![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Think it’s only fare if people are asking you for one to send one back. We do ask for a face pic see if there is a attraction but are always happy to send one back. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Perhaps because there's no point engaging if you're not attracted to the other people. Someone has to play the first card. We would prefer a picture and if we like we'll always send plenty of us both back.
There's absolutely no point in ping pong messages with people you're not going to meet when you discover, finally, that there's no attraction. That should just about cover your question from a couples perspective |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
it works both ways eh show me yours first sounds like school kids if asking for a face pic from other people you should be brave enough to put yours up to |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"it works both ways eh show me yours first sounds like school kids if asking for a face pic from other people you should be brave enough to put yours up to "
There's many reasons why people don't display on their profiles. If you need to question why then you shouldn't be on here. If they state please send a face pic when you message then you have a choice..... either send one if you want to engage with them or don't and don't message them. It's really that simple. If they are interested in you they'll reciprocate. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
If neither have face pics on public show, then someone has to go first.
It’s not a big deal unless you make it one.
I’m happy to send one if asked, and not bothered if I don’t get on in return. It’s not a swap shop.
You sent, they didn’t fancy, you got nothing back. How would receiving the face pic of someone that doesn’t fancy you, improve the experience of being told no thanks? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
when looking to meet i normally have several pics clearly showing my face in public pics.
At times when i have not i worked on if i made first contact i send pic first if requested ,if they made first move its down to them to send face pic first if none on profile.
The number of times i had messages demanding a face pic when was several in my public pics just shows most never even looked at my profile before messaging. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We asked for a facial & happy to send facial of us.
I suppose if we are messaged by single guys in the first instance we want a facial picture included.It does help us to decide.If they send a nice long message we would be more inclined to have a social drink. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic