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We can read too much into words sometimes, a compliments a compliment. Nice is a good quality which adds to being attractive to someone, so yes a nice person is sexy in my eyes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We can read too much into words sometimes, a compliments a compliment. Nice is a good quality which adds to being attractive to someone, so yes a nice person is sexy in my eyes."
Agree with this!! |
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"I’m told I’m a really nice person but is ‘nice’ sexy?
This isn’t a complaint, I’m just putting the topic out for discussion.
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Whilst I guess it’s in the eye or desire of the beholder, I would also put out there it’s how you portray “nice”.
I’m sure there are many nice people out there that also carry it in such a way that it’s very much sexy.
Using a polar opposite of nasty, I would say the above would ring true also.
Personal preference. I like nice.
For me, there’s something sexy about the brigade that say rules are there to be followed. 
Mind you, rules are to be broken…
…perhaps sexy too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most definitely. Beautiful does not always equal sexy btw. In fact, in my experience the two don’t correlate. But beauty isn’t important anyway…that’s something I used to THINK was important when I was 20.
What’s important is attractiveness, which does equal sexy. Or sexy equals attractiveness. (Which comes first I wonder  )
Anyway, a look, a smile, a cheeky over the shoulder laugh a fine, confident sashay or a kind word are some things that build sexiness and attractiveness.
There have been many occasions where I have taken another glance at a woman based on these qualities and not because of what she looks like or how she is dressed.
My (deep) thoughts on the subject. |
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"I’m told I’m a really nice person but is ‘nice’ sexy?
This isn’t a complaint, I’m just putting the topic out for discussion.
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Yep, nice is sexy and who wants to spend time with someone who isn’t nice. Xx |
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The 2 are not intrinsically linked, there are plenty of nice people that are boring and firecrackers. Same, people that are utter cunts that are boring, or fill the room with atmosphere. If I had to choose, I would go for the nice people first, regardless of how boring they are because an interesting horrible person would just be far worse. |
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It's "an eye of the beholder" thing to me. Nice is seperate to being sexy, some people are both, some get to be one without the other.
That said 'nice' can lead to 'attractive' and 'attractive' to 'sexy'.
So imho 'nice' is definitely good, start there and see where you go... |
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In all honesty I love the ‘girl next door’ vibe.. as sexy as ultra confident women are due to my own rapidly aging features and declining confidence I prefer someone with a hint of niceness..
Also nothing sexier than someone who looks as if butter wouldn’t melt. |
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By *ockDuoCouple
over a year ago
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There are some fantastic comments here everyone and the overall consensus is it is a positive attribute and maybe the sexiness is yet to be discovered……..
It’s uplifting to know there are some thoughtful and decent people on fab xx |
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God yes! Being nice only increases the attraction. Being able to share an experience with someone you like, feel relaxed with and makes you smile is the perfect moment.
If you're described as nice take it as a major compliment and a huge advantage on here  |
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I totally agree that being nice is really hot and sexy I think being nasty and obnoxious is a real turn off everybody has got feelings and being nice goes a long way in the minds of men and women I would like to think. |
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