Totally understand why I see so many people when looking for a meet up they insist on 'safe sex' only which I guess makes sense for all parties involved tbh.
If STI's were not so easily transmitted would it still as 'required by people' do you think ?
I know people who won't use condoms and only want 'bareback sex',again their choice entirely..
This question is for males/females/couples..anybody indulging in penetrative sex what would be your preference ? And if no condoms were used where would guy unload ? Inside her body/on body/mouth or any other area ??
Really intrigued me when was talking to a good friend of mine late last night.
It's gf's/my choice when playing with a male if condoms are used,but we have a regular fwb from here who we totally trust to be clean and never used protection with him.
Be no fun cleaning her up after he'd left us for evening if his semen had been fllushed down toilet ! |
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We only ever play bareback. Janine loves to feel a guy cum deep inside her and If it a 3sum I love sloppy seconds. If it’s a 4 sum then the other lady gets my cum. Janine gets it when back home again lol |
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Safe sex always for us. It might not feel as good as bare but going bare just isn’t worth the risk. STIs and pregnancies are not side effects we want  completely understand why people take the risk but it’s just not worth it for us.
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Bare or no sex ,both myself and the wife hate them
Nothing sexier than watching a bare cock sliding in the wife and getting the opportunity to suck that sexy cock covered in her juices mmm |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
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No matter how much better it feels to not use condons, it's always going to be safe playing with others for us. The risk really isn't worth it, especially with the increasing prevalence of treatment resistant strains of infections.
C x |
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Condoms always, including for oral.
That being said, it doesn’t take away from the need of a good STI testing regime an should do both.
The amount of forum posts and comments like this confirm it for me.
Most people’s sexual education and health knowledge isn’t as high as I expect, not worth it haha. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Condoms with all ,but my long term partner.
If people go bare with me ,I'm guessing they would be doing it with others too.
In the past I've had meets ask to go bare ,one even got a bit funny when I said no as we weren't exclusive or anything. |
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Some folks do insist on condoms for oral sex on a guy.
However......How many people insist on a dental dam being used when giving oral sex to a lady?
I've been involved in the swinging scene for 30+ years and have never seen or used a dental dam nor has any lady I've been with ever requested one be used. |
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"Some folks do insist on condoms for oral sex on a guy.
However......How many people insist on a dental dam being used when giving oral sex to a lady?
I've been involved in the swinging scene for 30+ years and have never seen or used a dental dam nor has any lady I've been with ever requested one be used."
I had a lady ask to use a dental dam with me once in a club , I just declined playing went on my way .. seen them a few times observing play with others over the years, not for me though so I would rather not just engage with an act I will not enjoy ..
we are all adults and can accept sometimes types of play are just not suited for each other  |
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"Some folks do insist on condoms for oral sex on a guy.
However......How many people insist on a dental dam being used when giving oral sex to a lady?
I've been involved in the swinging scene for 30+ years and have never seen or used a dental dam nor has any lady I've been with ever requested one be used.
I had a lady ask to use a dental dam with me once in a club , I just declined playing went on my way .. seen them a few times observing play with others over the years, not for me though so I would rather not just engage with an act I will not enjoy ..
we are all adults and can accept sometimes types of play are just not suited for each other "
Fair play. No point playing ina way you will not get full enjoyment |
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"Nothing beats the feeling of bearback but nonetheless the only rule we are strict on is no condom, no penetration."
Yep, if and when you open our boundaries a bit more this will be us too |
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"Some folks do insist on condoms for oral sex on a guy.
However......How many people insist on a dental dam being used when giving oral sex to a lady?
I've been involved in the swinging scene for 30+ years and have never seen or used a dental dam nor has any lady I've been with ever requested one be used.
I had a lady ask to use a dental dam with me once in a club , I just declined playing went on my way .. seen them a few times observing play with others over the years, not for me though so I would rather not just engage with an act I will not enjoy ..
we are all adults and can accept sometimes types of play are just not suited for each other
Fair play. No point playing ina way you will not get full enjoyment "
My view is there is always people with compatible interests and you just have to find the ones that match up . no biggie if people dont align its life, we are all human at end of day ..
some like bareback , some like to smoke , some like to drink alcohol, some like eating bad food and have poor lifestyles with health . etc.
no drama with me I just try align with people that match what I look for . the swinging/casual sex world is vast enough to cater for everyone  |
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"Totally understand why I see so many people when looking for a meet up they insist on 'safe sex' only which I guess makes sense for all parties involved tbh.
If STI's were not so easily transmitted would it still as 'required by people' do you think ?
I know people who won't use condoms and only want 'bareback sex',again their choice entirely..
This question is for males/females/couples..anybody indulging in penetrative sex what would be your preference ? And if no condoms were used where would guy unload ? Inside her body/on body/mouth or any other area ??
Really intrigued me when was talking to a good friend of mine late last night.
It's gf's/my choice when playing with a male if condoms are used,but we have a regular fwb from here who we totally trust to be clean and never used protection with him.
Be no fun cleaning her up after he'd left us for evening if his semen had been fllushed down toilet ! "
For me, it's a simple rule - someone new, always covered up....longer term thing with some
someone where there is complete openness, then bare is ok...so far in my life, no problems with this approach |
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Serious question - and without agenda:
Does anyone know what the risks actually are - statistically?
Can anyone actually quantify the risk and compare it to the risk of say, driving (or maybe riding a motorcycle), horse riding, or other risky things many of us do for enjoyment and thrills.
And what's the risk of contracting STIs through bareback sex compared to say, the risks of heart disease from eating certain foods, etc?
We're curious to see how bareback sex compares to other risky - or even mundane - activities.
Maybe this question needs its own thread... |
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"Serious question - and without agenda:
Does anyone know what the risks actually are - statistically? "
The risk is very low however it would be complicated and misleading to try and put a number in it as there are so many variables. The most obvious variable is the sexual history of the person you are having sex with. A swinger who regularly has unprotected sex will be a risker proposition than someone who has just come out of a long term relationship. Rough sex will have more risks than gentle love making etc etc
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It's just not worth the risk especially for the lifestyle of all on here.
You could be passing something to lots of people, the guilt would kill us if we know it was us passed it on.
So always protected. |
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"Serious question - and without agenda:
Does anyone know what the risks actually are - statistically?
The risk is very low however it would be complicated and misleading to try and put a number in it as there are so many variables. The most obvious variable is the sexual history of the person you are having sex with. A swinger who regularly has unprotected sex will be a risker proposition than someone who has just come out of a long term relationship. Rough sex will have more risks than gentle love making etc etc
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We often see profiles of couples who have enjoyed bareback sex for many years and wonder how they've failed - STD-wise.
There's another problem with bareback that I don't think everyone realises and that's that some women's vaginal flora just can't cope with huge amounts of unfamiliar cum and this can lead to problems like BV - symptoms of this include a very smelly fanny (smells like fish or rotten meat) This can obviously be very embarrassing and too many GPs don't understand it properly enough to treat it correctly (or at all).
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