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How Long Had You Been A Member On Here Before Your First Meet?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am just about to hit my 1st anniversary on Fab and I was wondering how long others had been a member before they had their first meet.? "
On my first profile I had a meet with guys within a couple of weeks my my first gal on here after a couple of months we actually ended up dating for 2 years or so 
This time round haven't had a new meet since rejoining but hoping to change that soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was pretty lucky the first time round when joining fab accidentally put me back in touch with a girl I’d had a lot of fun with years before. I made a few other friends through her and that seemed far easier.
I’ve only actually met six or seven people directly via fab over the two times I’ve been a member. It’s always seemed more useful for finding out about events and meets than actually for arranging 1:1 meets, at least for most men. |
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By *andyladMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
I’ve been on and off the sites for a good few years under different profiles. I officially got my first meet within a month of joining the site. A couple who was seeking a meet was let down and I happened to be in the right place at the right time. They were only young like myself and joined that day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was over a year but it was during covid and also working overseas didnt help either.. i then had a few meets in quick succession after that and now have a fwb so its all looking a bit brighter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First time on here was within a couple of weeks - that was years ago.
This time around I've lost interest in competing for attention, so only really come here for the forums. |
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3 years.
We were members of another site before this one. We signed up in 2014, then had our first meet 3 years later.
This and other sites can be a daunting place for couples who want to explore at their own (slow) pace. Lots of people say they aren't hardened swingers, but it was nearly impossible arranging a meet with another couple without them wanting us to commit to playing. |
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What you have to understand is most people on this site are not actually fucking. A lot of guys get tired of waiting and simply lose interest. The small number that stick around have to get creative to entertain themselves. It took me months to meet someone and even then it was a party setting and that lead to other stuff. I made friends at a party that had nothing to do with Fabs and from there my luck has turned.
Meeting single ladies is like cracking the Hadron Collider. Most are not actually serious about a meet. As for couples, there's a better chance but if you're not bi or ok with filming then its another tall order.
I use this site mainly to organise parties with friends and meet at clubs and private events. 1v1 meets are actually an alien concept at this point. Good luck. |
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"What you have to understand is most people on this site are not actually fucking. A lot of guys get tired of waiting and simply lose interest. The small number that stick around have to get creative to entertain themselves. It took me months to meet someone and even then it was a party setting and that lead to other stuff. I made friends at a party that had nothing to do with Fabs and from there my luck has turned.
Meeting single ladies is like cracking the Hadron Collider. Most are not actually serious about a meet. As for couples, there's a better chance but if you're not bi or ok with filming then its another tall order.
I use this site mainly to organise parties with friends and meet at clubs and private events. 1v1 meets are actually an alien concept at this point. Good luck. "
* This may or may not be reflective of everyone’s experiences on fab  |
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About 2 days.
We mentioned it and Mrs agreed to give it a go, then decided she wanted to do something ASAP before she changed her mind, so about 48 hours later we were at a club.
Wasn't the best experience or night, probably set us back a few years in getting into this.
Much more considered second time around and much more fun! |
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By *eGingeMan
over a year ago
Halesowen |
Bizarrely my first meet from here was accidental. I was in before and a woman I knew met me for a night and turned out she was on here too! I’d winked and she’d ignored me on here!! That was a few months.
Been a long time since a meet this time around. So many single guys it’s hard to stand out |
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"I was very lucky.
About 2 weeks"
Technically though, 0 days.
I hadn't even heard of Fab but visited a nearby porn cinema. A couple came in and it rapidly became a bukkake! Talking to them afterwards, they asked for my Fab username so we could verify each other. So they introduced me to Fab! |
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