Met a single female this afternoon for a social but felt there was no connection, she was meeting without her husbands knowledge and she informed me they hadn’t had sex in 6 years but didn’t judge her. so I wished her all the best and away we went.
Fast forward 3 hours and logged back in to receive an abusive message and then she blocked me
The mind boggles to what goes through people’s minds, on a positive she had some great videos of her sucking cock but not even that could sway me.
Any others been abused after a social but decided that no further meets happening ? |
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No. I met someone who clearly catfished me and was at leastv15 years older than he claimed etc etc
I just sent a polite no thanks and blocked. If someone is not for you then no need to be nasty.
Sounds like you dodged a bullet |
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"Met a single female this afternoon for a social but felt there was no connection, she was meeting without her husbands knowledge and she informed me they hadn’t had sex in 6 years but didn’t judge her. so I wished her all the best and away we went.
Fast forward 3 hours and logged back in to receive an abusive message and then she blocked me
The mind boggles to what goes through people’s minds, on a positive she had some great videos of her sucking cock but not even that could sway me.
Any others been abused after a social but decided that no further meets happening ? "
Sorry that happened to you.
Not sure if class mine experience as abuse but it was unpleasant. Met as friends as I was honest and said I didn't have sexual attraction to themes convinced I would change my mind in person.
I didnt and communicated that- however we were getting on lovely and friendly. The grief I got afterwards because I didn't fancy him and the messages heavily suggesting sex with him would be better than anyone else I liked. All got too much and I lost my temper with him.
You should be able to say with ease this won't go any further without abuse back. |
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"There are some people who don’t take rejection well. A bullet well dodged. Make sure you block her to prevent her un blocking you, sending more shitty messages then re blocking.  "
Didn’t realise that could happen, appreciate the advise. |
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"No. I met someone who clearly catfished me and was at leastv15 years older than he claimed etc etc
I just sent a polite no thanks and blocked. If someone is not for you then no need to be nasty.
Sounds like you dodged a bullet"
I definitely did |
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"No. I met someone who clearly catfished me and was at leastv15 years older than he claimed etc etc
I just sent a polite no thanks and blocked. If someone is not for you then no need to be nasty.
Sounds like you dodged a bullet
I definitely did "
Says way more about them than you. No doubt projecting alot of anger and frustration from other issues on to you. |
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I'll try and lighten the mood a little with a disaster meet.
I met a lovely women a few years back for coffee near the merchant city. I was working round the corner at the time. Seeing as it was cold, winter, and I'd been drinking tea all day I plumped for a hot chocolate.
Well I took my seat with her as she'd arrived earlier than me. We chatted, got on well, but there was at best only a little attraction either way. That's fine, enjoy the chat and go your separate ways.
Well out comes my hot chocolate, in a long tall glass cup, marshmallows, cream, flakes, hundreds and thousands, a sparkler and a little umbrella - the last two are a lie but it might as well have had them.
The conversation dried up as she stared awkwardly at my choice of drink. I drank said drink awkwardly while said conversation dried up and left like that Homer Simpson retreating into the hedge meme.
Turns out we're only ever one bad drink choice away from being that dickhead at a meet. Anyway chin up lad. You've dodged a bullet and given she's married she's someone else's probably think what that poor bastard has to suffer.  |
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I had a recentish social, it was fine but the attraction and spark wasn't there. Admittedly I did sort of slowly try to fade away afterwards, kind of hoping they would get the hint.
When they outright asked me I was polite but informed them it wasn't a good fit for me. I didn't get abuse as such but I got a few messages telling me they would change my mind, that they needed another chance, that I couldn't know in just 1 social, that they felt it was going a different way etc etc. I ended up having to block them. |
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"I had a recentish social, it was fine but the attraction and spark wasn't there. Admittedly I did sort of slowly try to fade away afterwards, kind of hoping they would get the hint.
When they outright asked me I was polite but informed them it wasn't a good fit for me. I didn't get abuse as such but I got a few messages telling me they would change my mind, that they needed another chance, that I couldn't know in just 1 social, that they felt it was going a different way etc etc. I ended up having to block them. "
That’s just desperation on their part, they should have bowed out gracefully. |
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"Fast forward 3 hours and logged back in to receive an abusive message and then she blocked me
Any others been abused after a social but decided that no further meets happening ? "
Yes we've get from singles and couples both male and female. If they send an abusive message to us it means they have sent to others before and will send to more so always report the actual message. |
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"No. I met someone who clearly catfished me and was at leastv15 years older than he claimed etc etc
I just sent a polite no thanks and blocked. If someone is not for you then no need to be nasty.
Sounds like you dodged a bullet"
This |
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"Met a single female this afternoon for a social but felt there was no connection.
Fast forward 3 hours and logged back in to receive an abusive message and then she blocked me. "
Report and block is my opinion
The same thing thats said for the males doing the abusiveness is the same as the females doing the same. |
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