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"where are the genuine men"
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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago
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Guy who aren’t lying, aren’t catfishing, have the time and resources to meet when/how they say they will, and don’t pester with messages. Also guys who read a profile and steer clear if they don’t fit the preferences of the people they’re messaging. |
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"Guy who aren’t lying, aren’t catfishing, have the time and resources to meet when/how they say they will, and don’t pester with messages. Also guys who read a profile and steer clear if they don’t fit the preferences of the people they’re messaging. "
I'd agree with all the above points.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"as seen on a status update this morning. Ladies and Gents please explain your interpretation of this comment?"
You might want to ask the one posting the status.
They speak for themselves, from their experience and perspective.
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"Guy who aren’t lying, aren’t catfishing, have the time and resources to meet when/how they say they will, and don’t pester with messages. Also guys who read a profile and steer clear if they don’t fit the preferences of the people they’re messaging. "
Perfect ?? |
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Theres tons if us on here but we are waaaay outnumbered by the knobhead gobshitey timewasting bell end thick fuckers who just say fancy a fuck heres a pic if my knob… what do you mean no? Followed by a tirade of abuse types. And so we often get overlooked because by the time a woman on here has had 20 of those exchanges in a night shes’s not really arsed looking any further… but then they post on here like there arent any - at which point the types above flood her mailbox again… good here innit!!?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"as seen on a status update this morning. Ladies and Gents please explain your interpretation of this comment?
You might want to ask the one posting the status.
They speak for themselves, from their experience and perspective.
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whilst in my age range, the lady in question was looking to meet black guys only so I didn't message her. (I do take the time to read profiles  ) |
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Genuine must be one of the most meaningless overused words on Fab. Means so many different things to different people. Once saw a status that said "Genuine couple looking for genuine people for genuine meets". Genuinely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"as seen on a status update this morning. Ladies and Gents please explain your interpretation of this comment?
You might want to ask the one posting the status.
They speak for themselves, from their experience and perspective.
whilst in my age range, the lady in question was looking to meet black guys only so I didn't message her. (I do take the time to read profiles )"
Well, that's one element of genuity you do meet. |
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Men who don't think a pulse is optional ?? maybe ?? or even afew brain cells as a optional extra ?? maybe ?? or even a sense of humour ? maybe ? or actually single ?? maybe ?? or men who aren't proud paid up members of the Ferry sex and Panda club on here ?? maybe ?? the possibility's are endless really ??  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Theres tons if us on here but we are waaaay outnumbered by the knobhead gobshitey timewasting bell end thick fuckers who just say fancy a fuck heres a pic if my knob… what do you mean no? Followed by a tirade of abuse types. And so we often get overlooked because by the time a woman on here has had 20 of those exchanges in a night shes’s not really arsed looking any further… but then they post on here like there arent any - at which point the types above flood her mailbox again… good here innit!!? "
100% 
The good guys are actually easier to spot because of the muppets though so every cloud.......
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By *eediousMan
over a year ago
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"Men who actually read the profile and don't open with "nice tits""
Says the couple with the lady with huge tits which is like on the first 3 photos of her profile.
no one is gonna bother reading your profile with huge bazonkas like that. Welcome to human nature.
You lead with the obvious and then get surprised when people comment on the obvious.
Just like someone wearing a police outfit and then telling the public, they aren’t a policeman when a member of the public asking for help, |
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By *eediousMan
over a year ago
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"Genuine must be one of the most meaningless overused words on Fab. Means so many different things to different people. Once saw a status that said "Genuine couple looking for genuine people for genuine meets". Genuinely "
Hahaha !!
Now that was genuinely funny, genuinely! |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"Guy who aren’t lying, aren’t catfishing, have the time and resources to meet when/how they say they will, and don’t pester with messages. Also guys who read a profile and steer clear if they don’t fit the preferences of the people they’re messaging. "
Yep this is pretty much it . |
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"Theres tons if us on here but we are waaaay outnumbered by the knobhead gobshitey timewasting bell end thick fuckers who just say fancy a fuck heres a pic if my knob… what do you mean no? Followed by a tirade of abuse types. And so we often get overlooked because by the time a woman on here has had 20 of those exchanges in a night shes’s not really arsed looking any further… but then they post on here like there arent any - at which point the types above flood her mailbox again… good here innit!!?
100%
The good guys are actually easier to spot because of the muppets though so every cloud.......
A"
Definitely some truth in that…if the woman has the stomach to suffer the crap she has to get through to find one of us …  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men who actually read the profile and don't open with "nice tits""
though I wouldn't open a private message saying with Nice tits I've gotta say they are very nice |
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"Genuine must be one of the most meaningless overused words on Fab. Means so many different things to different people. Once saw a status that said "Genuine couple looking for genuine people for genuine meets". Genuinely "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men who actually read the profile and don't open with "nice tits"
Says the couple with the lady with huge tits which is like on the first 3 photos of her profile.
no one is gonna bother reading your profile with huge bazonkas like that. Welcome to human nature.
What a absolutely horrible and disrespectful thing to say. You really need to learn some manners and not go in on someone’s appearance like that. You sound pretty pathetic
You lead with the obvious and then get surprised when people comment on the obvious.
Just like someone wearing a police outfit and then telling the public, they aren’t a policeman when a member of the public asking for help, "
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Why do the men insist they are the good guys on here, when they very well know that women don’t even like good guys, ?
Baffling.."
It doesn't matter how 'good', 'nice' or 'genuinely guy is.
None of those things mean you're more likely to be attractive to a woman or a couple looking for extra curricular sex.
So many men forget that being those things isn't a VIP ticket to a meet. Of course all three should be as standard, but simply being nice and not a complete bellend doesn't guarantee anything at all.
So claiming the muppets ruin things for supposed 'good guys' is a tad futile.
They don't at all and nothing they do reflects on you in the slightest.
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"Theres tons if us on here but we are waaaay outnumbered by the knobhead gobshitey timewasting bell end thick fuckers who just say fancy a fuck heres a pic if my knob… what do you mean no? Followed by a tirade of abuse types. And so we often get overlooked because by the time a woman on here has had 20 of those exchanges in a night shes’s not really arsed looking any further… but then they post on here like there arent any - at which point the types above flood her mailbox again… good here innit!!?
100%
The good guys are actually easier to spot because of the muppets though so every cloud.......
A"
perfectly put rather than moan about who not genuine or good or what ever how about using that as a good thing that they stand out ... ive been saying this for years the wrong ones are so easy to spot you should be thanking them for being so open yep those messers trolls bullies dreamers wankers they all stand out they are helping you ...not all and some can lie so good or be fake so well but 99% make it so easy only a fool or fools would try and meet them ....
all you have to do is block them on your journey and slowly you turn fab into a better and easier place |
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"Men who actually read the profile and don't open with "nice tits"
Says the couple with the lady with huge tits which is like on the first 3 photos of her profile.
no one is gonna bother reading your profile with huge bazonkas like that. Welcome to human nature.
You lead with the obvious and then get surprised when people comment on the obvious.
Just like someone wearing a police outfit and then telling the public, they aren’t a policeman when a member of the public asking for help, "
It's more about how you say it then what you say |
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By *eediousMan
over a year ago
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"Men who actually read the profile and don't open with "nice tits"
Says the couple with the lady with huge tits which is like on the first 3 photos of her profile.
no one is gonna bother reading your profile with huge bazonkas like that. Welcome to human nature.
You lead with the obvious and then get surprised when people comment on the obvious.
Just like someone wearing a police outfit and then telling the public, they aren’t a policeman when a member of the public asking for help,
It's more about how you say it then what you say "
And therein lies the grey area.
It’s not what they say, but it’s how they say it and maybe what they look like.
But I agree with you. |
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By *eediousMan
over a year ago
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"Why do the men insist they are the good guys on here, when they very well know that women don’t even like good guys, ?
Baffling..
It doesn't matter how 'good', 'nice' or 'genuinely guy is.
None of those things mean you're more likely to be attractive to a woman or a couple looking for extra curricular sex.
So many men forget that being those things isn't a VIP ticket to a meet. Of course all three should be as standard, but simply being nice and not a complete bellend doesn't guarantee anything at all.
So claiming the muppets ruin things for supposed 'good guys' is a tad futile.
They don't at all and nothing they do reflects on you in the slightest.
A"
My point exactly.
No one cares if you are a good guy initially. Attraction comes first before they even find out that you are a good guy. Leading with I am a good guy can sometimes even come off as a tad bit desperate, if you ask me.
Even if women tell you they are looking for good guys, they are only ever interested in a good guy, if he is attractive first. Without being attractive, you don’t even get past first gate.
So it’s a tad futile to say the “knobheads” are ruining it for the good guys. |
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