I believe part of what makes the swinging scene attractive is the vibe, not the sex.
It's so refreshing to be around people where you can relax and be yourself and open with no judgements.
Through work and other things I've met one or two people that I'm convinced have the same vibe.
I've often wondered if we should have a code that allows us to ask without asking 
Have you ever had that happen and with a successful result? (By success I don't mean you played with them, just that they were in fact swingers) |
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over a year ago
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My partner I met through work, we flirted like crazy, then one day he asked me for a kiss, I said Hell, why not! We had a few years exploring each other, then one day he invited someone to watch and it’s spiralled since then! We aren’t married to each other, but 15 yrs on still have the most amazing sex .. so can’t do the parties etc but if we where .. boy we’d be joining that scene |
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"It's a risky game to play. As far as I know there's no code but people must give off a vibe because we've been approached outside of a swinging environment. "
Tbh I'm not shy. Even if they aren't swingers I don't mind the mistake.
However a phone call telling the pizza shop to not send the perv again won't go down well  |
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"It's a risky game to play. As far as I know there's no code but people must give off a vibe because we've been approached outside of a swinging environment.
Tbh I'm not shy. Even if they aren't swingers I don't mind the mistake.
However a phone call telling the pizza shop to not send the perv again won't go down well "
No probably not. |
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By *stonMTMan
over a year ago
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It's different for everyone Can be good if find nice circle of people .Have had great times bit did witness when certain people clash and fall out and changes every thing when people need feel need to take sides |
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