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By *eastZ OP Man
over a year ago
London |
Good Morning..
As some of you might know, I do fuck with feminine female-identifying TSs and I enjoy their company just like any other female.
I have been reached by few people shaming and attacking me for not identifying as a bisexual.
I don't believe I am bisexual as I am not attracted to men, however I don't mind if the TS still has a cock.
I honestly don't care for the shaming and hateful messages. I actually was hesitant to post my TS clips, but now I am way more convinced I should !
Am I off base here? Do you have any thoughts about this?
P.s. I uploaded couple of clips  |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Anyone messaging to shame you can simply wind their necks in. What does that achieve for them or you? Nothing.
I have myself listed as bi-curious but in our bio I explain that I identify as gynosexual. This is because, similarly to yourself, I'm not attracted to men or masculinity but I do find trans people attractive. Fem features etc are what excites me.
At the end of the day man, you just keep doing you 
C x |
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By *eastZ OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Anyone messaging to shame you can simply wind their necks in. What does that achieve for them or you? Nothing.
I have myself listed as bi-curious but in our bio I explain that I identify as gynosexual. This is because, similarly to yourself, I'm not attracted to men or masculinity but I do find trans people attractive. Fem features etc are what excites me.
At the end of the day man, you just keep doing you
C x"
Exactly! Thank you ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Touching a cock is just a sexual act, it has no basis for emotional content. It doesn't have to be representative of an individual's orientation, just a small part of their sexuality.
Small minded bigots who lack the empathy and intelligence to understand this concept just want things to be simple and so should be treated like children, given sympathy and gently educated.
If, like me, you cannot be bothered with all of that, just do what I do and call yourself bi. It keeps them detractors at bay, and leaves one to enjoy sucking on that delicious cock. You are Hovis and getting the best of both, they are the ones who are missing out.  |
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"Touching a cock is just a sexual act, it has no basis for emotional content. It doesn't have to be representative of an individual's orientation, just a small part of their sexuality.
Small minded bigots who lack the empathy and intelligence to understand this concept just want things to be simple and so should be treated like children, given sympathy and gently educated.
If, like me, you cannot be bothered with all of that, just do what I do and call yourself bi. It keeps them detractors at bay, and leaves one to enjoy sucking on that delicious cock. You are Hovis and getting the best of both, they are the ones who are missing out. "
Before saying anything else I want to make it clear that anyone who messages a total stranger to berate them over who they want to fuck is not worth the time of day.
However, why does believing that a man who enjoys sucking another man's cock is bisexual (or at the very least curious) make someone a bigot? It's an opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"However, why does believing that a man who enjoys sucking another man's cock is bisexual (or at the very least curious) make someone a bigot? It's an opinion. "
That's a very reasonable question. It is a word thrown around like an insult, where it is simply a description.
"bigot
noun
a person who is obstinately or unreasonably attached to a belief, opinion, or faction, especially one who is prejudiced against or antagonistic towards a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group."
Ergo, to assume or assert that a man has or even can feel an emotional and/or physical attraction to another man simply because he likes to touch peepee is wrong. Peepee is not gay, that is a concept that exists in our consciousness. |
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"However, why does believing that a man who enjoys sucking another man's cock is bisexual (or at the very least curious) make someone a bigot? It's an opinion.
That's a very reasonable question. It is a word thrown around like an insult, where it is simply a description.
"bigot
noun
a person who is obstinately or unreasonably attached to a belief, opinion, or faction, especially one who is prejudiced against or antagonistic towards a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group."
Ergo, to assume or assert that a man has or even can feel an emotional and/or physical attraction to another man simply because he likes to touch peepee is wrong. Peepee is not gay, that is a concept that exists in our consciousness."
You lost me in your last few sentences.
I think any consenting adult can touch the body parts of any other consenting adult. Nothing is wrong or to be judged as bad. I'm just saying that if you enjoy it as a man then you're leaning very much towards bisexuality. And that's absolutely fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think any consenting adult can touch the body parts of any other consenting adult. Nothing is wrong or to be judged as bad. I'm just saying that if you enjoy it as a man then you're leaning very much towards bisexuality. And that's absolutely fine. "
Theres nothing wrong in what is happening for sure. To attach a label to the individuals that is wider in concept but does not apply to them in its entirety is wrong. To be bi suggests to many people that one is just as attracted to both sexes, emotionally and physically and it isn't necessarily true if one just like touching peepee.
From a purely personal perspective, calling myself bi, sometimes misrepresents me to gay and trans men. They have feelings I do not have and I cannot identify with them completely, but I can just suck their peepee and enjoy that.
It is a little more complicated than the simple label of bi, but I personally accept that label to make other people more comfortable.
I don't or even want to touch every peepee I see. I don't look at a man and wonder what his peepee is like under his suit. I don't fantasise about lifting his shirt or snogging him. I don't long for a white knight to whisk me off into the sunset. I never have, maybe I never will. I do love an appreciative peepee that wants to pop into my mouth and pump me some lovely goop.
Calling me bi is ok with me, but it is incorrect and for many has a negative connotation that is unjustified. That is why I chose the word bigot. Not to insult, but to identify, just like the term bi does to me. |
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Being heterosexual doesn't mean you want to fuck everyone of the opposite sex.
Being homosexual doesn't mean you want to fuck everyone of the same sex.
And being bi doesn't mean you want to fuck everybody. It just means sexual attraction.
Dunno where white knights enter into the equation anywhere. I doubt many women or gay men have those fantasies either.
We'll agree to disagree. Happy shagging  |
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By *elsh-guyMan
over a year ago
The land of the Dragon and loads of sheep |
Being this day and age now if they identify as a woman and that then no one can argue all I can say is ignore what other people think they send you a message block them don't need people in your life like that. |
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I think if sexuality is on a spectrum then you’d certainly be closer to straight than gay.
Gynosexuality is someone who is attracted to femininity, Androsexuality means being attracted to masculinity. As a guy Gyn closer to straight, Andro closer to being gay.
I would argue that bisexuality is knowing you could enter a romantic relationship with a member of your own sex. Someone who looks like another guy or even a more feminine acting man, but still looks and mainly acts like a guy.
I suppose if you’re interested only in Trans Women pre or post Op, your sexuality is correct as the idea of being in a sexual relationship with someone who looks like a man isn’t remotely attractive to you romantically or sexually.
Either way the hate or abuse you have received isn’t right or deserved and I’m sorry that’s happening on a site that should be open to other’s preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So what I’m hearing is that you see these people for the gender they identify as regardless of what medical interventions they may or may not have had.
As a transwoman myself, thank you, that’s all I can ever ask for
I know and understand the reason why this isn’t the case for everyone and why some may insist that you are bi, it’s not my place to try and convince anyone of anything but at the end of the day you seem comfortable in your identity so why would it be up to anyone else to tell you what they think you are.
Oh dear, I’m waffling again aren’t I lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good Morning..
As some of you might know, I do fuck with feminine female-identifying TSs and I enjoy their company just like any other female.
I have been reached by few people shaming and attacking me for not identifying as a bisexual.
I don't believe I am bisexual as I am not attracted to men, however I don't mind if the TS still has a cock.
I honestly don't care for the shaming and hateful messages. I actually was hesitant to post my TS clips, but now I am way more convinced I should !
Am I off base here? Do you have any thoughts about this?
P.s. I uploaded couple of clips "
Literally, fuck who you want if they're a consenting adult. Metaphorically, fuck other people's judgement and shaming. Identify as whatever you like. It's your right and no one else's business. Swinging is about freedom and expression and finding like- minded people to be free with and express yourself. |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
"Good Morning..
As some of you might know, I do fuck with feminine female-identifying TSs and I enjoy their company just like any other female.
I have been reached by few people shaming and attacking me for not identifying as a bisexual.
I don't believe I am bisexual as I am not attracted to men, however I don't mind if the TS still has a cock.
I honestly don't care for the shaming and hateful messages. I actually was hesitant to post my TS clips, but now I am way more convinced I should !
Am I off base here? Do you have any thoughts about this?
P.s. I uploaded couple of clips
Literally, fuck who you want if they're a consenting adult. Metaphorically, fuck other people's judgement and shaming. Identify as whatever you like. It's your right and no one else's business. Swinging is about freedom and expression and finding like- minded people to be free with and express yourself. "
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Mate, I don't agree with anybody being labelled for what they enjoy. It's not personally for me but life is far too short to worry about what those judgemental peeps have to say.
Just live how you want to live and shag anybody you want to shag lol don't worry about what others have to say, block them and move on |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"I have been reached by few people shaming and attacking me for not identifying as a bisexual."
Yeah, two groups of haters from opposite sides...
The LGBTQ+ "woke" folks would shame you for sure! But also ..
The Hetro folks who prefer you not to call yourself Straight because it is hallowed ground... And they would judge that you don't deserve to call yourself that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good Morning..
As some of you might know, I do fuck with feminine female-identifying TSs and I enjoy their company just like any other female.
I have been reached by few people shaming and attacking me for not identifying as a bisexual.
I don't believe I am bisexual as I am not attracted to men, however I don't mind if the TS still has a cock.
I honestly don't care for the shaming and hateful messages. I actually was hesitant to post my TS clips, but now I am way more convinced I should !
Am I off base here? Do you have any thoughts about this?
P.s. I uploaded couple of clips "
I’ve not looked at your page however I’d say that if your turned on by ts’s and happy to engage sexually with them but not males, then you are more than probably gynesexual and not bisexual.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who cares about labels! Have fun with whoever you like mate as I can see you do, anyone that passes comment, forget them, let them live their bland opinionated life. Us who play freely have the most fun |
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