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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go into it knowing at any point you can back out.
Hopefully this will help settle your minds a little, knowing there's no pressure.
Discuss boundaries beforehand, be sure the other/others know of them and you of theirs, don't break them, and enjoy yourselves.
I'm thinking it's likely you've already discussed boundaries, but there's no harm in reminding one another. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"We will be sure to"
I was joking, nobody expects anal on a first meet. Excited, anticipatory nerves are one of the best parts. As other have said have a chat first and lay a few ground rules about what you like and don't, whether you like hard, slow build, anal or whatever. Things usually flow naturally anyway as both of you want the same but talking, saying what you like and don't, simple direction and moving position help break things up or keep things moving. |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
"Having our first meet tonight, nervous as hell, any advice for us"
Try and relax and just go with the flow 
Don’t put to many expectations on yourselves, maybe have some drinks to break the ice & hopefully you’ve discussed your do’s & don’ts if you have any before hand 
Good luck |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Having our first meet tonight, nervous as hell, any advice for us"
You have verifications from past meets on your profile though…so either this post is a lie or the verifications are lies.
Mods….are you going to investigate this?!?!? |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Having our first meet tonight, nervous as hell, any advice for us
You have verifications from past meets on your profile though…so either this post is a lie or the verifications are lies.
Mods….are you going to investigate this?!?!?"
Why - people can have plenty of veris and all be social, no play |
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Very true indeed!
This couple have in my opinion said nothing untrue!
If you read the veris of veris one man has watched and been respectful and they visited a club!
They have been on cam so are obviously genuine and today is there first proper meet |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Very true indeed!
This couple have in my opinion said nothing untrue!
If you read the veris of veris one man has watched and been respectful and they visited a club!
They have been on cam so are obviously genuine and today is there first proper meet "
One of the meets was late night in a quiet car park…doesn’t say anything about just watching and unless ‘A Quiet Car park’ is the name of a club it wasn’t a club either…. |
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