So a rather contentious issue I feel.
What are peoples thoughts on engaging in sexual activity with someone who has a partner that doesn't know? I've always classed it as cheating and as such told myself it was bad and shouldn't happen. But, sometimes there's a reason or multiple reasons beyond wanting their cake and eating it, could be partner has a medical condition the prevents sexual relations, partner isn't interested in sex anymore but they love them still...there's a plethora of reasons I imagine.
Am I and I assume quite a few others being wrongly judgmental or are we sticking to traditional moral values?
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
It's not for me op ,
I'm half a couple and I'd hate it done to me.
Yes people may have their reasons to be looking for sex behind a partners back,but we only hear one side of any story on here
Many people cheating do throw out the don't judge line,but we all have our own codes that we live by & others may be different to mine. |
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Similar to MissMorgan we too won't meet those with partners.
Whatever is going on in their life, is their business, they can deal with it as they see fit. However, we would feel guilty if we were part of it. This lifestyle is just a bit of escapism for us. We remove ourselves from our day to day lives and forget the stresses. We don't want to create different stresses by thinking we might be harming another party. |
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