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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
Husband's (or male partners), do you prefer to be in the room or is it hornier for you to NOT be present when your lady half is playing with someone else?
I've been in both situations but it seemed to be a much hotter experience for all concerned with the male partner being elsewhere completely. (Though we all did chat over the phone just before she got down to business with me) |
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For me, was always much better with the husband/partner in the room. Be it stag or cuck meets. You always had the extra cock to make sure she was fully satisfied and had the time of her life with a man who knew her inside and out, or to be able to humiliate him if they wished. |
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We can go to clubs alone. But 95% we go to clubs together because things are best when we are together. Neither of us are particularly turned on about not seeing what each other is doing. Although it is hot hear what each others been upto if its something we both couldn't be there for. It's also hot sometimes to watch each other with someone else. But most of the time neither of us are the sort who want to not be actively involved. If somethings going down we both want to be actively participating and sharing it together. That's the hottest thing for us. |
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Got a fair bit of experience with Couples  and I will only meet the lady 1:1 these days. Partner can FaceTime have as much video as he wants, but the only way the lady can fully relax and be herself is if she is solo . In my opinion of course. Many will differ |
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By *eastZMan
over a year ago
London |
It depends on the couple's relationship and dynamic. There is no one size fits all.
Meeting the lady solo has its pros and cons and same things for meeting the couple together.
I would assess every engagement on case-by-case basis, and make an informed decision  |
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By *onicZMan
over a year ago
Nottinghamshire |
I don't personally mind.
It's great to be invited along to get involved or even just to watch but I'm happy to hear about how good it was later on.
Something naughty about solo play. |
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I would definitely prefer to be there for at least some of the fun. Walking in to see my wife thoroughly enjoying herself is a massive turn on, and it’s lovely to join in after watching for a bit…. |
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My wife enjoyed the security of knowing I was in the house.
For example, welcoming her Man Friend with Benefits, into our home and being the host to our guest.
However once he informed me he was taking my wife to bed. She preferred me to stay out of the bedroom. She felt less inhibited that way.
He would text me when they had finished so I could bring them refreshments into the bedroom, as they relaxed in the afterglow.
Everyone will have their own preferences. |
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"It depends on the couple's relationship and dynamic. There is no one size fits all.
Meeting the lady solo has its pros and cons and same things for meeting the couple together.
I would assess every engagement on case-by-case basis, and make an informed decision "
This is pretty much how we approach it, either way works for us so we just judge each situation as we go |
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