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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I don't think this has been covered on here before and if it has I apologise. If it hasn't then I hope for some feedback and see what opinions are made.

Bear in mind I am a man looking for women and couples!!!!

OK, here goes. I have been curious for some time about comments made by many regarding, no response to mail, blocked, ignored etc. so I tried a little experiment. On a site not to be mentioned I set up a female profile, with a face pic [no one was harmed in the making of this lol] of someone I know and could never be found on there. There were a couple of cracking body pictures as well, to raise the interest level. These were anonymous, yes I pinched them from somewhere else and am sure someone will admonish me for that! But they were from a smallish US site..

Anyway, the response staggered me, well maybe not staggered me as I guess I was expecting the amount, but the quality of the mails received was, shall we say sad. Out of over 100 received in a day or so, there was probably only two that had clearly read the profile. I stated, no winks, they will get deleted, result over 40. None without pictures, a similar response. Fancy a shag, many, many of them. The one or two that had put any thought in were polite, but hardly interesting and I replied with a thank you but no thank you message. Well, I couldn't really lead them on could I lol?

So anyway this got me to thinking, cap on and listening to the gears grinding. Ah ha I thought! I had, I hoped been sending reasonably interesting messages, as hopefully someone that has had one from me will acknowledge lol. Anyway I guess the point of this post was to say to all those that winge about not getting replies, please, please try a different approach. When you get over a hundred mails and all you see is cock pics or fancy a fuck as the opening line, you really are NOT going to get anywhere Well maybe if you do have a 9 or 10 incher and there is someone that just wants that and not the personality, wit and pleasantries to go with it you will. That said when you read all the comments about little lies on cocks, there probably aren't that many about. Which makes me feel a lot better lol. Cos mine aint that bad. Ha ha.

Oh well, run out of things to say now, just thought some might be interested in this highly poignant research.

Once again, I must emphasize, no humans, ego's or personal feelings were harmed in the making of this!

And now gets ready to duck the onslaught of people who undoubtedly will take this all the wrong way.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You forgot to remove your girly bottom pic when you swopped back

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Oh and another thing lol. Someone was having a rant on hear the otherday as their profile heading, stating about how rude it was that people don't reply and sometimes just block you. I sent him a conciliatory message, saying yes but you should see how many some have to deal with. Guess what??? Did he reply to my message, guess lol

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By *Ryan-Man  over a year ago

In Your Bush

So which ones did you reply to?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You forgot to remove your girly bottom pic when you swopped back "

Actually made me "lol"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You forgot to remove your girly bottom pic when you swopped back

Actually made me "lol""

Did I bring you joy?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You forgot to remove your girly bottom pic when you swopped back

Actually made me "lol"

Did I bring you joy? "

Haha! You're on a roll! You've just doubled the amount of joy you've brought me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So which ones did you reply to?"

Well only the two that had read no bits pics and had read the rest lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

there seems to be a lot of guys making female profiles on here for "research purposes only"

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You forgot to remove your girly bottom pic when you swopped back "

Nooo wasn't on this site lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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"So which ones did you reply to?

Well only the two that had read no bits pics and had read the rest lol "

And did you tell them you were a man?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So which ones did you reply to?

Well only the two that had read no bits pics and had read the rest lol

And did you tell them you were a man?"

Of course not, as I said it was little research to see how couples and females are inundated with mostly crap mail, I just said politely thanks bit no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So you faked a profile?

Interesting.

Good luck with the one you have here

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So you faked a profile?

Interesting.

Good luck with the one you have here"

I detect a note of disapproval lol, Actually, I am quite sure there are many fake profiles on here, but tell you something! At least you can do it here for free. That was another finding of that site, they scam you into paying by sending odd messages purportedly from "interested parties" lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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"So which ones did you reply to?

Well only the two that had read no bits pics and had read the rest lol

And did you tell them you were a man?

Of course not, as I said it was little research to see how couples and females are inundated with mostly crap mail, I just said politely thanks bit no thanks"

Devious

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

was that the single female profile that sent me cock pics....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So you faked a profile?

Interesting.

Good luck with the one you have here

I detect a note of disapproval lol, Actually, I am quite sure there are many fake profiles on here, but tell you something! At least you can do it here for free. That was another finding of that site, they scam you into paying by sending odd messages purportedly from "interested parties" lol"

they scam you on here by making up fake female profiles to keep the hungry guys happy ,its hard enough as it is with out

guys doing it for research

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By *am123Man  over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"So which ones did you reply to?

Well only the two that had read no bits pics and had read the rest lol

And did you tell them you were a man?

Of course not, as I said it was little research to see how couples and females are inundated with mostly crap mail, I just said politely thanks bit no thanks"

i never send one liners,or cock pics and always read profiles and try to incorporate them into my message, but still get no reply or a delete why do u think that is. obv i wont be everyones cup of tea and when i do get messaged back or winked at, u talk a while and then when a meets on the cards every thing stop. there is def alot of talkers on here that dont meet and do waste time males females couples just the way of the site i think

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn


" there is def alot of talkers on here that dont meet and do waste time males females couples just the way of the site i think "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Too much time on your hands dude

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I suggested in a comment on a thread the other day that a guy should do this, set up a female account, so you can see what it's like for us women.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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"So you faked a profile?

Interesting.

Good luck with the one you have here

I detect a note of disapproval lol, Actually, I am quite sure there are many fake profiles on here, but tell you something! At least you can do it here for free. That was another finding of that site, they scam you into paying by sending odd messages purportedly from "interested parties" lol

they scam you on here by making up fake female profiles to keep the hungry guys happy ,its hard enough as it is with out

guys doing it for research"

are you serious?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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"I suggested in a comment on a thread the other day that a guy should do this, set up a female account, so you can see what it's like for us women."

I would'nt suggest that to anyone,if they do they could find their real account suspended but I do understand your thinking

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By *ezebelWoman  over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Oh and another thing lol. Someone was having a rant on hear the otherday as their profile heading, stating about how rude it was that people don't reply and sometimes just block you. I sent him a conciliatory message, saying yes but you should see how many some have to deal with. Guess what??? Did he reply to my message, guess lol"

If you'd sent it from your fake female profile with your fake internet pics you would probably have got a reply

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 25/01/13 20:49:41]

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I am missing something here - I do not quite understand what the OP was trying to prove or disprove?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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"So you faked a profile?

Interesting.

Good luck with the one you have here

I detect a note of disapproval lol, Actually, I am quite sure there are many fake profiles on here, but tell you something! At least you can do it here for free. That was another finding of that site, they scam you into paying by sending odd messages purportedly from "interested parties" lol

they scam you on here by making up fake female profiles to keep the hungry guys happy ,its hard enough as it is with out

guys doing it for research

are you serious?

nooooo all those very same profiles by a very bored person doing input ,i had my own amateur site a few years back ,was going nowhere so paid someone to pretend etc etc go into msn and yahoo chat rooms as was then and direct to my site, got my money back ,just

"

So all the time thats spent by admin on this site getting rid of fake profiles seems really pointless then,especially if they've put them there themselves

This site is massive and has grown considerably in the 5 years ive been here,I doubt the admin team really feel a need to make up hot female profiles,theres loads of real ones anyway

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London

Oh a single bloke trying to ingratiate himself to females and couples lecturing other single men in the etiquette of swinging.

Nope, never seen that on here.

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By *ezebelWoman  over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Oh a single bloke trying to ingratiate himself to females and couples lecturing other single men in the etiquette of swinging.

Nope, never seen that on here. "

But the first one that Ive ever seen daft enough to admit that he sets up fake profiles with fake pics...

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"Oh a single bloke trying to ingratiate himself to females and couples lecturing other single men in the etiquette of swinging.

Nope, never seen that on here.

But the first one that Ive ever seen daft enough to admit that he sets up fake profiles with fake pics... "

Aye: that could be a first.

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By *Ryan-Man  over a year ago

In Your Bush


"[Removed by poster at 25/01/13 20:49:41]"

Whoever this was. You have traumatised them. They have left the site ! We're they one of the ones you replied to? Bloody tease

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Dunno why I bothered really, knew no one would read the whole thing and get the gist of where I was going with it. It really was an experiment to see from a couples and women's point of _iew just how frustrating it is from their side

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Oh a single bloke trying to ingratiate himself to females and couples lecturing other single men in the etiquette of swinging.

Nope, never seen that on here. "

Have I really tried to ingratiate myself to them? I dont think so have I tried to admonish other guys for their faults, I dont think so. If that is the way you read it then I really have not made a good job writing this and apologise.

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By *Ryan-Man  over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Dunno why I bothered really, knew no one would read the whole thing and get the gist of where I was going with it. It really was an experiment to see from a couples and women's point of _iew just how frustrating it is from their side"

We already know. They bloody tell us every day

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Dunno why I bothered really, knew no one would read the whole thing and get the gist of where I was going with it. It really was an experiment to see from a couples and women's point of _iew just how frustrating it is from their side

We already know. They bloody tell us every day "

Very true lol, but it gave me an appreciation of what they say and the profile was only up for a few days

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I did! well done to you! But there is literally no point in expecting any sensible answers on here my friend!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I did! well done to you! But there is literally no point in expecting any sensible answers on here my friend!"

Lol true, I did sort of think that was the case. I really just wanted to see the whole thing from a different _iew point - And thanks!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Dunno why I bothered really, knew no one would read the whole thing and get the gist of where I was going with it. It really was an experiment to see from a couples and women's point of _iew just how frustrating it is from their side"

did you think that 'we' have not worked that one out yet?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thought he was aiming his research at single men?

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