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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have a question for couples but this does apply to single males to, if your looking for other couples to play with, is a man of the other couple with a bigger cock then the Mr a potential problem?
We all know women say size doesn’t matter but does size comparison matter the men ?
This isn’t aimed at cuck couples |
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By *eastZMan
over a year ago
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"We have a question for couples but this does apply to single males to, if your looking for other couples to play with, is a man of the other couple with a bigger cock then the Mr a potential problem?
We all know women say size doesn’t matter but does size comparison matter the men ?
This isn’t aimed at cuck couples "
It depends on the husband, how competitive or jealous he can get. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a problem for me.
I’m confident that I can satisfy Dora and I know where all her buttons are.
Guys that think it’s just a big dick that will bring a woman to orgasm are literally just a big dick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have a question for couples but this does apply to single males to, if your looking for other couples to play with, is a man of the other couple with a bigger cock then the Mr a potential problem?
We all know women say size doesn’t matter but does size comparison matter the men ?
This isn’t aimed at cuck couples "
dont have a problem my lady taking a bigger cock, would quite enjoy to be fair although shes said anything 10" or over just hurts |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Interesting comments! So far overwhelmingly not an issue
Remember this isn’t a cuck situation so the woman will be enjoying another cock alongside her husband/boyfriend |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interesting comments! So far overwhelmingly not an issue
Remember this isn’t a cuck situation so the woman will be enjoying another cock alongside her husband/boyfriend "
Oh. As long as he didn't giggle at mine I'd still
be cool |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a problem for us but we do wonder if the guy from the other couple is 8+ then whether the other lady would really be that interested in down sizing an inch or two for the play. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not a problem for us but we do wonder if the guy from the other couple is 8+ then whether the other lady would really be that interested in down sizing an inch or two for the play."
A good point made right there! It’s not as simple as some have made out to be
Very interesting |
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From a single guy point of view if a cpl contacted me an husband/partner was larger i probably wouldnt follow up. May not be an issue to them but that little voice in back of my head would be telling me different. |
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We've meet 1 or half a dozen single guys. It's never come up in conversation about my Mr's cock size. None have asked before hand. We have no cock pics on profile, for them to know begore hand either. Never given this a thought. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"From a single guy point of view if a cpl contacted me an husband/partner was larger i probably wouldnt follow up. May not be an issue to them but that little voice in back of my head would be telling me different."
Well said! Not pointing at you with this next comment but I wonder if this could be why so many men apparently never show up to meetings, probably different in couples situations but as a single man the pressure is definitely on in a mfm situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From a single guy point of view if a cpl contacted me an husband/partner was larger i probably wouldnt follow up. May not be an issue to them but that little voice in back of my head would be telling me different."
Id make for it all in the fuckng dept.
My mate pete,never wantd to meet up as a 4sum couple,he felt his was way smaller!! Lol .
All in the mind. Not the size of the tool or kit. Its how you use it. |
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Depends on if they have any insecurities, it's always abit of a competition between guys when they have banter but I've found that most people that are actually "in the scene" are open individuals and it doesn't really come up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From a single guy point of view if a cpl contacted me an husband/partner was larger i probably wouldnt follow up. May not be an issue to them but that little voice in back of my head would be telling me different.
Well said! Not pointing at you with this next comment but I wonder if this could be why so many men apparently never show up to meetings, probably different in couples situations but as a single man the pressure is definitely on in a mfm situation "
have heard of many no shows,abit of a mind game aswell.
Some may like to hold the power of not turnung up!!
I sense and feel some could be social Awkward around people in general. Esp around sex too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some guys who have big cocks think it's all that's needs an turn out to be a crap shag as they dont put any real effort into it."
Sure makes sense. Like huge muscles etc all an ego mindset!
Most are chilled about it. Many are insecure deep down tbh |
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"We have a question for couples but this does apply to single males to, if your looking for other couples to play with, is a man of the other couple with a bigger cock then the Mr a potential problem?
We all know women say size doesn’t matter but does size comparison matter the men ?
This isn’t aimed at cuck couples "
Nope.
Miniskirt has enjoyed someone who was better endowed than me - and I'm not exactly small.
We both enjoyed the meet and the photos were impressive!
In fact, we enjoyed it so much we met him again - and that is actually very rare because Miniskirt swings for variety not familiarity.
But that's just me - and I can understand why some men might feel threatened by such a situation.
Just as some women might be similarly wrong-footed by sharing their man with a women they perceive to have a better body than them (bigger boobs, arse, better legs - whatever).
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not a problem for me.
I’m confident that I can satisfy Dora and I know where all her buttons are.
Guys that think it’s just a big dick that will bring a woman to orgasm are literally just a big dick. "
This is my perspective too, word for word  |
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Some people are rolling out the old 'size is irrelevant' trope here.
It's not. At least not to everyone.
How one uses their manhood counts most, of course, but some women - not all but some - are turned on by just SEEING a big cock. And some women find small cocks a turn off - not just because of how they feel but also how they look.
It's a bit like eating - for some people, a meal needs to look as good as it tastes.
We're all different though, and not every girl likes a whopper chopper. |
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"Not a problem for me.
I’m confident that I can satisfy Dora and I know where all her buttons are.
Guys that think it’s just a big dick that will bring a woman to orgasm are literally just a big dick.
This is my perspective too, word for word "
Mine's similar, but a little different.
I fully accept that one day Miniskirt might swing with a guy who finds all her buttons, can do anything and everything I can do in bed and more. Easily done given I am not a young man anymore.
However, I am 100% certain no other man can satisfy her in ALL departments of life in the way I can - because we've had thirty years perfecting our relationship.
So - so what if a man blows her mind in bed one night - this ain't a sprint, it's a marathon and I've already demonstrated I can stay the distance in the game of life and love.
So bring on the huge cocks for Miniskirt - I have no fear of them
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"Some guys who have big cocks think it's all that's needs an turn out to be a crap shag as they dont put any real effort into it."
Guys used to say this about the best looking girls at school v the less good looking ones who it was claimed would always try harder.
It's a generalisation of course but that doesn't mean it is never true!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What an interesting question.
I'm replying as a single male who looks to meet couples.
After thinking it over, my main concern is the age and body type of the Mr in the couple, rather than his cock size (although that plays it's part too).
Being a rather large (17 stone) 48yo man, I tend not to seek out physically fit/gym fit couples under 40.
I'm convinced I would feel underequipped and a little intimidated.
Add to that my 5 inches and that underequipped feeling would be heightened if the other guy was far bigger.
However, if I was meeting a single male or mature couple, then my size would be of less concern for me. |
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"I wonder if this could be why so many men apparently never show up to meetings"
Morel likely the main reason for no shows is that they just can't think of a good enough excuse to tell the wife why they are going out so well dressed and smelling so nice and not coming home again until late that night - or even the next morning |
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As a single male who isn't particularly well hung I can say it wouldn't bother me.
Im still looking for my first couple experience however I'm aware of my body and accept it s flaws and Im very secure in myself so it really doesn't bother me.
That being said I also know where I excel so swings and roundabouts |
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"From a single guy point of view if a cpl contacted me an husband/partner was larger i probably wouldnt follow up. May not be an issue to them but that little voice in back of my head would be telling me different.
Well said! Not pointing at you with this next comment but I wonder if this could be why so many men apparently never show up to meetings, probably different in couples situations but as a single man the pressure is definitely on in a mfm situation "
I guess in end it all comes down to each individual. As people have said sometimes big cock shit fuck. Im very confident with my tongue work so i use that as a focus. Had a meet with a cpl on Fri an an she'd cum multiple times before even fucked her |
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