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Whats everybody preference?
Im happy to play both ways but would more prefer to play bareback, the feeling of a warm wet pussy is unbeatable.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always with a condom |
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On the swinging scene definitely condoms, you just don't know where people are sticking their bits and with whom
In a relationship then ofcourse BB |
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Condoms unless with someone regularly and know they are clean |
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By *t0600Man
over a year ago
elvedon |
Depends on what both parties prefer doesn’t it |
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"Whats everybody preference?
Im happy to play both ways but would more prefer to play bareback, the feeling of a warm wet pussy is unbeatable.."
I love it without but for swinging and casual sex I use a condom. There have been rare exceptions in my life but its very rare.
I However only use them for sex not oral. |
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I would much prefer bareback but I always use condoms for meets.
If the people you meet also insist on condoms it's reassuring that they are also careful. I would be cautious about people who meet bareback. I don't want the health anxiety. |
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"Whats everybody preference?
Im happy to play both ways but would more prefer to play bareback, the feeling of a warm wet pussy is unbeatable.. I love it without but for swinging and casual sex I use a condom. There have been rare exceptions in my life but its very rare.
I However only use them for sex not oral. "
Serious question to all
Why would you wear one for sex, buy not oral. ?. |
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"Whats everybody preference?
Im happy to play both ways but would more prefer to play bareback, the feeling of a warm wet pussy is unbeatable.. I love it without but for swinging and casual sex I use a condom. There have been rare exceptions in my life but its very rare.
I However only use them for sex not oral.
Serious question to all
Why would you wear one for sex, buy not oral. ?."
This is a very good question i'd like to hear peoples take on this ?
Im like most people when it comes to random hookups, condoms always but prefer barrback with regular people |
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Well I know we prefer bare if we know them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both but have been on and off this site years and the majority of meets I have had have been bareback |
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It's a condom with anyone but my partner. |
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Of course many of us would PREFER bareback, but common sense gets in the way when it comes to swinging...  |
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By *az0045Man
over a year ago
Hertfordshire |
My opinion
Sex = condom
Oral = bare
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All would prefer bb....but safety first! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My opinion
Sex = condom
Oral = bare
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Always bareback inside the condom for sex but Oral without if partner is ok with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh depends on the situation, 99% of the time I would say condom, especially as some people are meeting with A LOT of different people.
However... I have been a few couples first 3some, the guy having to put a condom on for me, take it off for his woman, put another on for me etc etc really messes with the flow. And realistically whatever the guy has, the girl has and I'd end up getting something from her anyway...
If someone can prove no sex since last test and I can prove the same then I would consider bare. |
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"Tbh depends on the situation, 99% of the time I would say condom, especially as some people are meeting with A LOT of different people.
However... I have been a few couples first 3some, the guy having to put a condom on for me, take it off for his woman, put another on for me etc etc really messes with the flow. And realistically whatever the guy has, the girl has and I'd end up getting something from her anyway...
If someone can prove no sex since last test and I can prove the same then I would consider bare. "
I couldn't think of anything worse having to switch condoms constantly throughout, thats a mood killer |
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"Whats everybody preference?
Im happy to play both ways but would more prefer to play bareback, the feeling of a warm wet pussy is unbeatable.."
If your happy to play with either, we wouldn't go anywhere near you. Sorry. That's justuss |
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Always use a condom but the thought of multiple men filling me up gets me sooo excited! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always condoms, neither of us particularly like them but always play safe!!! |
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Is this a genuine question on a swingers site. Like wtf seriously wtf, plz pass on your sti's...chlamydia line to left |
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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago
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Condom or not at all. |
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Condom. Absolutely no question. Any issues with that please feel free to block me. Only bareback I will even consider is with my husband.. hard pass to barebackers |
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"Whats everybody preference?
Im happy to play both ways but would more prefer to play bareback, the feeling of a warm wet pussy is unbeatable.. I love it without but for swinging and casual sex I use a condom. There have been rare exceptions in my life but its very rare.
I However only use them for sex not oral.
Serious question to all
Why would you wear one for sex, buy not oral. ?."
because the risk is significantly less for oral. There is still a risk... but I also can't get pregnant from giving a bj.
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"Whats everybody preference?
Im happy to play both ways but would more prefer to play bareback, the feeling of a warm wet pussy is unbeatable.. I love it without but for swinging and casual sex I use a condom. There have been rare exceptions in my life but its very rare.
I However only use them for sex not oral.
Serious question to all
Why would you wear one for sex, buy not oral. ?. because the risk is significantly less for oral. There is still a risk... but I also can't get pregnant from giving a bj.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this a genuine question on a swingers site. Like wtf seriously wtf, plz pass on your sti's...chlamydia line to left "
You'd be surprised at just how many men and couples attempt to go bare straight away! They don't even stop to think about putting one on, don't even have them when you ask them to put one on!
Lucky I always have tons with me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can’t understand how people go bareback while swinging, the stress ruins the fun |
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"Is this a genuine question on a swingers site. Like wtf seriously wtf, plz pass on your sti's...chlamydia line to left
You'd be surprised at just how many men and couples attempt to go bare straight away! They don't even stop to think about putting one on, don't even have them when you ask them to put one on!
Lucky I always have tons with me.
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I really not surprised I've been around a week it two....
What brand are your Ton of nodders |
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bareback If only!!! But it’s always better to be safe than sorry |
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Condom. Always. Not optional. Yes, including oral lol |
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100% condom, dare is reserved for hubby |
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When we play as a couple it’s bare but if Sean meets alone and the lady wants condom used he happily would use 1 |
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"Whats everybody preference?
Im happy to play both ways but would more prefer to play bareback, the feeling of a warm wet pussy is unbeatable.. I love it without but for swinging and casual sex I use a condom. There have been rare exceptions in my life but its very rare.
I However only use them for sex not oral.
Her Choice! Get over yourself! Pointless post
Serious question to all
Why would you wear one for sex, buy not oral. ?."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bareback is great but it’s got to be only for trusted partners and oral. Really significant increase in STI’s at the moment should be enough to persuade…if other risks weren’t enough already. |
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"It's a condom with anyone but my partner."
This, always |
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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago
colchester |
We all love the dreame of bareback but swingers must play safe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wife loves bare back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a condom with absolutely everyone but my partner... |
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The shocking number of people who seem to believe that a condom is going to protect them.
STD s are not only contracted with penetrative sex people.
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"The shocking number of people who seem to believe that a condom is going to protect them.
STD s are not only contracted with penetrative sex people.
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I’m not sure they do think that.
The only totally safe sex is NO sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The shocking number of people who seem to believe that a condom is going to protect them.
STD s are not only contracted with penetrative sex people.
I’m not sure they do think that.
The only totally safe sex is NO sex "
True but not possible when swinging lol. So condom for me. |
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"The shocking number of people who seem to believe that a condom is going to protect them.
STD s are not only contracted with penetrative sex people.
I’m not sure they do think that.
The only totally safe sex is NO sex "
No Sex, help to live longer, well, the bordum makes you feel living for ever  |
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Bareback all day long wants to feel the wet pussy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never used a condom in my entire life.I really hate the things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only play bareback |
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If one off condom
If want make it regular thing get tested simple . Bare back 100% better. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I highly doubt anyone would say using a condom feels better. Bareback can be incredibly hot, primal and yep. A lot of fun.
But... safer sex is important. Managing risks, making that decision yourself. I have no qualms about using condoms with people, even lovers I'm rather fond of. I do like bareback sex but I'm not exactly queueing up for a creampie gangbang - strangers never.
You work out what's best for you. Just do it with honesty with those concerned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love your profile Meli |
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Thoughy
I would add
People will suck a cock without a condom
Yet insist on one for penetrative sex
But if you are sucking and tasting Cum you are gonna catch the same thing ?
Or am I wrong ? |
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"I have never used a condom in my entire life.I really hate the things."
I’m in favour of bareback. But if you have never used a condom in your entire life, how can you know you really hate the things?  |
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Condom for penetration sex, bare for a bj |
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"Condom for penetration sex, bare for a bj "
Yes but why ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging site is no different to tinder or other casual encounters. It just takes one person 
I go bare and use condoms, depends on who the person is. I'm on reliable contraception and regularly tested (every 30 days).
Condoms don't always stop stis - not to mention oral too (and herpes) . The only 100% way is not to have sex.. haha.
All personal preference.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thoughy
I would add
People will suck a cock without a condom
Yet insist on one for penetrative sex
But if you are sucking and tasting Cum you are gonna catch the same thing ?
Or am I wrong ? "
This°!!! |
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Well condoms if I have a one night stand with different women and if I had someone regular, it would be condoms until we both take a test to make sure we're both clean before we go bareback |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
I'd rather not take any risks and use a condom regardless if people are getting tested you still need tested using one |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging site is no different to tinder or other casual encounters. It just takes one person
I go bare and use condoms, depends on who the person is. I'm on reliable contraception and regularly tested (every 30 days).
Condoms don't always stop stis - not to mention oral too (and herpes) . The only 100% way is not to have sex.. haha.
All personal preference.x"
Exactly...be aware of the risks...take what you think are appropriate ways to reduce your risks. No doubt some peoples level of risk they are willing to take will be different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not here to have a go at anyone. You do what you feel is right.
People say "I play bare with people I know" or "I always wear a condom". If we look at it another way, no one can ever be safe in anything!. A condom may split during intercorse without anyone knowing, therfore technically, you could catch/pass on something. Another way is "I trust my partner and know they don't cheat!", but as we all know, people do and have strayed behind their partners back and could have caught something!.
Don't forget,I'm not for one side or the other, just being level headed.
Peace and love to you all. |
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Condom every time...yes, without feels better but for me, it just ain't worth the risk |
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I have to admit I prefer if they are bare |
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Whatever the other person prefers. I’m on PREP so I’m happy with either |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Bare when we are playing together but only safe when playing with others. We wouldn't want to take the risk as you've only got one set of genitals
C x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a bi guy we've had a bi guy who wanted bareback with both of us . Now stats wise bi guys are more risky in terms of sexual preference and the lifestyle. Thus everyone has a choice but to risky for us |
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Bareback in the pussy, arse and mouth  |
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Bareback is always better but not as safe |
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Bareback for sure with the right couples/ladies... |
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Covered up if planned meet but sometimes you just can’t wait for it |
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Our truth, from our experience...
1. Never once, in a club or private had a guy declined sex because I prefer bareback.
2. Guys virtue signal "no glove, no love" on forums because this keeps the pool of potential meets wider. Totally understand this, dont hate the player, hate the game seems apt for this circumstance.
3. Couples are more than happy to play bare with other couples.
We test regular (of course everyone says this though), use Prep on an events based method and live happily with remaining risk. Again, this our truth, not THE truth and for us we benefit from seriously erotic and natural scenarios, with no time out mood breaks as guys open and fit a condom. Also I hate the smell and taste.
To be decent you should be open on your profiles, imo only, so others can block or shortlist you dependent on their preferences.
To date we've not contracted anything, but that's just an aside and certainly not evidential of anything. Hubby has snip also.
Play what's comfortable for all involved and enjoy to the max, whatever way that is x |
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By *HICKCHOCMan
over a year ago
UPnorthwestDOWNsoutheast |
Bareback
But if asked to put a condom
Not a problem |
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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago
Telford |
"Our truth, from our experience...
1. Never once, in a club or private had a guy declined sex because I prefer bareback.
2. Guys virtue signal "no glove, no love" on forums because this keeps the pool of potential meets wider. Totally understand this, dont hate the player, hate the game seems apt for this circumstance.
3. Couples are more than happy to play bare with other couples.
We test regular (of course everyone says this though), use Prep on an events based method and live happily with remaining risk. Again, this our truth, not THE truth and for us we benefit from seriously erotic and natural scenarios, with no time out mood breaks as guys open and fit a condom. Also I hate the smell and taste.
To be decent you should be open on your profiles, imo only, so others can block or shortlist you dependent on their preferences.
To date we've not contracted anything, but that's just an aside and certainly not evidential of anything. Hubby has snip also.
Play what's comfortable for all involved and enjoy to the max, whatever way that is x"
This
We believe that people who enjoy and play bareback, but know, understand and mitigate the risks can be as safe, if not safer than those who think they’re playing safe using conforms, but are completely naive of the risks and make no attempt to mitigate them. |
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By *onicZMan
over a year ago
Nottinghamshire |
I've had the snip but condoms always on a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bare when it's us, condoms always on a meet |
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It's so much nicer bareback but we always use condoms for meets. |
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I don't know what you're talking about, I'm a virgin. |
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Prefer bareback but will always cover up if requested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both prefer bareback as most people do but we absolutely only do that with each other. Fun involving anyone else is safe sex always
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always wrap up or less it’s a long term partner |
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I prefer BB, no question about that
But only with a regular partner |
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Prefer bareback with couples x |
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By *c12Man
over a year ago
South East |
anyone new... im playing safe.. |
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My man - bareback anyone else would be condom.
Mrs |
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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago
Gwent... |
"My man - bareback anyone else would be condom.
Mrs "
Same for us... |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
Both, depends on situation. In ideal sti free works world I’d go bb all days long. But nowadays and in real world, with partner -bb, random meets - safe only. I don’t have partner so it’s safe only for now |
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Love BB, but have noticed that most people I have met on here are not fussed about using condoms! Happy to play bare if people have very recent tests that they can show ( I am tested regularly too), but find it odd that there is such anti-BB sentiment on here but in reality no one seems to care!?! |
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By *eediousMan
over a year ago
Smallville |
"Always use a condom but the thought of multiple men filling me up gets me sooo excited! "
That’s that natural instinct kicking in!! |
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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Condoms.
We did have the guy from a couple try to insert without a condom. We stopped him and his wife then said ‘It’s ok he’s has a vasectomy’ . We were shocked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mmm carnt beat a bareback fuck something so horny about fucking the mrs with a load of hot cum in it and it's great lube absolutely love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular swinging always safe, specific fantasys then bare but it's very rare. |
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"Mmm carnt beat a bareback fuck something so horny about fucking the mrs with a load of hot cum in it and it's great lube absolutely love it "
Wish you were closer!  |
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Definitely prefer bare
We know the risks and test regularly and not had any issues
Each to their own… |
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Varies on how well I know someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We prefer bareback but happy to use condoms too |
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Allways safe don’t trust anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bareback all the way for me, nothing better then my pussy dripping after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Condoms highly preferred, lots of trust needed for bareback |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Condom always |
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By *empusMan
over a year ago
Poole |
Bareback
With regular tests.
Plus, I really don’t sleep around that much. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
"Love BB, but have noticed that most people I have met on here are not fussed about using condoms! Happy to play bare if people have very recent tests that they can show ( I am tested regularly too), but find it odd that there is such anti-BB sentiment on here but in reality no one seems to care!?! "
This is quite true. At the parties I go to almost everyone plays bareback though these are not officially BB parties. Yes many more claim to play with condoms only but when they meet no one even talks about protected sex. Personally I prefer BB sex |
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"Well condoms if I have a one night stand with different women and if I had someone regular, it would be condoms until we both take a test to make sure we're both clean before we go bareback"
Exactly this |
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"Love BB, but have noticed that most people I have met on here are not fussed about using condoms! Happy to play bare if people have very recent tests that they can show ( I am tested regularly too), but find it odd that there is such anti-BB sentiment on here but in reality no one seems to care!?!
This is quite true. At the parties I go to almost everyone plays bareback though these are not officially BB parties. Yes many more claim to play with condoms only but when they meet no one even talks about protected sex. Personally I prefer BB sex"
I see this very often as well with couples in clubs or messaging etc
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bareback all the way for me, nothing better then my pussy dripping after "
Naughty |
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"Love BB, but have noticed that most people I have met on here are not fussed about using condoms! Happy to play bare if people have very recent tests that they can show ( I am tested regularly too), but find it odd that there is such anti-BB sentiment on here but in reality no one seems to care!?!
This is quite true. At the parties I go to almost everyone plays bareback though these are not officially BB parties. Yes many more claim to play with condoms only but when they meet no one even talks about protected sex. Personally I prefer BB sex"
I’ve clubbed for 8 years and hardly ever seen anyone playing bare unless it’s a couple.
To the point where I’ve played bare in a club with a partner and numerous people on every occasion have interrupted and checked I knew.
Completely different experience here.
Everyone I speak too is massively into safe- maybe we just attract what we like x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have swapped with less than half a dozen couples so far. Every single one using condoms. Good reason too, as the bloke from one of the couples moved from wife to another two women with the same condom we gave him still on.
We are open to bareback but not with folk we don't know well. It all comes down to trust and until we tend to side with caution from the get-go. The example we gave here of a bloke reusing the same condom should show why we are careful. |
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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago
West Midlands |
We love the idea of bare, heightens the arousal of our imagination but in reality I’d have to know and trust somebody incredibly well to go without. |
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RAINCOAT!!!
I like it attatched, in the shape that it is and, the same colour as it always has been!
You can have fun putting them on too, and the reduction in cleanup...bonus! |
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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago
milton keynes |
Either works for me but only bare when trust is built. If a guy is using a condom I much prefer that when they get close they remove the condom and cum over me or in mouth |
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I absolutely prefer bareback, it's so naughty, which is why we do it, it's the idea of doing something your not supposed to do, also it feels much better for the man as well as the woman, Just as long as there is consent all round. BB is the best way to fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab sexual meets = condom.
Fab social meets = no condom
It’s literally that simple. Sexual health is serious. |
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NSA - Condom
FWB / Relationship - No Condom
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over a year ago
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Rubber johnny obviously |
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By *hyme2020Woman
over a year ago
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"Fab sexual meets = condom.
Fab social meets = no condom
It’s literally that simple. Sexual health is serious."
I am at a loss for words at 90% of the comments on here and you have renewed my faith. Thank you! Sexual health is serious and I can’t understand why so many take it so lightly! |
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"Fab sexual meets = condom.
Fab social meets = no condom
It’s literally that simple. Sexual health is serious.
I am at a loss for words at 90% of the comments on here and you have renewed my faith. Thank you! Sexual health is serious and I can’t understand why so many take it so lightly! "
Always important to protect the Dingle dangle haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have swapped with less than half a dozen couples so far. Every single one using condoms. Good reason too, as the bloke from one of the couples moved from wife to another two women with the same condom we gave him still on.
We are open to bareback but not with folk we don't know well. It all comes down to trust and until we tend to side with caution from the get-go. The example we gave here of a bloke reusing the same condom should show why we are careful."
I saw a guy doing this very thing in a club, and made sure to point of mentioning this to as many couples and singles as possible, just to make people aware... |
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Think the consensus is clear, condoms. However with a long term trusted playmate the idea of bareback and cumming inside is super hot for us both |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
cheshire |
condoms bareback with people i really trust |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think the consensus is clear, condoms. However with a long term trusted playmate the idea of bareback and cumming inside is super hot for us both "
Trusted is the key here... |
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By *3xDECouple
over a year ago
nottingham |
Condom always. Unless they can prove that they are clean and aren’t active sexually since having test. (Yes i know people can lie, but in this case they would need to be someone we trust and meet regularly)
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In an age of an explosion of STIs and global antibiotic shortages...
Well. |
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Just a point to consider
You can just as easily catch any of the viral and bacterial sti infections from oral
It is however almost impossible to pass on hiv via the oral route unless you have damaged gums etc
Btw don't brush teeth before sex with someone new. Brushing can damage the gums
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With couples who we have built up a rapport with and see as regulars we've gone bareback about 50/50. It depends on how horny the atmosphere is. We prefer bareback absolutely but do use condoms with singles always. Don't ask us to explain or justify why, it just feels like we should. We've both fucked easily 60 or 70 people bareback since starting to swing in Our last STI test May 2023 came up clean. We're both on Prep, and have been vaccinated against HepA, HepB, and HPV. Bareback feels way better. We love it but always keep condoms to hand as. Mrs Honeycakes loves guys emptying their loads on her face and in her mouth, so condoms aren't gonna work there. Yes we know stuff can pass through oral, but Jesus, life is short and we're gonna have fun. And we won't ever get HIV, so let's FUCK. |
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over a year ago
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Safety first for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In an age of an explosion of STIs and global antibiotic shortages...
Well."
The STIs that are having huge increases in reported infections are all transmissible though oral and fingers not *just* bareback penetrative intercourse. Unfortunately unless you're going to use dams for snogging, and licking and rubbing pussy, a femidom or glove for fingering, condoms for sucking cock. Donning a condom just before and for penetration is not "safe".
Get tested, know your status, be honest with partners about any risk you might be, and use condoms along with other protections where they are appropriate. |
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By *ez669Man
over a year ago
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Hate condoms they can mess with your mojo but needs must |
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"In an age of an explosion of STIs and global antibiotic shortages...
Well.
The STIs that are having huge increases in reported infections are all transmissible though oral and fingers not *just* bareback penetrative intercourse. Unfortunately unless you're going to use dams for snogging, and licking and rubbing pussy, a femidom or glove for fingering, condoms for sucking cock. Donning a condom just before and for penetration is not "safe".
Get tested, know your status, be honest with partners about any risk you might be, and use condoms along with other protections where they are appropriate."
I never said that condoms presented safe sex.
If you asked me, I would have said "safer" sex.
Like, you can look before crossing the road and doing so correctly at a traffic light. And still get hit by a car and killed.
Doesn't mean you should cross the road without looking though.
Looking is safer |
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"...We've both fucked easily 60 or 70 people bareback since starting to swing..."
Er that should have said '6 or 7' not '60 or 70'...Imagine that, porn star numbers...Weird spellchecker stuff.
But yes mainly condoms but occasionally bare back in certain circumstances. xx |
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"Whats everybody preference?
Im happy to play both ways but would more prefer to play bareback, the feeling of a warm wet pussy is unbeatable.. I love it without but for swinging and casual sex I use a condom. There have been rare exceptions in my life but its very rare.
I However only use them for sex not oral.
Serious question to all
Why would you wear one for sex, buy not oral. ?."
Don't mean to sound rude but the question isn't as serious as it sounds,yes you can catch a sexual transmitted disease doing Oral.But I have been told the risk is very low,I assume the case's they get for Oral infections transmitted by sucking cock.
Is next to nothing compared to Vigina or Back passage transmitted infections.
I'd say more cocks are sucked bare on a daily basis than Vigina's or bottoms being fucked.
Next time you go to get tested ask your doctor and do a post |
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"Whats everybody preference?
Im happy to play both ways but would more prefer to play bareback, the feeling of a warm wet pussy is unbeatable.."
Love bareback, don't we all, but proper dumb assed if you don't know someone properly ! |
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"Safe sex =condom "
I don't mind BJ's bare anything else I wear my Jacket. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been swinging on and off for the past 10 years and started out using condoms unless it developed into regularly meeting the same couple which led to bareback fun.
Now I lean more to bareback, mostly with couples I know and have built up trust with and taking the proper precautions. I still use condoms at parties and spontaneous meets but playing bareback is another level of arousal |
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By *M737Couple
over a year ago
Thanet |
"I have to admit I prefer if they are bare"
Totally ????x |
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"...We've both fucked easily 60 or 70 people bareback since starting to swing...
Er that should have said '6 or 7' not '60 or 70'...Imagine that, porn star numbers...Weird spellchecker stuff.
But yes mainly condoms but occasionally bare back in certain circumstances. xx"
Haha - 60 or 70 sounds much better! |
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"Whats everybody preference?
Im happy to play both ways but would more prefer to play bareback, the feeling of a warm wet pussy is unbeatable.."
Latest news update :” Syphilis cases at highest level for 75 years in England last year”
Warm wet pussy becomes grey warty pussy and cock… well done Casanova |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every single male that contacts me asks if I want bareback. It appears so many people aren't worried about STD's etc. Just an observation - there's not one guy that I've spoken to that hasn't asked me. |
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"Every single male that contacts me asks if I want bareback. It appears so many people aren't worried about STD's etc. Just an observation - there's not one guy that I've spoken to that hasn't asked me."
Maybe because you haven't safe sex listed in your interests? |
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Check out my vid. That was my first time bare with a regular guy I've been meeting for 5 years... It was amazing. And yes i sent that vid to my hubby |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bare back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every single male that contacts me asks if I want bareback. It appears so many people aren't worried about STD's etc. Just an observation - there's not one guy that I've spoken to that hasn't asked me.
Maybe because you haven't safe sex listed in your interests?"
Yes I figured that out last night, when someone else said - oops. But still there are a lot of people willing with someone they've never met. Each to their own though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I know we prefer bare if we know them "
Sure you really know who they have had sex with! LOL, you still need regular testing either way. |
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Guess we all prefer bare, but it's safety first for me. Only exception is lady I've known 10 years and built up a trust |
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Wouldn’t go bareback as not worth it…. |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was a lot youngerI contracted chlamydia, gonorrhea and NSU.
That was my lesson learned, and I have not had unprotected sex outside a relationship since 2003. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bareback it’s such a turn on filling up a pussy with cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Together, bare.
Casually, not. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
I haven't fucked anyone with a condom on for 8 years.
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*haven't fucked anyone but the wife in those 8 years mind you.......  |
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Many folks state in the profile that it has to be latex covered play at all times. But likewise playing with them in a club, bare, well what the profile says and what folks actually do is often two separate things |
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I’m sorry to say sometimes there’s nothing better or more horny than cumming inside a beautiful woman..
There’s is even more of a rush when it’s naughty wife being risky..
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No glove
No love
And certainly NO EXCEPTIONS |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
If you don't know the person or their background would you really risk your health for a short-lived thrill ... |
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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago
Tralee |
Everybody would prefer bare but everybody goes covered |
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over a year ago
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Bareback as long as she is willing |
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