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Experience of first MFM threesome
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By *NV14INV OP Couple
over a year ago
Inverness |
Hi, we are looking and hoping to introduce a male into a NSA threesome but would like to hear other couples experience of their 1st time involving a male.
We are currently finding it difficult to get the ball rolling with someone we both agree would suit us and like to know how other couples went through the process and how long you took to take the plunge on your 1st time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best thing to do is not over think it, just go for it.
The first time is not going to go as planned, but it does mean you will have a better idea of what you really looking for the second and third time.
Enjoy what is a fun experience and go with the flow. Xx |
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Had two meets so far. Both have involved a fair bit of flirty chat on here first, discussing boundaries etc. The first guy we met at a pub for a drink, the second came round to ours for a coffee. Both times allowed us to have a chat first to see if we all wanted to take things further or not. |
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"Had two meets so far. Both have involved a fair bit of flirty chat on here first, discussing boundaries etc. The first guy we met at a pub for a drink, the second came round to ours for a coffee. Both times allowed us to have a chat first to see if we all wanted to take things further or not. "
That’s exactly how I enjoyed my first two MFMs. A chat and a drink before that glorious question was asked ‘shall we take these upstairs’ |
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By *ob357Man
over a year ago
Oswestry |
Just for the couples. It is equally as daunting for the singles. Possibly worse. We worry about letting you both down plus panic that as you are a couple you will know each other but we as an outsider know nothing. Relax chill we are all nervous  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Flirty messages to start but don’t leave it go too long before arranging a social meet for a coffee or a drink and then take it from there. Don’t expect fireworks from the get go but if the vibe is good then go for it and from there just do what makes everyone comfortable and less inhibitions the better. Also communication is the ultimate key to a good mfm, once each person is comfortable to be open and say if they don’t want x or do want y etc. If there is boundaries to be set then make them clear from the get go so there can be no confusion and most of all enjoy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are currently finding it difficult to get the ball rolling with someone we both agree would suit us and like to know how other couples went through the process and how long you took to take the plunge on your 1st time. "
Don't overthink and definitely don't over-plan. Meet lots of people in a public social settings without any expectation of it being more. If the social vibe for some is good, take it to a more private social setting at a subsequent meet. Don't pick a specific person and knock the others out of play. Let it happen as you both feel it natural. Remember you do not "owe" the guy anything and you'll probably surprise yourself how far things progress with each different meet. |
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We found going to a club was the easiest for us. Just relax, chat and see what happens. Had some amazing times.
Have had some private meets and are hit and miss. Read verifications on here.
Above all just enjoy. |
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We've tried to arrange this but so far haven't managed due to us being picky and also being let down. We are both looking forward to it & have role played it many times. We are just going to go for it, full mfm session with me watching at times and then chat about it after. If we don't like it, then we won't do it again. So advice would be to just go for it and see what happens! Enjoy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first time I just met them at night and we kind of got right to it and fucked in the woods.
Second time we met in a club and got talking in a hot tub. Then took it to a private room. |
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