"Hi,
I've always passionately been submissive myself, however I've recently had an experience with a guy which makes me think I'd like to try a submissive partner. I enjoyed the feeling of empowerment.
Just curious what you get from it, how do you avoid feeling silly, or unqualified?
Thanks,
Clary x "
I've played dominantly and more recently submissively with the same woman, who has gone from being as submissive as it gets with me, to really, really getting off being dominant over me.
It is that power exchange you talk of, and now having me caged and controlled, whilst she also is seeing someone else who fulfills any submissive needs she occasionally needs met.
She enjoys being superslutty with him, and being dominant over me.
She says it is the best of both worlds, and she is having the best sex of her life, whilst also enjoying huge mental stimulation via me & keeping control over my orgasms and hard ons remotely. For eg, she has dictated I put a cage on, and I've spent the past 2 days, caged, waiting her her to decide when I'm allowed remove it again. In the mean time, she has had hours and hours of sex with her boyfriend, which she matter of factly tells me about in detail, knowing it frustrates the fuck out of me.
She's found just in the post few days, she loves teasing me with flashes of her panties whilst denying me, teasing me pretending to being up for considering letting me out, whilst also being so matter of fact in her harsh put downs that I don't fulfill her needs....
Today, she sent me shopping (mundane trainers required) wearing panties and she carried on with her day with very occasional drop ins to check how I was doing and to humiliate with little put downs about people seeing my pink panties (her choice, matching her own colour, which she didn't show me).
She's absolutely loving it....
She texted last night to tell me her boyfriend had plugged her.
I heard nothing for 3.5 hrs,
Before she texted again to day she had been Fucked senseless, she was exhausted and going to sleep, and no I couldn't take my cage off.
And then she was gone again, leaving me horny and frustrated as anything..
The mental stimulation has her excited massively, and the physical has gone to a different level for her.
.... I'm sorry if this is me speaking out of turn on a female led thread, but I hope that my reply is relevant to what you are considering...
I would love to have further, non threatening conversations if you wish, to provide help you get over any fears of feeling silly if you so choose. I've plenty of experience of both sides of the coin and completely get where you are coming from.
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