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What if your biggest turn on and your biggest turn off about sissies?
As we pride ourselves on making the man happy would be great to understand what to do and what to not do so we can further perfect our skills x |
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"being as straight guy, i'm only interested in women, does that answer your question?
The amount of 'straight' men who message me and I have met.... Maybe craving something else...
Mr  "
thats a bi guy in denial, not a straight guy, i know that some blur the lines on fab, not all |
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"being as straight guy, i'm only interested in women, does that answer your question?
The amount of 'straight' men who message me and I have met.... Maybe craving something else...
Mr
thats a bi guy in denial, not a straight guy, i know that some blur the lines on fab, not all"
Absolutely define a bisexual guy? |
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"being as straight guy, i'm only interested in women, does that answer your question?
Mr"
No it doesn't answer my question as my question was to try to get useful responses from people interested not snarky embittered ones!
So a straight guy goes with a sissy who looks and acts a lot more feminine than a lot of women? No longer straight?
A straight guy might in a 3 way touch a dick - they are suddenly bi?
A straight guy goes with someone with a vagina but looks like a man. Suddenly gay?
A guy might be totally interested in women but like dick but no other part of the man? Does that make them not straight?
You fuck a fleshlight - suddenly your sexuality is towards an inanimate object?
Most straight men are attracted to femininity and the threshold is different for different people.
I know full well that the men I meet are not interested in other guys
I thought it was an innocuous question but I realise it's a no no on the forum hence why someone puts "gets popcorn" as it'll attract label crusaders who try to define people's complex sexuality when it's actually easier to say nothing at all when something doesn't apply to them!
Being put out and being prescriptive about what people do and enjoy on a swinging site FFS! Lol
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not embittered at all, but the definition of a bi person as logged online is someone who is attracted to more than 1 gender weather that is male, female, trans or whatever.
i thought your post titled "straight guys" was refering to "straight guys", which by definition means being attracted to the opposite sex.
its not about if you accidentally touch another guy etc, by regularly accepted definitions its about who you are attracted to.
so as put being a straight guy im attracted to women.
this is not intended as offence, simply a statement of fact.
while i realise that fab straight sometimes means bi curious, there is an entire spectrum of gender and sexuality and i referred my answer to the gender and sexuality you raised in your question.
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Yes and under your very strict definition someone who has had any sort of gay experience or even had any thoughts would automatically be bi. That would make the majority of the population bi. Except the majority of the population don't identify as bi even though a lot more are than reported.
So you're assigning people labels that they actually don't buy into |
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"What if your biggest turn on and your biggest turn off about sissies?
As we pride ourselves on making the man happy would be great to understand what to do and what to not do so we can further perfect our skills x"
Ok, so trying to put an answer out there to this…
You’re right in that the attraction for a guy can be towards femininity in whatever form it’s found in, be that a woman, sissy, cd or trans girl, and I think tat answers the question about the biggest turn on. It’s about the level of femininity that’s there, the more feminine the bigger the turn on.
As to turn offs? Sometimes you find that someone who identifies as sissy and prides themselves on making the guy happy seems to think that should involve the need for degradation etc. For me that’s a massive no, as femininity and degradation sit at opposite ends of the scale. A beautiful woman should be treated as such. |
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For me, I'd definitely say that I'm not bi but would be happy for a bit of licking and touching if it happened whilst pleasuring a female. Some TVs are drop dead gorgeous to look at particularly when in lingerie (a favourite thing of mine). Therefore my turn on would be a threesome with a woman and a TV whilst we both make the woman the centre of attention. The idea of that really turns me on. Likewise the woman can make the TV the centre of attention but I'd just be watching. As for turn offs, I agree about humiliation (but that's the same for non TVs) and also whether I find them attractive (also the same for non TVs). |
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"Yes and under your very strict definition someone who has had any sort of gay experience or even had any thoughts would automatically be bi. That would make the majority of the population bi. Except the majority of the population don't identify as bi even though a lot more are than reported.
So you're assigning people labels that they actually don't buy into"
FYI not my definitions, the regularly accepted definitions, as listed in the english language so dont shoot the messenger.
just by the fact that they find more than 1 sex attractive.
i answered a question about a straight guy as a straight guy and because people dont like the answer, because i have no bi inclinations, somehow i'm pounced upon. so much for tolerance. |
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I guess the popcorn reference was to the fact that it will be a blockbuster conversation thread and nothing to do with anything else . May be wrong. Live and let live and answer the OP question. As I’m interested in the appropriate answers lol
Jump of soap box and get popcorn |
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"What if your biggest turn on and your biggest turn off about sissies?
As we pride ourselves on making the man happy would be great to understand what to do and what to not do so we can further perfect our skills x"
Nothing really turns me on about sissies. Sure I can appreciate that some put in a lot of effort but it just doesn't do it for me sexually.
In terms of turn offs same as the above I don't view those profiles in the same way I would a woman or couple. |
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having never been with a Sissie I couldn't answer the question I class myself as straight and as such I would only interact with bi male in a group sex scenario where my primary interest would be the female if the male was a Sissie there may be a degree of turn on due to it being a new thing to me. I honestly couldn't say if I would enjoy it as its not happened. as for biggest turn on being into women and a bit of a tits guy I'd say you would probably need tits  |
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