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Hey guys.
So, I've been orally bi, once during a meet with a couple which wasn't planned. I'm considering myself as bi after the conversations me and Mrs J have had together. I've never penetrated or been penetrated with/by a male before.
As basic as this may seem, anyone got any advice for the first time because that's coming up soon  |
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"It can be really enjoyable, just relax, take your time and lube up....
Hopefully the reality is as good as the fantasy for you...
I love a bi couple, fun for everyone x "
Thank you for that. I appreciate it |
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"Lube… lots of decent lube, not the cheap stuff but some decent lube..!! I enjoy anal but struggle with andy as he’s a bit big but patience and GOOD LUBE definitely help x"
Good lube. Got it. Any certain recommendations at all? Thank you also  |
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"Hey guys.
So, I've been orally bi, once during a meet with a couple which wasn't planned. I'm considering myself as bi after the conversations me and Mrs J have had together. I've never penetrated or been penetrated with/by a male before.
As basic as this may seem, anyone got any advice for the first time because that's coming up soon "
As someone who has met a few bi guy newbies its all about trusting the person your going to meet with discussing limits and taking things really slowly, making sure to use some toys on yourself before the meet so you can get used to the feeling of being penetrated and make sure you douche, maybe stay off eating big the day before etc  
Lube lube and more lube, and for many guys a relaxing room aroma helps too! |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
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Try relax. Don't rush. And don't put pressure on yourself. Just go with the flow. There's no point working yourself up about it first as you'll be tense and won't enjoy it then.
Have fun! |
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"Lube… lots of decent lube, not the cheap stuff but some decent lube..!! I enjoy anal but struggle with andy as he’s a bit big but patience and GOOD LUBE definitely help x
Good lube. Got it. Any certain recommendations at all? Thank you also "
We used liquid silk and now use Pur back door lube.. any good adult store or even Amazon sell it.. also try a small vibe or butt plug to start with.. and maybe some aromas x |
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As someone who has met a few bi guy newbies its all about trusting the person your going to meet with discussing limits and taking things really slowly, making sure to use some toys on yourself before the meet so you can get used to the feeling of being penetrated and make sure you douche, maybe stay off eating big the day before etc
Lube lube and more lube, and for many guys a relaxing room aroma helps too! "
Thanks for this! Again, it's appreciated. Very excited but nervous at the same time.
Room aromas help? |
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"Try relax. Don't rush. And don't put pressure on yourself. Just go with the flow. There's no point working yourself up about it first as you'll be tense and won't enjoy it then.
Have fun! "
Thanks! I'm definitely looking forward to it. I think maybe overthinking it slightly at the moment. Just trying to make sure that everything is smooth sailing throughout |
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We used liquid silk and now use Pur back door lube.. any good adult store or even Amazon sell it.. also try a small vibe or butt plug to start with.. and maybe some aromas x"
I didn't know aromas help? I'll have to have a look. But thanks for the recommendations, I'll definitely get one of them |
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"Echoing all mentioned above:
- trusted experienced bi guy is a key
- lots of foreplay
- good lube (I suggest pjur)
- more lube
- room aroma could help for newbie "
I'm really going to have to have a look into these Aromas! |
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"Hey guys.
So, I've been orally bi, once during a meet with a couple which wasn't planned. I'm considering myself as bi after the conversations me and Mrs J have had together. I've never penetrated or been penetrated with/by a male before.
As basic as this may seem, anyone got any advice for the first time because that's coming up soon "
Practice, toys, lube and more lube and repeat. |
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Room odours are a must for receiving anal especially a newbie.
The top really needs to take his time and tease your hole for a while before knocking on your door.
Be as relaxed as possible. I'm sure you'll love it. |
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Hiya guys x
I know how you feel having given anal to a guy for the first firm some time ago and the best way to get in the mood for this is that you first enjoy a 69 with a guy and as I would be sucking you suck I spread you arse cheeks and use a lube up dildo and slow arse fuck you with the dildo as you suck my cock as we get the fucking of the dildo in a good rhythm and you are getting losen up after you have spunked your cock in mouth then it’s time for arse fucking and the best way is if you sit on my cock as I am in a chair as my cock if lubes up and rock and then you can bounce up and down as I wank your cock.If you like that type of fun love to meet you Saturday night late
Bobby xxx |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
Are you attracted to men at all? I’m a bit concerned that you say you realised you’re bi from having conversations with your female partner….normally people realise they’re bi because they’re attracted to both sexes…I’m concerned that these conversations with your partner have made you feel pressured into having sex with a man but you don’t really want to. If you really want to have sex with a man then you wouldn’t have needed conversations with your partner to realise it i don’t think. |
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