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Is the swinging scene being taken over?
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There seems to be more and more people on the scene trying to ‘sell content’ now.
Are some people just using the swinging scene as a vehicle to sell their homemade pornography?
I like to make friends on the scene, it seems like some people just want to make money.
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over a year ago
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"I don’t understand why anyone would pay for any pictures or videos when there’s so much free stuff available online. "
A friend of mine does OF and tbh guys buy content as they think chatting on here and other places makes them more connected and they have the remote possibility of actually meeting up. |
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"I don’t understand why anyone would pay for any pictures or videos when there’s so much free stuff available online.
A friend of mine does OF and tbh guys buy content as they think chatting on here and other places makes them more connected and they have the remote possibility of actually meeting up."
Some people have too much money |
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over a year ago
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"I don’t understand why anyone would pay for any pictures or videos when there’s so much free stuff available online.
A friend of mine does OF and tbh guys buy content as they think chatting on here and other places makes them more connected and they have the remote possibility of actually meeting up.Some people have too much money "
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"There seems to be more and more people on the scene trying to ‘sell content’ now.
Are some people just using the swinging scene as a vehicle to sell their homemade pornography?
I like to make friends on the scene, it seems like some people just want to make money.
What are people’s thoughts? "
All swinging sites have been used as free advertising for over a decade. The issue is when it’s blatant asking for xyz , if it’s subtle just like using your twitter name / of name as profile name here then can’t see it’s an issue. I mean unifying your name is probably sensible in general
So many in swinging have jumped on creator platforms as a side hustle or primary job especially over Covid
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"I don’t understand why anyone would pay for any pictures or videos when there’s so much free stuff available online. "
Because they like that creator and want to see them continue making content/ they are a fan of said person. Plus it’s cheap most charge between 5-10 bucks for 30 days
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I know a few self employed sex workers on here who have OF and IG Accounts. All of them started off as swingers on here. They then realised they enjoyed it so much, and got so much unsolicited male attention, why not do it to pay the bills.
I don't see anything wrong with it at all. Going through all the dick pic and 'show me your feet' messages is a lot of work so why not get paid for it 
Obviously if it's just a profile with one photo and a link to their OF then that's different. But if they're engaging in the swinger scene as well - crack on.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's frustrating seeing a good profile then reading that they want 'payment' in some form. We love the social side of all this,
Don't blame people for taking advantage of OF etc but don't use fab as a marketing strategy.
Maybe I'm just jealous nobody would pay me for my pics lol so I will happily show them on here for anyone who is interested for free, if you enjoy them it gives me a confidence boost so that's payment enough in my eyes |
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There is a massive overlap. Mrs does both and I can tell you that an awful lot of people do.
Providing this platform isn't used for advertising, I don't see an issue with it.
Maybe guys really should stop messaging offering payment for meets too though, that happens at least once a day for us |
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Well anyone with a "Internet/Smart Device" can now and do class themselves as "Swingers" and so it's changed and people will always try to make money out something !! and been going on since sites like this and other were set up though ?? all about "Money" including back in the day the "Contact Mags" but aslong as people are willing to "Pay" ....and desperate times for most nowadays and the rise of onlyfans ?? and always some sort of "Scam" going on even if it's the "Hotel" scam or getting someone to drive miles on the promise of ...if it seems to good to be true is our mottoand according to most scammers there is only one hotel in Plymland and that's the crowne plaza lmao xxx  |
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" Well anyone with a "Internet/Smart Device" can now and do class themselves as "Swingers" and so it's changed and people will always try to make money out something !! and been going on since sites like this and other were set up though ?? all about "Money" including back in the day the "Contact Mags" but aslong as people are willing to "Pay" ....and desperate times for most nowadays and the rise of onlyfans ?? and always some sort of "Scam" going on even if it's the "Hotel" scam or getting someone to drive miles on the promise of ...if it seems to good to be true is our mottoand according to most scammers there is only one hotel in Plymland and that's the crowne plaza lmao xxx "
times are difficult at the moment so there a lot more of it happening. |
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"I'll always be a swinger.. never waste money on onlyfans.. never understand why people do.. rather get action in clubs and parties than watch skanks play with themselves online.. "
You should probably hide your verifications if you have those views |
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"There is a massive overlap. Mrs does both and I can tell you that an awful lot of people do.
Providing this platform isn't used for advertising, I don't see an issue with it.
Maybe guys really should stop messaging offering payment for meets too though, that happens at least once a day for us"
i agree as long as somebody dint drop me a message self promoting i be fine with it. |
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"I'll always be a swinger.. never waste money on onlyfans.. never understand why people do.. rather get action in clubs and parties than watch skanks play with themselves online..
You should probably hide your verifications if you have those views
Lol and this imbecile uses an old porn guys name as well  screaming at the irony "
I'd didn’t even clock the name tbh but the first thing I do when I see these views is check a profile.
Imagine being verified by 'skanks' |
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I think that ‘content creators’ have found Fab and other sex sites to be fertile ground for finding volunteers to participate in their
continuous need to produce new content - I’ve never personally been asked to pay or had stuff like OF sold to me in 6 years on Fab, maybe we’re just looking in different places with different filters? As long as the creators make their meet guests aware that video and pictures will be used to generate revenue I can’t see an issue with it. I sometimes see single woman who are on Fab appear elsewhere on the Web. Selling/ Advertising services (prostitution and trades) however are against Fab site rules but party organisers and clubs who charge entrance fees and make revenue are fine.. |
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"I think that ‘content creators’ have found Fab and other sex sites to be fertile ground for finding volunteers to participate in their
continuous need to produce new content - I’ve never personally been asked to pay or had stuff like OF sold to me in 6 years on Fab, maybe we’re just looking in different places with different filters? As long as the creators make their meet guests aware that video and pictures will be used to generate revenue I can’t see an issue with it. I sometimes see single woman who are on Fab appear elsewhere on the Web. Selling/ Advertising services (prostitution and trades) however are against Fab site rules but party organisers and clubs who charge entrance fees and make revenue are fine.."
It is physically impossible for 'content creators' to use guests to generate revenue from any of the big platforms without their explicit permission. Forms need to be signed, ID uploaded etc.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"There seems to be more and more people on the scene trying to ‘sell content’ now.
Are some people just using the swinging scene as a vehicle to sell their homemade pornography?
I like to make friends on the scene, it seems like some people just want to make money.
What are people’s thoughts? "
Some people have used the swinging scene for ulterior motives for decades.
Whether that was to promote 'paid services' or to get things for free in return for sex, it's always been a thing. Sites like this don't allow it, hence many try to move you onto other chat apps so it can't be monitored and they can't be banned.
Some sites themselves used to try to catch potential fee paying members out by using self generated fake profiles to engage with people (mainly men) to try and encourage them to pay for upgrades and services.
Some clubs aren't really swingers clubs and use paid hostesses to provide sex.
It's not just OF and other modern sites. It's always been around. But it's always been easy to spot, avoid report and block when it happens.
Some people are their own worst enemies and let the little head do the thinking for the big head, will leap on any contact made in the slim hope it's going to lead to something (it never will) and because it's sometimes the only interaction they get.
On here? Just report block and ignore.
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"I think that ‘content creators’ have found Fab and other sex sites to be fertile ground for finding volunteers to participate in their
continuous need to produce new content - I’ve never personally been asked to pay or had stuff like OF sold to me in 6 years on Fab, maybe we’re just looking in different places with different filters? As long as the creators make their meet guests aware that video and pictures will be used to generate revenue I can’t see an issue with it. I sometimes see single woman who are on Fab appear elsewhere on the Web. Selling/ Advertising services (prostitution and trades) however are against Fab site rules but party organisers and clubs who charge entrance fees and make revenue are fine..
It is physically impossible for 'content creators' to use guests to generate revenue from any of the big platforms without their explicit permission. Forms need to be signed, ID uploaded etc.
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I hadn’t realised it was so rigorous |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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no the core of real swingers will always be there .... as someone else has already said theres alway been people around the scene out to make money and there will always be .... if on here report block move on |
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It's a bit of a pain isn't? It seems the golden rule as an adult content creator to push yourself in every social media space. Obviously people are just trying to make some money and I get that. However it's rather annoying on a site not ment for that. Especially when they target and approach users under false pretences. Like others have said all you can do is report. |
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"I think that ‘content creators’ have found Fab and other sex sites to be fertile ground for finding volunteers to participate in their
continuous need to produce new content - I’ve never personally been asked to pay or had stuff like OF sold to me in 6 years on Fab, maybe we’re just looking in different places with different filters? As long as the creators make their meet guests aware that video and pictures will be used to generate revenue I can’t see an issue with it. I sometimes see single woman who are on Fab appear elsewhere on the Web. Selling/ Advertising services (prostitution and trades) however are against Fab site rules but party organisers and clubs who charge entrance fees and make revenue are fine..
It is physically impossible for 'content creators' to use guests to generate revenue from any of the big platforms without their explicit permission. Forms need to be signed, ID uploaded etc.
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I recognise people who I know have OF and all that, more from their Twitter names and updates than here. It's not hard to make the link. But I've never seen anyone promoting their businesses here. One or two Snapchats (reported) but never OF. Always suspicious of someone asking for a filmed meet though! |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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"I don’t understand why anyone would pay for any pictures or videos when there’s so much free stuff available online. "
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That's a fair point lol, as others have mentioned though,
I get that's its the interaction that some folks crave. |
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"Would never pay for anything, I believe in free love ??
Had sex in a brothel once, didn't enjoy it
Would never, but previously have?
No not freebie, don't see the attraction of paying a girl that I'm sure doesn't want to be there
Freebie? Try before you buy?
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No, I don’t think it’s being taken over.
Some clubs encourage it more than others, easy to see which.
Each to their own, it’s easy to block and move on. I don’t think it’s really noticeable on here. Maybe as I’m a female. |
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"I think that ‘content creators’ have found Fab and other sex sites to be fertile ground for finding volunteers to participate in their
continuous need to produce new content - I’ve never personally been asked to pay or had stuff like OF sold to me in 6 years on Fab, maybe we’re just looking in different places with different filters? As long as the creators make their meet guests aware that video and pictures will be used to generate revenue I can’t see an issue with it. I sometimes see single woman who are on Fab appear elsewhere on the Web. Selling/ Advertising services (prostitution and trades) however are against Fab site rules but party organisers and clubs who charge entrance fees and make revenue are fine..
It is physically impossible for 'content creators' to use guests to generate revenue from any of the big platforms without their explicit permission. Forms need to be signed, ID uploaded etc.
very true"
Not quite true alas. There is ways round this quite easily on most content platforms hence the love of pov shooting ..
There is always ways to play model release / 2257 / ID system that fly under the radar , many in adult do this to feed quick clips up .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site has changed in a major way does anyone agree that if anyone tries to promote a service or site should be denied access "
All the clubs would have to go! |
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