"Each to thier own. Go your own way. If that's comfortable for you guys, that's it.  "
Things can always build b change over time ...
But boundaries are good then everyone knows where they are
Plus no expectations and no disappointments ...
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"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?"
Get to a club and hit the couples only room, it's pretty much soft swap if there is couples cross play and fuck your own partner. Nobody will try to full swap without full permission asked. |
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"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?
Get to a club and hit the couples only room, it's pretty much soft swap if there is couples cross play and fuck your own partner. Nobody will try to full swap without full permission asked."
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"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?
Get to a club and hit the couples only room, it's pretty much soft swap if there is couples cross play and fuck your own partner. Nobody will try to full swap without full permission asked."
Oh and this. You'd be surprised how soon soft swap can change |
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So long as your comfortable with soft swap then it can't be wrng.
We only do soft swop and it suits us. It doesn't always suit everyone however so long as there is mutual respect with prospective swappers then it can never be wrong
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"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?"
Not at all! Any sign of disrespect of your wish to stick at soft swap from another couple would be a red flag for us xx |
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I only do sensual massage and soft swing and I have not yet had any o e complain its not sensual and satisfying, providing you have accepted the boundaries before hand but I always allow the couple to finish off in the way they want with each other and it works well for couples who want to spice up there sex life and not just replace their partners for someone else. |
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"We're soft swap only and really enjoy this dynamic, so no we wouldn't be put off at all with soft only meets x"
Sweet spice I find it vrings a completely different dynamic to the meet and takes any pressure away so you can all be relaxed ?? |
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Not in the slightest. We are generally soft swap (bar a couple of occasions when things have naturally progressed futher). We have had plenty of amazing times with people soft swap. For us the fun and excitement comes purly from sharing a hot experience with the people we vibe with and isn't dictated by a particular check list of acts. And from experience not doing full swap has never seemed to be a barrier us or others. You'll be fine  |
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wouldn't put us off, nope.
If it's your preference we would totally respect that if we were going to meet.
Pushing people passed their comfort zones isn't cool unless they ask for that specifically. |
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"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?"
No, I meet couples who do this. We have great fun as the focus is on really sensuous foreplay rather than fucking. You can take the time to enjoy each others bodies.
Do what makes you comfortable and happy. |
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"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?"
Some will be but that’s their preference. Others won’t mind and will play to the ‘minimum limit’ for want if a better phrase! |
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"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?"
Certainly not put off by this... Some of our most fun meets have been soft swap. |
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were looking for soft swap too to start us on our swapping adventure before deciding if we want to proceed to full swaps etc.
while there are other couples looking for soft swap too it does reduce your options as a lot do want full swap. then theres other factors to consider. taking myself and my lady for example the things that reduce the pool for us are:
soft swap
no ff play
we both smoke
when you factor in just those 3 things before you try finding a 4 way attraction with meeting another couple then it all adds to reducing the pool for prospective soft swapping fun.
weve been on here over 3 months and still looking for our first soft swap!! |
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"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?"
When it comes to couple meets were soft swap with guy on girl and no boundaries with girl on girl.. we have had some incredibly hot and sexually charged soft swap sessions, i think people can be quick to judge it but it can be extremely sexy. We havent ruled out full swap with a couple but we just havent found the couple we're both completely comfortable with... yet.
Always looking for great couples to connect with though xx just keep looking there are some great couples out there who love exactly this and who knows what it might lead to!! |
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"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?"
We too only do soft. Plenty of offers from single guys, not many from couples |
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"Being fairly new to this, husband chops and I are really only looking for soft swap meets. Would you be put off by this?"
It's your preference so nothing to do with anyone else. We don't do soft swap ourselves but again that is our preference. There is no right or wrong answer here as it's what you chose as part of your boundries. Enjoy fab both. Joanne x |
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"were looking for soft swap too to start us on our swapping adventure before deciding if we want to proceed to full swaps etc.
while there are other couples looking for soft swap too it does reduce your options as a lot do want full swap. then theres other factors to consider. taking myself and my lady for example the things that reduce the pool for us are:
soft swap
no ff play
we both smoke
when you factor in just those 3 things before you try finding a 4 way attraction with meeting another couple then it all adds to reducing the pool for prospective soft swapping fun.
weve been on here over 3 months and still looking for our first soft swap!!"
If you're a fully bisexual cpl believe me that reduces it even more. But we have had some outstanding meets so far to be fair. Peeps are put off due to john being bi but me being bi does not put them off. You will find loads of double standards in this lifestyle so just take what you can and hopefully make some increadable friend off here like we have up to now. Good luck on your adventure on fab both. Xx joanne. |
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