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Have you become desensitised to fab content?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ll admit, before fab I was vanilla city. Came to fab and was constantly blushing at photos, statues and update feeds.
Now I’m like “oh, fisting, dvp, anal, dogging” meh part and parcel of daily viewing.
This becomes apparent when chatting to friends. I casually talk about sex in my new eyes and they tell me I’m too much.
So, being in here, have we become blind to what is normal? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah for sure this has happened to me. I open my phone (this site and others) and it's just all sex, pussy, dick and all the full on stuff and I don't bat an eye anymore.
Makes it hard if I ever want to watch some porn, because the "normal" stuff is just part of my daily scrolling these days  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was at a party playing a silly card game and sexual kinks topics came up .... at the point I was examining golden shower and bukkake to a very innocent friend I realised perhaps I am on a different level to some. Definitely not easily shocked. |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
i take breaks.
i now limit my posting on the forum as i felt i was wasting to much time.
started spending time doing simple things like gardening and helping elderly with stuff they find hard to do.
sort of redemption for my past sins. |
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For me, I find it pretty much a turn off with outright chat about sex to strangers and display of too many dick pics. I prefer sophisticated distreet approach to sex. Lure me in with normal chat with abit of flirtation.i get one end of the spectrum where all they want to talk about non sex stuff or full blown explicit chat right from the beginning |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
"For me, I find it pretty much a turn off with outright chat about sex to strangers and display of too many dick pics. I prefer sophisticated distreet approach to sex. Lure me in with normal chat with abit of flirtation.i get one end of the spectrum where all they want to talk about non sex stuff or full blown explicit chat right from the beginning "
you have a point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In short yes. I remember a few years ago saying to a good friend of mine, (who was living the swinging life through me and the medium of my tales of debauchery and filth) "Can you imagine getting to a point where group sex doesn't excite you anymore? Well that's where I am"
He couldn't believe what I'd just said. |
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I was definitely naive before I started this adventure. Went to a club on my own, having been monogamous all my life. My eyes were opened to just how vanilla I was.
Now, I have to watch what I say in day to day life. Some friends want stories. Others are shocked and disgusted at things I consider de rigeur |
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The photo’s and videos on Fab are posted by people who to me look ‘normal’ (like people we would or could meet and get on with).
Since joining Fab I (Austin) have noticed is my body confidence has improved. I have always worked out and tried to stay fit but… we all have doubts. I am a little bit careful as to what I say
Cammy now works out daily. She enjoys it and her body confidence has also grown.
Cammy’s family all know we are into swinging and she has a few long term female work friends who are intrigued and ask lots of questions.
I would say for us it still depends on who we are with and what the comfort level is |
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