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Why is it so hard to find a third?
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By *ayco04 OP Man
over a year ago
Stirling |
So me and my new partner have decided that we want to push our boundaries a bit more. Specifically, with a third joining us.
We would love a unicorn to have some fun with, but as we all know they are rare so we'll just keep our eyes peeled for now haha. But a guy to join us? Man, that's been a challenge.
Personally, I would jump at the chance to join a couple and be the third to add a bit of spice to their sex life, but so far it's been really hard to find a guy willing to enjoy my partner how he wishes. Seriously, she wants to be used, fucked, deep throated, spanked. But any takers? None.
Where are all the horny guys willing to make the commitment and let me watch my girl get fucked? I'm holding out hope here ha xx |
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"So me and my new partner have decided that we want to push our boundaries a bit more. Specifically, with a third joining us.
We would love a unicorn to have some fun with, but as we all know they are rare so we'll just keep our eyes peeled for now haha. But a guy to join us? Man, that's been a challenge.
Personally, I would jump at the chance to join a couple and be the third to add a bit of spice to their sex life, but so far it's been really hard to find a guy willing to enjoy my partner how he wishes. Seriously, she wants to be used, fucked, deep throated, spanked. But any takers? None.
Where are all the horny guys willing to make the commitment and let me watch my girl get fucked? I'm holding out hope here ha xx"
do you have a couples profile your using? |
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By *ayco04 OP Man
over a year ago
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No, she doesn't want to be on this site. She uses Feeld and fetlife, which I do too, but she doesn't want to be on another site she has to look after. We don't seem to get connections anywhere, usually guys being flakey or ghosting us xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, and it's usually guys looking for some sexy chat but not following through. Kind of disappointing xx"
I would say make a couple's profile on here too. I'm guessing you know what kind of guy she'd be interested in? As for unicorns? Good luck with that even if you do make a couple profile! Hope you both find what you're looking for though x |
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"No, she doesn't want to be on this site. She uses Feeld and fetlife, which I do too, but she doesn't want to be on another site she has to look after. We don't seem to get connections anywhere, usually guys being flakey or ghosting us xx"
Why not set up a couples profile and you manage it? Bottom line is a lot of people will see you as a single guy with this profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, she doesn't want to be on this site. She uses Feeld and fetlife, which I do too, but she doesn't want to be on another site she has to look after. We don't seem to get connections anywhere, usually guys being flakey or ghosting us xx
Why not set up a couples profile and you manage it? Bottom line is a lot of people will see you as a single guy with this profile."
Absolutely! I know we'd think twice about it being a couple |
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To be honest I'd never meet a "couple" from a single man's profile.
There's enough single men pretending to be couples as it is.
Can't you both make a couples profile and just you admin it if she doesn't want another?
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"To be honest I'd never meet a "couple" from a single man's profile.
There's enough single men pretending to be couples as it is.
Can't you both make a couples profile and just you admin it if she doesn't want another?
Mrs "
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"Yeah, and it's usually guys looking for some sexy chat but not following through. Kind of disappointing xx"
Speaking as a bloke who has used Fab for over 10 years, and met several couples for hotwife/threesome fun, and varying degrees of cuckolding, I really cannot believe you’re struggling to find a guy to join you both. It’s basically the easiest option in Fab! 
Get yourselves to a swingers club. There’s always plenty of single guys available, and never enough ladies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So me and my new partner have decided that we want to push our boundaries a bit more. Specifically, with a third joining us.
We would love a unicorn to have some fun with, but as we all know they are rare so we'll just keep our eyes peeled for now haha. But a guy to join us? Man, that's been a challenge.
Personally, I would jump at the chance to join a couple and be the third to add a bit of spice to their sex life, but so far it's been really hard to find a guy willing to enjoy my partner how he wishes. Seriously, she wants to be used, fucked, deep throated, spanked. But any takers? None.
Where are all the horny guys willing to make the commitment and let me watch my girl get fucked? I'm holding out hope here ha xx"
You aren't looking for men on profile, period |
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By *ayco04 OP Man
over a year ago
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Well very straightforward and obvious advice for moving forward. I wasn't accepting messages from single males (understandably) and a couples profile is definitely going to get the best response. Thanks all who commented haha xx |
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We've found it tough too to find a male to join us for a 3some! Clubs aren't for us & we are quite fussy. So when we've spoken to someone Mrs likes, they either let us down or its just too challenging to find a time when we are all free. I thought it would be really easy but it's actually really difficult lol! |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"As others have said already, I’d recommend a cpl’s profile or link to your FL profile. I have a FMM today so we are out there 
Lucky bastard. No need to rub it in
I’m the other M !! Sorry mate  "
House! I was the very lucky F! Since being on here I have had a number of MFMs with 2 single guys. It may be easier if she approaches the other M or F first - even if she then steps back from the chat. That way the other person has more confidence that you are legit |
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"No, she doesn't want to be on this site. She uses Feeld and fetlife, which I do too, but she doesn't want to be on another site she has to look after. We don't seem to get connections anywhere, usually guys being flakey or ghosting us xx"
Many will assume that the lady is fictional if there's no couples profile... the easiest option is to go to a club, then you can just chat with guys and invite someone she likes to join you in a private room.
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"No, she doesn't want to be on this site. She uses Feeld and fetlife, which I do too, but she doesn't want to be on another site she has to look after. We don't seem to get connections anywhere, usually guys being flakey or ghosting us xx"
I have met three couples from an initial single guy profile in here, and I completely understand the shyness from your other half, just make sure you have photos of the two of you together to share with anyone you’re hoping to meet
I’ve never used Feeld, but FL I found a total waste of time as far as meeting anyone is concerned. It’s basically just a platform for women in Antarctica to advertise their OF……  |
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