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By *rb1 OP Man
over a year ago
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If someone else asked me this question I’d say go for it and you may get lucky.. but do I want to take the chance!!!
I have a new client and I’ll be working on her home on and off for the next few weeks, she’s around 35-40 very attractive with what looks like a great body, single I think with two children. Chatted nicely when I first went to the house and had a little laugh at a cheeky little innuendo I made which I clearly meant but said I didn’t mean it to come out that way.
Question is when I go back do I straight up make it obvious my interested in her or say nothing incase it's awkward as she’s not interested? I don’t want a relationship I just want to have a little fun.
Plus I’ll have to be in contact with her for the coming weeks with her knowing I’m a pervert that tried it on with her and she knocked back.
What do you think??
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Just don't.
This woman is in her home, her safe space. The odds are she doesn't want to share it with a man who's made it clear he fancies a 'bit of fun ' with her.
Also if any of your friends ask you the same question tell them not to do it.
When you've finished the job and she's paid maybe call her and ask if she'd like a drink. |
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By *rb1 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Just don't.
This woman is in her home, her safe space. The odds are she doesn't want to share it with a man who's made it clear he fancies a 'bit of fun ' with her.
Also if any of your friends ask you the same question tell them not to do it.
When you've finished the job and she's paid maybe call her and ask if she'd like a drink."
This is a great answer and the exactly the way I know I should deal with this. Keep everything professional, do the work then walk away from it.
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I understand all opinions above, but I’m an old bloke who’s missed out on several opportunities in my life… which I’ve regretted.
There’s work, there’s sex, and there’s the grey area in between. Don’t miss out like I did.
If you make the wrong decision and lose an order, just learn from it and move on.
In my experience, nice women appreciate being fancied. Whether they react to it is their choice, but they won’t ruin your business over it. |
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"I understand all opinions above, but I’m an old bloke who’s missed out on several opportunities in my life… which I’ve regretted.
There’s work, there’s sex, and there’s the grey area in between. Don’t miss out like I did.
If you make the wrong decision and lose an order, just learn from it and move on.
In my experience, nice women appreciate being fancied. Whether they react to it is their choice, but they won’t ruin your business over it. "
Have you any idea how vulnerable women feel in a house with a man who's made it clear he'd like more? |
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over a year ago
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If you make the wrong decision and lose an order, just learn from it and move on.
In my experience, nice women appreciate being fancied. Whether they react to it is their choice, but they won’t ruin your business over it. "
And what happens if he keeps making ‘wrong decisions’?
He loses more orders?
Word of mouth is a powerful thing.
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over a year ago
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If you really like her in that in a different setting you would ask her out on a date, then wait until the work is complete, and upon leaving, once you're outside, say something like "if you want to go for a coffee one day, you've got my number."
Otherwise, leave her be, don't shit where you eat etc.
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