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I’m orally bi myself and in my experience most (not all) straight couples don’t seem to want to meet bi guys, for some reason they seem to think we don’t respect peoples boundaries and we won’t be able to keep our hands off the guys!! As I say, that’s just my own personal experience |
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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago
East Lancashire |
Should be a page for couples looking for bi guys.
A lot of straight couples are put off by bi on a guy's profile from my experience.
I guess they think the guy who t be able to keep his hands of the male half. |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"We had two bi guys over yesterday and used them good. We only play with bi single guys as we both enjoy cock. Bi couples are harder to find, genuine couples even harder.  "
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Sounds like you guys had a fun weekend  |
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"We had two bi guys over yesterday and used them good. We only play with bi single guys as we both enjoy cock. Bi couples are harder to find, genuine couples even harder. "
We bi cpls are on here, but not so many near where you are I am guessing. Not many truly fully bi cpls on here either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had two bi guys over yesterday and used them good. We only play with bi single guys as we both enjoy cock. Bi couples are harder to find, genuine couples even harder. "
Sounds like the perfect meet, local but can’t message as you’re not looking for single guys. Could bring a male friend lol |
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"Best thing I’ve done is confirm my bisexuality to myself! Been lucky enough to have met a few couples specifically looking for a bi guy and had a great time with each of them! "
Wish I'd realised earlier.
Been lucky enough to enjoy some couples and singles. |
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If we are in an open play area and a couple want us to join in, we always ask if they are bi. We respect straight boundaries, but prefer Bi people. Some events are bi specific like Libertines at Liberty Elite. |
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"Yes there are, but you have to be attractive to both so it’s harder to get a meet.
At least that’s what I tell myself about why I haven’t had one yet  "
I only have to be attracted to the male. That’s all I play with. The Mrs plays with the fems! |
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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago
Hayling Island |
"We look for bi guys. She loves to watch!"
This is so hot! I get so turned on when a woman watches me play with her man  it's hot enough when when we're just sucking each other off in front of her, but the best is when she encourages and supports him as I slowly open him up and then fuck him to orgasm...It is an amazing experience! It's such a turn on It's hard to describe |
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"Much harder finding a normal, respectful bi guy that matches what are looking for, than we imagined to be honest.
Thought it would be easier!"
This is what me n the Mrs are finding. One that won’t touch the Mrs! She’s got me for that. |
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By *elshbi2Couple
over a year ago
Swansea |
We have met a couple of genuine bi guys, anyone that has straight on their profile who message us and say “I am bi”, get deleted. We do state in our profile that the guys have to be genuinely verified bi. |
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"We have met a couple of genuine bi guys, anyone that has straight on their profile who message us and say “I am bi”, get deleted. We do state in our profile that the guys have to be genuinely verified bi."
On our couples profile. We block all who are like that when they message. Be truthful! If lie about that, what else they fibbing about? |
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I have found that there are as many couples on here where the male is listed as straight but when you chat to them they are looking for bi men, as there are “straight” single men who are secretly bi. There seems to be a stigma about being bi. |
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"Much harder finding a normal, respectful bi guy that matches what are looking for, than we imagined to be honest.
Thought it would be easier!
This is what me n the Mrs are finding. One that won’t touch the Mrs! She’s got me for that. "
To be fair, being Bi means they want to play with both of you, if you want them to only play with Mr then you should be searching for gay men. When we play with other Bi couples everyone gets a play with everyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Much harder finding a normal, respectful bi guy that matches what are looking for, than we imagined to be honest.
Thought it would be easier!
This is what me n the Mrs are finding. One that won’t touch the Mrs! She’s got me for that.
To be fair, being Bi means they want to play with both of you, if you want them to only play with Mr then you should be searching for gay men. When we play with other Bi couples everyone gets a play with everyone else."
Not really. Gay men might not want to be having sex with a woman around.
Bi men who understand the situation would be fine. |
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"Much harder finding a normal, respectful bi guy that matches what are looking for, than we imagined to be honest.
Thought it would be easier!
This is what me n the Mrs are finding. One that won’t touch the Mrs! She’s got me for that.
To be fair, being Bi means they want to play with both of you, if you want them to only play with Mr then you should be searching for gay men. When we play with other Bi couples everyone gets a play with everyone else.
Not really. Gay men might not want to be having sex with a woman around.
Bi men who understand the situation would be fine. "
Tried a few gay men. They just don’t like a woman being around. Bi men are ok and find it a kick having a woman there watching and occasionally directing. |
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"Much harder finding a normal, respectful bi guy that matches what are looking for, than we imagined to be honest.
Thought it would be easier!
This is what me n the Mrs are finding. One that won’t touch the Mrs! She’s got me for that.
To be fair, being Bi means they want to play with both of you, if you want them to only play with Mr then you should be searching for gay men. When we play with other Bi couples everyone gets a play with everyone else.
Not really. Gay men might not want to be having sex with a woman around.
Bi men who understand the situation would be fine. "
I suppose it depends if it was communicated in advance, if it was explicitly stated that only Mr would be playing and Miss would only be watching, it could cause fake Bi people shy away. Without specifying, it is reasonable to infer a meeting with a Bi couple could include both.
Ultimately the decision on what happens lies with the couple but should be communicated in advance if there are any special conditions. |
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"Much harder finding a normal, respectful bi guy that matches what are looking for, than we imagined to be honest.
Thought it would be easier!
This is what me n the Mrs are finding. One that won’t touch the Mrs! She’s got me for that. "
Our is slightly different, as we'd be looking for someone to play with both of us.
But the combo of mutual attraction, location/logistics, having matching desires/interests, and the amount of timewasters and drop puts have meant its been quite frustrating |
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"Much harder finding a normal, respectful bi guy that matches what are looking for, than we imagined to be honest.
Thought it would be easier!
This is what me n the Mrs are finding. One that won’t touch the Mrs! She’s got me for that.
Our is slightly different, as we'd be looking for someone to play with both of us.
But the combo of mutual attraction, location/logistics, having matching desires/interests, and the amount of timewasters and drop puts have meant its been quite frustrating "
May be worth going to bi events at clubs, chatting face to face can sometimes bring out an attraction that pictures alone can't |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"To be fair, being Bi means they want to play with both of you, if you want them to only play with Mr then you should be searching for gay men. When we play with other Bi couples everyone gets a play with everyone else."
Disagree - I'm Bi & completely happy to just play with the male whilst the female watches. Yes I like playing with both but only where that is what's wanted. |
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When we’re looking for a guy for a meet, our preference is always a bi guy.
Challenge is that we both have to like him as well both be playing with him.
That’s the benefit of a bi meet, everyone can play with everyone and either of us are happy to sit back and watch for a while.
We’ve had a few meets where the guy has turned out to be conveniently bi for the planning but surprisingly straight when the clothes come off. 
Be honest with yourselves guys. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"When we’re looking for a guy for a meet, our preference is always a bi guy.
Challenge is that we both have to like him as well both be playing with him.
That’s the benefit of a bi meet, everyone can play with everyone and either of us are happy to sit back and watch for a while.
We’ve had a few meets where the guy has turned out to be conveniently bi for the planning but surprisingly straight when the clothes come off.
Be honest with yourselves guys. "
Kick them out.
Before the meet tell them the men will suck and fuck first. Puts the proper straight ones off.  |
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"When we’re looking for a guy for a meet, our preference is always a bi guy.
Challenge is that we both have to like him as well both be playing with him.
That’s the benefit of a bi meet, everyone can play with everyone and either of us are happy to sit back and watch for a while.
We’ve had a few meets where the guy has turned out to be conveniently bi for the planning but surprisingly straight when the clothes come off.
Be honest with yourselves guys. "
We have had this. Told the guy that you play with the male part of the couple. And they say they want to play with female first. Sorry, on ya bike!! |
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"When we’re looking for a guy for a meet, our preference is always a bi guy.
Challenge is that we both have to like him as well both be playing with him.
That’s the benefit of a bi meet, everyone can play with everyone and either of us are happy to sit back and watch for a while.
We’ve had a few meets where the guy has turned out to be conveniently bi for the planning but surprisingly straight when the clothes come off.
Be honest with yourselves guys.
Kick them out.
Before the meet tell them the men will suck and fuck first. Puts the proper straight ones off. "
This, don’t need to tell me twice I’ll be keen to enjoy the cock availabale |
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By *oobaaMan 52 weeks ago
South Shields |
"When we’re looking for a guy for a meet, our preference is always a bi guy.
Challenge is that we both have to like him as well both be playing with him.
That’s the benefit of a bi meet, everyone can play with everyone and either of us are happy to sit back and watch for a while.
We’ve had a few meets where the guy has turned out to be conveniently bi for the planning but surprisingly straight when the clothes come off.
Be honest with yourselves guys. "
Had this a couple of times with a regular couple I see. They advertise for 2 other Bi males to join husband with wife watching. once the spunk starts flying she will join in. One guy just went straight for the wife but was told he either played with husband first or he should leave. He left...Husband rode my cock for a while before she joined in |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I’ve met twice in recent months, the male half with a view to then being introduced to the the female for bi mmf
Both meets with the male went really well (unless they were both lying and thought I was rubbish really), but so far neither has offered the bi mmf opportunity. I guess like any arrangement on fab things can change or just don’t work out as hoped. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"I’ve met twice in recent months, the male half with a view to then being introduced to the the female for bi mmf
Both meets with the male went really well (unless they were both lying and thought I was rubbish really), but so far neither has offered the bi mmf opportunity. I guess like any arrangement on fab things can change or just don’t work out as hoped. "
Oh come on!! Were you born yesterday?
'Introduce you to the female later'.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"When we’re looking for a guy for a meet, our preference is always a bi guy.
Challenge is that we both have to like him as well both be playing with him.
That’s the benefit of a bi meet, everyone can play with everyone and either of us are happy to sit back and watch for a while.
We’ve had a few meets where the guy has turned out to be conveniently bi for the planning but surprisingly straight when the clothes come off.
Be honest with yourselves guys.
We have had this. Told the guy that you play with the male part of the couple. And they say they want to play with female first. Sorry, on ya bike!! "
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"I’ve met twice in recent months, the male half with a view to then being introduced to the the female for bi mmf
Both meets with the male went really well (unless they were both lying and thought I was rubbish really), but so far neither has offered the bi mmf opportunity. I guess like any arrangement on fab things can change or just don’t work out as hoped.
Oh come on!! Were you born yesterday?
'Introduce you to the female later'. "
I’m open to that criticism of course - I’m a trusting soul who lives in hope that people aren’t naturally out to deceive - that said these were verified couples profiles with bi mmf meets reported … so whilst my youthful good looks may suggest it, was born a little earlier than yesterday |
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When we look for meets with guys Bi is always our preference. As a lot have said though so many are just conveniently Bi for the chance to play with the wife. Even Bi nights at clubs we've found the guys are rarely actually into guys |
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"I’ve no desire to play with a guy alone. But get me in a threesome with a couple and I’ll happily suck his cock until it dissolves in my mouth.
Does that make me less bi? "
And I tend to look for bi couples rather than straight |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"I’ve met twice in recent months, the male half with a view to then being introduced to the the female for bi mmf
Both meets with the male went really well (unless they were both lying and thought I was rubbish really), but so far neither has offered the bi mmf opportunity. I guess like any arrangement on fab things can change or just don’t work out as hoped.
Oh come on!! Were you born yesterday?
'Introduce you to the female later'.
I’m open to that criticism of course - I’m a trusting soul who lives in hope that people aren’t naturally out to deceive - that said these were verified couples profiles with bi mmf meets reported … so whilst my youthful good looks may suggest it, was born a little earlier than yesterday "
Hopefully the females will meet you in the new year. |
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