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Why do we love slutty females?*
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* slutty isn't used as a derogatory term here. Please dont be offended if you dont like it.
Genuine question.
Why do they appeal so much?
For me it's the fact they're in control of and embracing their sexuality.
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Pretty similar to you, OP, but I'll add that I was brought up to believe that women tolerate sex rather than enjoying it. So it's a major turn-on when women show clearly that they're just as keen as you are. But it's a fine line for me, if they're too overtly sexual, and missing the social/flirty stuff, it can be a turn-off. Mr |
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over a year ago
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For me a 'slut' is a woman who loves sex and knows what she likes and can really let herself go and not feel like it's something dirty and something they are expected to endure rather than enjoy. |
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over a year ago
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I wasted my teens and entire twenties with a woman who influenced me to believe most women didn’t enjoy sex, it was duty for their partners. It was 100% an emotionally abusive relationship. I was made to feel like a creep or abuser for desiring to explore sex.
Since escaping I crave ‘slutty’ women, those who embrace their sexuality and chase pleasure while pushing societal boundaries.
I admire and lust over all the amazing girls on this site no matter the shapes and sizes, I love them all and I’m extremely grateful to have discovered this lifestyle.
Next stop; my own slutty woman to explore life with. |
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Slut is the term that we use just between ourselves, been an instant red flag when other guys have said it to Mrs CT.
One of my favorite roleplays to do with her, messaging mid week to book a “slut” for the evening and she’ll tell me what she’s willing to do/try. |
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"Pretty similar to you, OP, but I'll add that I was brought up to believe that women tolerate sex rather than enjoying it. So it's a major turn-on when women show clearly that they're just as keen as you are. But it's a fine line for me, if they're too overtly sexual, and missing the social/flirty stuff, it can be a turn-off. Mr"
Very similar for me, I was brought up predominantly surrounded by women, good women, and so have strong respect for women.
I think I need to know how sure that the lady I'm about to get intimate with, wants that, and not necessarily me, but the moment, the situation we are in.
A sexually liberated, open minded, honest woman is what I need, for myself to match their sexual openness.
There's nothing more exciting than Mrs A expressing she's got the urge, the need, whether that be a more private setting between the two of us, or the craving for another.
It's open, it's honest, it's strong (standing against societies norms), it's very exciting. |
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"For me I love watching the woman enjoying herself so why should she be called a slut just because she is enjoying herself. "
I see the term slut being used this way, to stand up against societies expectations, using the term similar to the way some black people may use another certain derogatory term with one another.
Stronger, more positive words are needed, for sure. |
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over a year ago
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Bonnie like to refer to herself as a slut. For me I love this, but think the words, greedy and confident are very well suited to a lady that like lots of sex.
I love that Bonnie is like this and the fact that we both get to enjoy her having sex with other guys. |
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over a year ago
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Katie too would consider herself to have been a slutty teenager
She doesn’t see it as a derogatory thing
Once she had the cock
She realised just how much she loved it!!
And continued to do so
The term greedy girl is probably the way most people think of it now
N xx |
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Mrs A has fully embraced being a slut over the last few years. She loves being told she’s one while playing too.
I’ve (Mr) always been turned on by slutty women, and this makes us a perfect match.
Neither of us see the word as derogatory and as with all words it’s the context in which it is said and the directed tone, that could make it perceived offensive to some. But, as a couple of others have said, the literal meaning of the word is to describe someone, often a woman who is sexually promiscuous and or has multiple sexual partners. |
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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago
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"Katie too would consider herself to have been a slutty teenager
She doesn’t see it as a derogatory thing
Once she had the cock
She realised just how much she loved it!!
And continued to do so
The term greedy girl is probably the way most people think of it now
N xx"
Katie is stunning  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love women who have had a lot of cock. You could call them slags. Promiscuous. Nothing derogatory meant here. I’d fucking love to marry one off. "
This is where language gets messy and people ate up about words, if we all read a different context into them.
For me, the term slut (in the right moment) is a way to express a sexually liberated woman in a way to say fuck you to societies expectations.
The term slag is something completely different to me, and more derogatory.
I see that as not sexually liberated, but careless with their actions, with no consideration of consequences or the hurt it can bring loved ones.
It's fitting for all genders, in my opinion.
I think a term better than those initially considered derogatory is needed tov be agreed upon. |
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"Katie too would consider herself to have been a slutty teenager
She doesn’t see it as a derogatory thing
Once she had the cock
She realised just how much she loved it!!
And continued to do so
The term greedy girl is probably the way most people think of it now
N xx"
Dee is the same, she always enjoyed lots of cock and the attention that goes with it from guys to try and get into her knickers.
Like you I’d say she was a greedy girl more than a slut but it probably amounts to the same thing. |
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"NB *I am not offended*
Why can't we just call them sexually adventurous and uninhibited women?
Because the word slut is better in bed and shorter and rolls off of the tongue better."
And because, until we are better disposed to the concept of a woman who likes a lot of sex, *whatever* word we use will become attached to that concept and become a slur. In our earliest recorded use of the word slut (Chaucer) it meant a (male) vagabond, after all. |
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I'm not surprised that there are so many responses celebrating womens' agency in sexuality and sex.
It's always been there, but for many generations authority has attempted to suppress, or vilify it.
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It will always have a stigma attached to it, no matter how much it’s embraced
Imagine the first thing you ever say to someone you just met randomly ( hi I’m a slut )
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There's definitely a perception of that but I love people who say they are, not because it's derogatory but because of the confidence it exudes and it's usually someone who knows what they like |
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"NB *I am not offended*
Why can't we just call them sexually adventurous and uninhibited women?"
Thats too long to catch on but "slut, bitch, whore" are all used on here and I find uncomfortable.
Hot/Horny/Randy or just loves sex surely says the same. |
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"NB *I am not offended*
Why can't we just call them sexually adventurous and uninhibited women?
Thats too long to catch on but "slut, bitch, whore" are all used on here and I find uncomfortable.
Hot/Horny/Randy or just loves sex surely says the same. "
Agree, I received some messages that call me a slut they don’t sit well
Of course I’m horny  |
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I love women that like sex, that choose who to have sex with. I don’t like the negative judgements, so I don’t like slut, whore. Unless it’s just a role play where I can be your slut, you can be mine |
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Empowered Slut here, and I love the term “Slut”. For me Its a totally appropriate word to describe my behaviour and out look on seeking sexual pleasure with hubbies blessing or more accurately encouragement he finds sexually confident woman a massive turn on so it’s a win win for us both. I’m not a slag I don’t fuck just any one, there is a difference, but if I’m in the mood and attracted then let the fun begin   |
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"I love sex, and my previous dominant kept calling me a slut and I grew to love the term.
I enjoy feeling wanted and used. So sex gives me that need. "
Haha same |
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I love being a slut, hence my profile name. I love the fact my Mr encourages me to be a slut. They say oppersits attact, but we bring out my slut between us. He's so proud to show me off and share me. |
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