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How to avoid awkwardness at start of experience

By *ulletproof_vows OP Couple over a year ago

Lowestoft

Hi guys we are new to this and are planning our first experience soon with a lovely couple we have been talking to. I'm just wondering how you avoid getting stuck in unsexy small talk or games before someone gets the courage to make a move when with a new couple? I think for me and my wife we would rather just get to it on the day but don't know the etiquette. Thanks for any responses we get

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By *urreypair1Couple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

May I give you a kiss is usually a nice start from either one of you.

Obviously the type of kiss will depend on the location.

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By *entlemanFoxMan over a year ago

North East / London

"May I give you a kiss is usually a nice start from either one of you.

Obviously the type of kiss will depend on the location."

My thought too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think a bit of confidence and cheekiness is key.

Example. If we were meeting a couple, I Clyde would probably, after a small amount of small talk and the obligatory offering of drinks start by making some compliment about the female... maybe how great her arse looks and how lucky the guy is, then ask her to turn round so I can get a better look, then ask if I am allowed to touch. The rest will follow.

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By *akingHayCouple over a year ago

Mayfield

We usually set up meets so that it’s straight into the ‘action’, usually stripping Hay off on arrival. When arranging meets we are very clear that it’s not a social, everyone seems happy with that and no awkward small talk.

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

"Hi guys we are new to this and are planning our first experience soon with a lovely couple we have been talking to. I'm just wondering how you avoid getting stuck in unsexy small talk or games before someone gets the courage to make a move when with a new couple? I think for me and my wife we would rather just get to it on the day but don't know the etiquette. Thanks for any responses we get

Everyone will be different but they are a lovely couple who you've been talking to so the small talk is done. We greet everyone with a hug so maybe just add a kiss and take it from there.

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By *om114Man over a year ago

Belfast

Get absolutely steaming d*unk. Like on the verge of pissing yourself. Insult them. Tell her she looks fat. Break the ice

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By *eediousMan over a year ago

Smallville

You have to be confident and know what you want and came for.

I do the small talk cos I like to get a feel for them. Then I just say to the woman, come here, and that’s it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We like to decide on a word that we'll use when we feel both sides are ready to start playing. So if someone says the word then the others will also say it back if we're ready to play,or we can continue drinking/chatting if we aren't ready yet. It takes the awkwardness out of one side being too keen x

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