was really lucky! I had pretty much given up all hope and then T sent me a really normal message and we went from there. It’s a shame that there’s so much spam and weirdos to get through because there’s some genuinely amazing gents on here
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"So the main thing I have been hoping to find is a long term sex buddy/FWB. Someone I know the sex is amazing, we can hold a conversation, texting and keeping touch and occasionally have nights in with a takeaway/films and lots of naughty fun sending me home in the morning exhausted .
However it seems that 99% of the guys on here are after a quickie and to just shoot their load as fast as possible.
My hubby reckons that the guys I’m looking for don’t exist in this type of place and I fear he may be right.. what do you think, am I dreaming and should I lower my expectations and go along with the quickies? "
They exist for sure, although I'm probably after what you think 99% of blokes are looking for now. I had a 5 year fwb from here. |
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Well Hay and I have been FWB for about 10 years, which includes a long period where there was no sex, just chatting/emailing and the occasional pub. We met through the other place and only got a profile on here after we started playing as a couple.
I do think it takes time though. |
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As a cuckold couple it can be difficult finding a long-term fuck buddy that is happy to fit in with a ‘regular lifestyle’ go out for a drink, meal, that sort of thing as well as the regular sex. Most looking for one-offs rather than regular commitment.
I appreciate that’s not everyone on here but harder to find long term fun on here than you’d think ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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FWB do exist, but both of you have to be after the same thing to begin with and the dynamic has to be there too, i.e the pair of you have to get along, enjoy each others company outside as well as inside the bedroom, be on similar sexual wavelengths and be available to meet regularly enough to satisfy each other. That is the holy grail of FWB as far as I'm concerned and I have been lucky enough to find and enjoy this dynamic in the past with a girl only afew miles away from me. Unfortunately she has since moved away and while we're still very much friends, the benefits side is now hampered abit by logistics and distance.
It's a shame you only seem to find the "fuck and go" type guys, but on the flip side I've chatted with quite afew women on fab who seem seriously uncomfortable with the idea of a meet being anything but sex, which I respect, but for FWB I can't see the harm in repeat meets also including chats, walks, or a drink, and potentially a meal out together, cinema etc. But I suppose that's my definition of FWB versus someone else's definition; which I'd more describe as fuck buddy/NSA dynamic. I do understand some women may see FWB as a road to acquiring a clingy, possessive or jealous guy who suddenly expects monogamy, cohabitation, marriage and kids, but I'd guess that risk is pretty rare! Were all adults and on a swinging site after all! Lol |
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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago
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I have a FWB. We have been each others lives for past 4 years. But we have the respect to know thats exactly what it is. We spend time together and text everyday, but not in each pockets. He is one of my closest friends and even without the benefits, we will always be there for one another.
We are happy, it works well. But unless someone is stating they want a regular FWB, then you will have to just keep looking.
I think men may think that a reg fwb will try and change them or manipulate them into going down the "couples" route.. (and vice versa with men trying to get the female to be exclusive) that is one thing I have never done with a reg fwb... isn't my jam.
Just be prepared to search and if or when you do find one, male sure that there isnt a nutter lurking in the background... lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" We spend time together and text everyday, but not in each pockets. He is one of my closest friends and even without the benefits, we will always be there for one another.
We are happy, it works well. "
Exactly that! Lucky you and long may it continue for you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Harder than we've imagined to find a unicorn we could both play with and be regular fwb. We'd love the social experience with another girl. Meals, events, clubs etc.
Seems like a lot of couples that choose the mff route are in the same boat. If it was mfm we're seeking. Could have a quickie in 5 minutes time arranged so I see the problem you guys are also facing. |
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"So the main thing I have been hoping to find is a long term sex buddy/FWB. Someone I know the sex is amazing, we can hold a conversation, texting and keeping touch and occasionally have nights in with a takeaway/films and lots of naughty fun sending me home in the morning exhausted .
However it seems that 99% of the guys on here are after a quickie and to just shoot their load as fast as possible.
My hubby reckons that the guys I’m looking for don’t exist in this type of place and I fear he may be right.. what do you think, am I dreaming and should I lower my expectations and go along with the quickies? "
It isn’t a big ask if all parties want it. Just it can be “complicated” and it is such wide spectrum of what long term sex buddy/friends with benefits can be. So many factors like distance, how often you meet, how much you want to be in a person’s vanilla life and they want to be in yours. And then life gets in the way and situations can change. Still it can work. Hope you find what you want.  |
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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago
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" We spend time together and text everyday, but not in each pockets. He is one of my closest friends and even without the benefits, we will always be there for one another.
We are happy, it works well.
Exactly that! Lucky you and long may it continue for you! "
Thank you. Plus its a turn on to hear about his other plays lol and vice versa lol |
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I can easily get the fuck and go off the dating appa but I actually want a partner to swing with now. Iv done this in the past and loved it and want to again. Im not just looking to sleep with lots of other women either as a big kink for me is mmf. |
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A lot only want a FB (Fuck Buddy - just a plain old booty call) instead of FWB.
So I think you need to make clear you want a FWB which means someone who is a friend. You hang out sometimes. Do stuff together minus the official "BF/GF" title to them as a lot don't understand that FWB means this.
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We have a regular FWB guy that we both meet but I imagine if it’s a Hotwife scenario it would be a bit more difficult.
Finding the right people regardless of dynamics is like sifting through mud on here but they are there if you search.
Or don’t search - most of time things happen when you’re least looking
Our hardest match is finding regular locals.
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I would love to find a FWB being divorced, I am not ready for a full blown relationship, but miss the company of a nice woman. Someone to do the day to day stuff with but with out the commitment of a relationship.
I believe the more you get to know someone the better the benefits side of things gets.
I think you just have to be honest and upfront with each other about boundaries and expectations, from the start…. |
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By *b72Man
over a year ago
Nottingham |
Like many I'd love a FwB, but they are hard to find and people define it differently!
I work long hours during to the week so it would be nice to be able to go out with some company, without it having to mean sex!!
P.s I do still want sex though |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"We would love a fwb tho unfortunately bi guys are bit of a unicorn  "
Do you know you can edit the filters of your search to just show you bi men’s profiles? There are loads on this site so i don’t know why you consider them to be a bit of a unicorn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think it’s an issue of survivors bias.
The guys with more long term fwb situations are probs less likely to actively be looking for new things compared to the guys you talk about just wanting to cum and go…
Think building a connection is key for me. The sex always gets better with time and understanding |
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"Think it’s an issue of survivors bias.
The guys with more long term fwb situations are probs less likely to actively be looking for new things compared to the guys you talk about just wanting to cum and go…
Think building a connection is key for me. The sex always gets better with time and understanding"
Exactly how I look at it |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"Think it’s an issue of survivors bias.
The guys with more long term fwb situations are probs less likely to actively be looking for new things compared to the guys you talk about just wanting to cum and go…
Think building a connection is key for me. The sex always gets better with time and understanding
Exactly how I look at it "
Ain't incorrect...true |
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By *isteaMan
over a year ago
Around |
I am looking for a FWB... People tend to push it towards a relationship situation. My previous fwb was more focus on making us an item, even tho we did talk about it. I place more emphasis on the friendship, as for the benefits, that's a bonus. Inbox if interested. |
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"We would love a fwb tho unfortunately bi guys are bit of a unicorn "
Well try putting straight on your profile, it draws them Straight to like peas peas to Honey . Plus TV and gay couples baffles me.
I think it's a long term FWB is the holy grail as your time together, and he gets better and better the more you know each other.  |
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So it is out there, it’s just about finding the right guy that I connect with and developing a friendship beyond, just love the idea of the cinema, long evenings, Netflix etc.. I just find that they suddenly don’t have time or just message for a booty call and to be honest it makes me roll my eyes. Don’t get me wrong I still really enjoy it a lot but a daily friendship where we get to enjoy all the naughty stuff too and build on it to go to clubs etc is the goal.
I’ve loved reading all your experiences and some of you have been really lucky and still are xxx |
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over a year ago
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"So it is out there, it’s just about finding the right guy that I connect with and developing a friendship beyond, just love the idea of the cinema, long evenings, Netflix etc.. I just find that they suddenly don’t have time or just message for a booty call and to be honest it makes me roll my eyes. Don’t get me wrong I still really enjoy it a lot but a daily friendship where we get to enjoy all the naughty stuff too and build on it to go to clubs etc is the goal.
I’ve loved reading all your experiences and some of you have been really lucky and still are xxx "
You'll get there I'm sure x |
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This is very much me too - one off's often don't do a lot for me. I love building up that connection, enjoying each others company as well as the fun stuff. The sex is always better too.
I've met FWBs through Fab previously, as with anything it takes time to find the right person |
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The problem is both people need to be completely into it from start to finish… and after.
Sometimes I think I may have met a perfect fwb potential but then the sex is… not great, or maybe their is something about their personality or humour that just doesn’t click well with my own.
Equally they could think something similar about me or pick up on a bad habit that I don’t even know I have etc
I have had long term fwbs, one of them I may be meeting again next week for first time in a year, before that been seeing each other on and off for over a decade! It can happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately I agree with your hubby op,fwb don5 exist on fab ,I'm single and even though some guys tell me there looking for a fwb they actually. Just want a quick fck |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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"So the main thing I have been hoping to find is a long term sex buddy/FWB. Someone I know the sex is amazing, we can hold a conversation, texting and keeping touch and occasionally have nights in with a takeaway/films and lots of naughty fun sending me home in the morning exhausted .
However it seems that 99% of the guys on here are after a quickie and to just shoot their load as fast as possible.
My hubby reckons that the guys I’m looking for don’t exist in this type of place and I fear he may be right.. what do you think, am I dreaming and should I lower my expectations and go along with the quickies? "
I think you have not found the right man whos "up for the job" as it where!
I for one would LOVE to have that kinda situation. I actually have had it in the past with a few couples. One couple and i lasted 18 months before things and situations changed stopping us from carrying on.
Admittedly, most men on here are only after a quicky but I assure you not all, maybe 75% are quicky guys but keep looking for the 25% of us who would love a long term friendship/FWB with you.
AND................... YOU ARE WORTH IT and it will be worth the wait when you find "the one"x
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"So the main thing I have been hoping to find is a long term sex buddy/FWB. Someone I know the sex is amazing, we can hold a conversation, texting and keeping touch and occasionally have nights in with a takeaway/films and lots of naughty fun sending me home in the morning exhausted .
However it seems that 99% of the guys on here are after a quickie and to just shoot their load as fast as possible.
My hubby reckons that the guys I’m looking for don’t exist in this type of place and I fear he may be right.. what do you think, am I dreaming and should I lower my expectations and go along with the quickies? "
There are a good few of us that do look for this sort of relationship here but location is a very important among other things, it's one thing to be able to find someone you connect with enough to have good sex but to have enough in common to also become friends can be a little difficult, then there is the risk of feelings getting in the way especially if you are married already, I had an amazing FWB for around 6 months but when her hubby pulled the plug on it in the end as he started getting concerned she had court feelings for me it was devastating even though me and her were content with what we had neither of us wanting to disrupt each others family lives, he couldn't live with the risk anymore and for that reason I'd be extremely hesitant to becoming an FWB to another married woman. |
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I have always looked for a Long Term fuckbuddy female or a couple however it is quiet tough
It would be nice to find someone within a reasonable distance as i have recently met a couple where the distance is quiet a bit but just about do-able
If there is anyone else looking, please feel free to message or wink me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thing is, to find a fwb you have to meet people. The fwb situation isnt available 'off the shelf'.
It's what I'd like too but I realise I have to meet different people and allow something to develop and grow. I'm not going to stumble across the perfect fwb for me and definately wont know if it's right till we've seen each other a few times. It has to develop naturally I think. Issue I've found here is when I am clear that fwb is my aim, I'm accused of looking for a boyfriend....I'm not, I'm looking for a man friend who can preferably socialise as well as fk like the proverbial beast |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like everything in life issues like work, family etc have to be balanced. Im sure with patience you can find a fwb.
Personally Im still friends with people I have met on here. A lunch, coffee, and a few hours together is bliss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can go the other way though with a long term fwb.
I had a fwb for a while and was great but then he started to get a bit demanding and started to push the boundaries we had previously agreed on.
We had to put a end to it unfortunately |
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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago
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"So the main thing I have been hoping to find is a long term sex buddy/FWB. Someone I know the sex is amazing, we can hold a conversation, texting and keeping touch and occasionally have nights in with a takeaway/films and lots of naughty fun sending me home in the morning exhausted .
However it seems that 99% of the guys on here are after a quickie and to just shoot their load as fast as possible.
My hubby reckons that the guys I’m looking for don’t exist in this type of place and I fear he may be right.. what do you think, am I dreaming and should I lower my expectations and go along with the quickies? "
I think they exist but probably not in your immediate vicinity! |
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over a year ago
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"So the main thing I have been hoping to find is a long term sex buddy/FWB. Someone I know the sex is amazing, we can hold a conversation, texting and keeping touch and occasionally have nights in with a takeaway/films and lots of naughty fun sending me home in the morning exhausted .
However it seems that 99% of the guys on here are after a quickie and to just shoot their load as fast as possible.
My hubby reckons that the guys I’m looking for don’t exist in this type of place and I fear he may be right.. what do you think, am I dreaming and should I lower my expectations and go along with the quickies? "
although quickie meets can be a lot of fun, i do agree with you OP. fwb scenarios are great long term. am looking for the same scenario myself, but am being patient as it's definitely something worth waiting for. i'm not 99% of those men, so i can't say for certain that's what they are all looking for, but never just accept things as they may be and go with it. if you want a fwb, keep that in mind and wait until you do find it... otherwise you're just denying what you were seeking and lying to yourself. having certain necessary expectations are okay, but i would say (not aimed at anyone in particular here) in general, having high expectations can definitely affect your mood on the actual reality of a situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thing is, to find a fwb you have to meet people. The fwb situation isnt available 'off the shelf'.
It's what I'd like too but I realise I have to meet different people and allow something to develop and grow. I'm not going to stumble across the perfect fwb for me and definately wont know if it's right till we've seen each other a few times. It has to develop naturally I think. Issue I've found here is when I am clear that fwb is my aim, I'm accused of looking for a boyfriend....I'm not, I'm looking for a man friend who can preferably socialise as well as fk like the proverbial beast "
Avoid the ones who whine about boyfriend stuff. They just want fuck and go. They will lie to get a fuck claiming they want fwb. |
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"Thing is, to find a fwb you have to meet people. The fwb situation isnt available 'off the shelf'.
It's what I'd like too but I realise I have to meet different people and allow something to develop and grow. I'm not going to stumble across the perfect fwb for me and definately wont know if it's right till we've seen each other a few times. It has to develop naturally I think. Issue I've found here is when I am clear that fwb is my aim, I'm accused of looking for a boyfriend....I'm not, I'm looking for a man friend who can preferably socialise as well as fk like the proverbial beast
Avoid the ones who whine about boyfriend stuff. They just want fuck and go. They will lie to get a fuck claiming they want fwb."
Dont they just |
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"So the main thing I have been hoping to find is a long term sex buddy/FWB. Someone I know the sex is amazing, we can hold a conversation, texting and keeping touch and occasionally have nights in with a takeaway/films and lots of naughty fun sending me home in the morning exhausted .
However it seems that 99% of the guys on here are after a quickie and to just shoot their load as fast as possible.
My hubby reckons that the guys I’m looking for don’t exist in this type of place and I fear he may be right.. what do you think, am I dreaming and should I lower my expectations and go along with the quickies? "
I would love something like this for my wife |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love one too, someone I could do things with away from fab, so no married men
Someone who's not ashamed to be seen with a fat bird "
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They def exist... I've a fwb of 2.5yrs and another lovely encounter that lasted 18 months.
I think as someone who's partnered it's just about seeking that match-make on motivations / boundaries as there's many many spectrums to what an FWB might look like. |
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"They def exist... I've a fwb of 2.5yrs and another lovely encounter that lasted 18 months.
I think as someone who's partnered it's just about seeking that match-make on motivations / boundaries as there's many many spectrums to what an FWB might look like."
Could not agree more...was a fwb/lover to a wonderful couple for 4years. Best times ever...based on respect and trust....the hubby loved knowing his wife was being looked after whilst he was away. The mmf scenario was great too |
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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago
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Had one for 13 months who lied cheated and risked me.and screwed up my head,but without going through that I wouldn't have found my FWB I have now, we are best friends who have amazing naughties, gets on well with my partner, is very respectful, and depote occasional up and downs, it works for us right now and I hope for the considerable long term. Also has taught me about true friendship, we came into one another's lives at tricky times for us both, but we deffo have a interesting connection without the need for any formal labels. |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
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"So the main thing I have been hoping to find is a long term sex buddy/FWB. Someone I know the sex is amazing, we can hold a conversation, texting and keeping touch and occasionally have nights in with a takeaway/films and lots of naughty fun sending me home in the morning exhausted .
However it seems that 99% of the guys on here are after a quickie and to just shoot their load as fast as possible.
My hubby reckons that the guys I’m looking for don’t exist in this type of place and I fear he may be right.. what do you think, am I dreaming and should I lower my expectations and go along with the quickies? "
This is why we haven't met many. We want a classical swinging experience as that is what we grew up around and we're not willing to budge.
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"So the main thing I have been hoping to find is a long term sex buddy/FWB. Someone I know the sex is amazing, we can hold a conversation, texting and keeping touch and occasionally have nights in with a takeaway/films and lots of naughty fun sending me home in the morning exhausted .
However it seems that 99% of the guys on here are after a quickie and to just shoot their load as fast as possible.
My hubby reckons that the guys I’m looking for don’t exist in this type of place and I fear he may be right.. what do you think, am I dreaming and should I lower my expectations and go along with the quickies? "
Your hubby is wrong |
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"They do exist but now days is harder for people as a lot of people ain’t honest
And I feel women have very high standards "
Do they have high standards or do they just want to engage with people that they like and find physically attractive? |
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"They do exist but now days is harder for people as a lot of people ain’t honest
And I feel women have very high standards
Do they have high standards or do they just want to engage with people that they like and find physically attractive?"
Exactly |
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By *ibLeiMan
over a year ago
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From what I’ve understood, a lot of guys who advertise themselves as being single here aren’t single by any stretch of the imagination. So it’s normal they’d be looking for quick f*cks over a fwb arrangement, which would require a greater time investment.
But there are guys on here (including me! Hello potential fwbs around Manchester!) who would absolutely love to find (a) great fwb arrangement(s). Always nice to make more friends, and repeat sexual encounters are always more fun and enjoyable IMO |
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"So the main thing I have been hoping to find is a long term sex buddy/FWB. Someone I know the sex is amazing, we can hold a conversation, texting and keeping touch and occasionally have nights in with a takeaway/films and lots of naughty fun sending me home in the morning exhausted .
However it seems that 99% of the guys on here are after a quickie and to just shoot their load as fast as possible.
My hubby reckons that the guys I’m looking for don’t exist in this type of place and I fear he may be right.. what do you think, am I dreaming and should I lower my expectations and go along with the quickies? "
Shame you live so far looking for a fwb was seeing an older couple but moved away. Not had any luck since |
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"From what I’ve understood, a lot of guys who advertise themselves as being single here aren’t single by any stretch of the imagination. So it’s normal they’d be looking for quick f*cks over a fwb arrangement, which would require a greater time investment.
But there are guys on here (including me! Hello potential fwbs around Manchester!) who would absolutely love to find (a) great fwb arrangement(s). Always nice to make more friends, and repeat sexual encounters are always more fun and enjoyable IMO "
That’s true |
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"I would love a FWB arrangement.
If anyone’s interested then message me and we can see if we’ve got any common ground
Nobody attached though please! "
Why did you have to be so far |
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"They do exist but now days is harder for people as a lot of people ain’t honest
And I feel women have very high standards
Do they have high standards or do they just want to engage with people that they like and find physically attractive?
Exactly "
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"They do exist but now days is harder for people as a lot of people ain’t honest
And I feel women have very high standards
Do they have high standards or do they just want to engage with people that they like and find physically attractive?"
Hmm maybe a bit of that but mainly high standards I think |
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"They do exist but now days is harder for people as a lot of people ain’t honest
And I feel women have very high standards
Do they have high standards or do they just want to engage with people that they like and find physically attractive?
Hmm maybe a bit of that but mainly high standards I think "
Is there anything with having high standards? |
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"They do exist but now days is harder for people as a lot of people ain’t honest
And I feel women have very high standards
Do they have high standards or do they just want to engage with people that they like and find physically attractive?
Hmm maybe a bit of that but mainly high standards I think
Is there anything wrong with having high standards? "
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"They do exist but now days is harder for people as a lot of people ain’t honest
And I feel women have very high standards
Do they have high standards or do they just want to engage with people that they like and find physically attractive?
No each to there own really but I think some people not all should be more realistic
Hmm maybe a bit of that but mainly high standards I think
Is there anything with having high standards? "
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"They do exist but now days is harder for people as a lot of people ain’t honest
And I feel women have very high standards
Do they have high standards or do they just want to engage with people that they like and find physically attractive?
Hmm maybe a bit of that but mainly high standards I think "
Curious, what's you idea of a high standard that women on here expect? |
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