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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago
elvedon |
"We use them a lot. It's a great way to gauge if there's interest from both sides before you waste time messaging to find out there's nothing in common or no attraction. "
Yeah I think they are a great way to show some interest. Maybe just nobody is interested  haha . |
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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago
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"In most cases where the wink is from profile what we are looking for MF couples and F singles we like them. It’s a great and simple way to say ‘Hi’. "
Yeah I agree . Definitely think they should be used more |
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I really like getting winks and it seems a really good and quick way of saying hi I like you profile xx
Loads seem to hate them, but then they also get oodles of messages filling their inbox xx
I'd love to get more winks for sure xx  |
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We still use them to gauge initial interest. If there is a wink back we will follow up with a message.
I'd rather that than typing out numerous messages for people not interested, and wouldn't want to resort to copy/paste.
It's a useful first filter. |
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"We use them a lot. It's a great way to gauge if there's interest from both sides before you waste time messaging to find out there's nothing in common or no attraction. "
Absolutely. Can save a lot of time wasted and can lead to the odd pleasant surprise |
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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago
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We don't mind then. We do send to see if the other side are interested and if they don't respond and you know they've looked at profile then we know it's a no go. Also do read the profile to make sure it's not a turn off for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I send a wink to show interest and then if I receive one back I message them. I tend to just stick to this because as a single man messaging women and couples your up against it and probably will only get 1 reply out of 20 messages so it just makes it easier as for who to message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve used winks on a few occasions, and received a few (always nice). It can be a good way to break the ice, but it’s no guarantee that the receiver looks at them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to send a wink first to gauge interest, if I get a wink back I'll always send a message.
If not sending out numerous messages when the person/couple may not be interested can become very tedious and lead to copy and paste messages which no one wants |
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I use them, if you wink and they wink back you know there is enough interest to message them.
Sometimes I see a profile I like and don't have the mental space to message them so I'll just send a wink.
Happy to receive them too, if I like the person I'll wink back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we prefer a message although if we get a wink we do check the profile, if were interested we wink back.
we also send out winks if were not sure youd be interested in us, |
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TBH there are enough messages to delete than trawl through winks as well.
I admit to have sent the odd one to a guy but nothing has come of it.
An interesting message is what I look for. Winks remind me too much of dating sites.
I can see why couples would use it, so this has given me some insight.
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Winks work for me, I get lots of messages from people who don't read my profile so a wink is a good way to see if they like my profile and vice versa.
Problem for me is someone will wink, I wink them back but I don't hear from them. Then I forget to message them to start chatting!
If I wink first then they send one back I usually message as soon as I get chance.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like winks and I think they are a great way of breaking the ice with someone.
A reciprocated wink then allows you to start a conversation in the knowledge that there’s at least some mutual attraction/curiosity there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I confess to being a bit of a winker!!
May not be for everyone but for me it's a good jump off point to show interest or appreciation of an interesting profile.
Feel free to wink back.
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we don't really bother too much, nope.
When we get them we tend to send a brief ty pm
or maybe follow up with a pm for more info if the sender meets our idea of a potentially good meet.
Its a difficult one because we understand some find them irritating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. I don't send them anymore and I no longer pay any attention to them as I've had far too many instances of messaging someone who has sent me one, only to be completely ignored.
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