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Experience I reckon, bi-curious would be you are not against or even interested playing with another guy, Bi is you have played with another guy and want to again. However that's just my personal opinion |
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By *onicZMan
over a year ago
Nottinghamshire |
Changed mine from curious recently to bisexual as I had my first full bi experience with a guy and enjoyed it.
It was in a club and we were both with female play partners too.
We have both played on our own once since, but I'm not sure I'd actively seek out meeting guys on my own. There would have to be a proper connection.
The thrill of putting on a show for the ladies and doing something not many people tend to do in the open in clubs (it was a bi night, don't panic lol) was fantastic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never know what to put on mine
Easiest way to explain would be sexually bisexual but romantically straight so not sure how to really convey that by picking one of the above  |
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Curious - a "heterosexual" person considering sex with someone of the same sex.
Or a "homosexual" person considering sex with the opposite sex
Bi - someone who has had and enjoys sex with persons of any gender.
Or that's my understanding of it anyway.
Mr Hayes. |
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"I never know what to put on mine
Easiest way to explain would be sexually bisexual but romantically straight so not sure how to really convey that by picking one of the above "
I get what you're saying |
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For me
Bi curiouse is wants to try more after kissing the same sex and has thoughts after finding them attractive.
Bi is likes both men and women equally
When it comes to swinging is there really a sexual identity. I mean in my day to day life I identify as gay however after Google showed me a description when I'm swinging I have found myself been homo-flexible so on some occasions it has been full swop with the couple and thats my kink (when me kink wants to play),AND I've been with straight women in a 3 way and there seen as hetro-flexible.
Haha sooooo many terms. Basically there should be a sexually identity on here that says just go with the flow x |
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"I personally changed my "label"
when I went from "I really want to try same sex play "to tried it, loved it, want to do it again"
It will mean different things to different people though  "
Would have loved to play with you, but I got shy haha. Hubby |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As has been said above, it means different things to different people. I enjoy sucking cock, and fucking a guy as part of mmf play, but am not interested in kissing a guy or playing 121. I consider myself bi curious as a consequence. |
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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago
Stourbridge (West-Mids) |
"I never know what to put on mine
Easiest way to explain would be sexually bisexual but romantically straight so not sure how to really convey that by picking one of the above "
I'd consider this Bisexual, but hetero-romantic.
Let's face it, there just aren't enough options to choose from on here! |
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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago
Stourbridge (West-Mids) |
"I personally changed my "label"
when I went from "I really want to try same sex play "to tried it, loved it, want to do it again"
It will mean different things to different people though
Would have loved to play with you, but I got shy haha. Hubby"
Bloody nerves, they get the best of us all sometimes!
I've found myself sending a message or 3 after meeting someone to say the things I just wasn't brave enough to in person 
There is always next time 
K x |
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"I personally changed my "label"
when I went from "I really want to try same sex play "to tried it, loved it, want to do it again"
It will mean different things to different people though
Would have loved to play with you, but I got shy haha. Hubby
Bloody nerves, they get the best of us all sometimes!
I've found myself sending a message or 3 after meeting someone to say the things I just wasn't brave enough to in person
There is always next time
K x"
Definitely! I was so proud of Wifey  |
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"Bi - down to play with my lady bits
Bi curious - only down to play if your hubby wants to watch"
Lol. That's a good one! Bi-curious should also read "will let the lady play with my bits (only with hubby watching/being able to play with the said lady) but I would never play with hers! |
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I’m bi-curious but sexually and romantically straight.
Want to explore what it’s like with a guy to experience but no idea if it will a happen or b like it.
Not to add more complexity having a scale of experience would help as 0% bi curious can be quite intimidating with some guys who come at you at 150%  |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
I do not fancy man on man sex, never fancied men
BUT
give me a couple and I am in.
don't take it up the bum as I have tried and don't like but happy to give if the other person wants it.
I classify myself as bi curious |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
"Bi - down to play with my lady bits
Bi curious - only down to play if your hubby wants to watch
Lol. That's a good one! Bi-curious should also read "will let the lady play with my bits (only with hubby watching/being able to play with the said lady) but I would never play with hers! "
I thought that was a pillow princess |
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"For me
Bi curiouse is wants to try more after kissing the same sex and has thoughts after finding them attractive.
Bi is likes both men and women equally
When it comes to swinging is there really a sexual identity. I mean in my day to day life I identify as gay however after Google showed me a description when I'm swinging I have found myself been homo-flexible so on some occasions it has been full swop with the couple and thats my kink (when me kink wants to play),AND I've been with straight women in a 3 way and there seen as hetro-flexible.
Haha sooooo many terms. Basically there should be a sexually identity on here that says just go with the flow x"
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I use the bi curious label on here because I am comfortable with close contact and some oral activities in MMF so straight probably isn’t the most accurate selection for me
I don’t feel the bisexual label reflects what I’m looking for on fab. I’m not interested in meeting for only male meets
I’m not romantically attracted to males or truly have a physical attraction to them either and I would never engage in any anal play with a man either way
If I selected straight then no doubt the haters would brand me “fab straight” and the usual rhetoric |
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By *k62023Man
over a year ago
Enfield |
I would say romantically I am straight, I have only ever had girlfriends and never considered having a boyfriend, as I am not in the slightest romantically attracted to men.
However, I love to play with guys in mmf threesome scenarios and love to suck cock and have mine sucked and my arse played with.
But to really add another dimension, I am really attracted to trans woman, and love to play with them and fuck and be fucked by them and I would consider having a relationship with a trans girl if I found the right girl.
Now, what the hell does that say about my sexuality, I guess I just should put 'love sex with attractive people' lol |
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Little if anything about human personality is rigid and not on a spectrum. Thus, trying to fit billions of unique people, into 3 or 4 boxes is unrealistic.
Obviously sex with each partner can be incredibly different. Trying to determine something about yourself from isolated events is thus really tough and not a particularly helpful way to do it. People deserve the time and acquisition of experience that they need, in order to self determine themselves.
Making it more complex, is the fact that many people can and do have sex with genders and people who they have zero attraction to. This is common in the adult industry, with straight men having gay sex, as porn actors, etc. |
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"Bi - down to play with my lady bits
Bi curious - only down to play if your hubby wants to watch
Lol. That's a good one! Bi-curious should also read "will let the lady play with my bits (only with hubby watching/being able to play with the said lady) but I would never play with hers!
I thought that was a pillow princess"
But pillow princess can (and should) be at least bi-curious. |
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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago
Hinckley |
Bi curious is thinking about cocks.
Bisexual is loving cocks.
Same applies to the girls by the way.
Being bisexual doesn’t mean you are attracted to men, just their tackle.
Same applies to the ladies.
Personally I’m 100% no holes barred, in my view having a hot cock in you is awesome and my mrs loves to watch and join in, she gets so turned on it unreal , even orgasmic. |
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For me. Bi curious means you don't mind having fun with the same sex.
Bi means you like both equally.
I class myself as Bi curious really as I don't mind having fun with guys. But I don't fancy guys. |
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Bi Curious... Interested in having sex with the same gender
Bi Sexual..... Having sex with both genders
Fab Straight... Guys enjoying cock on the downlow, so as not to " affect their chances with the ladies" |
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
Shoreditch east London |
"For me
Bi curiouse is wants to try more after kissing the same sex and has thoughts after finding them attractive.
Bi is likes both men and women equally
When it comes to swinging is there really a sexual identity. I mean in my day to day life I identify as gay however after Google showed me a description when I'm swinging I have found myself been homo-flexible so on some occasions it has been full swop with the couple and thats my kink (when me kink wants to play),AND I've been with straight women in a 3 way and there seen as hetro-flexible.
Haha sooooo many terms. Basically there should be a sexually identity on here that says just go with the flow x"
Not quite.....when u say bi likes men and women equally, I disagree.
Many men will have sex with men but are not emotionally attached. They will have a sexual relationship with a guy but wouldn't be necessarily have emotions for them or date them. So that's not equal. I can't speak for woman.
I find most bi men I've met are happy to experience the physical side but avoid relationships as they're then more likely to be categorised as being gay. |
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