We'd actually like to have time to waste occasionally, but as we both work full time and have 5 hobbies, we very rarely get the chance.
We do hate having our time wasted though, it's one reason we've given up trying to accommodate single guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's your thoughts on timewaisters there so many it spoils the site"
That would depend on your definition of a time waster.
Yours and Ours may differ massively. |
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Exactly as others above have said, people change their minds and people get busy with life so I don’t know if there’s as many “genuine time wasters” as people make out.
We’ve made great connections with people and it’s kind of just fizzled out a bit when we couldn’t find time to meet immediately and I wouldn’t call that time wasting but I bet to some people that would make us time wasters |
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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago
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Waste minimal time yourself on people. Exchange a few messages, arrange a social for an hour when you are going out for a drink anyway and meet the real person. Once you meet real people you can assess much better if they are real and serious.
Timewasters for us are people who get you spending weeks messaging then don’t turn up for a meet. Cutting down the chat s out those who just get a kick messaging endlessly with no intention of meeting. |
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Sometimes the worst timewasters are the ones who *do* turn up.
The ones who are not who they claim to be, and aren’t actually interested in the things they said they liked.
You can screen out most of them with enough communication, but every now and then one slips through the net and wastes a perfectly good Saturday night.  |
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The only timewasters we encounter are the ones that don't read our profile before messaging and there's absolutely no match whatsoever. Not a massive amount of time taken to check their profile and delete though. |
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By *orl1971Couple
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"Sometimes the worst timewasters are the ones who *do* turn up.
The ones who are not who they claim to be, and aren’t actually interested in the things they said they liked.
You can screen out most of them with enough communication, but every now and then one slips through the net and wastes a perfectly good Saturday night. "
Unfortunately all part of the process but don’t waste a Saturday night. Meet for an hour social at another time before arranging a longer play meet. |
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