In that case it would be a chat with T and see what we decide. All got to be weighed up against the possible awkwardness and loss of friendship after.

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By *omRachCouple over a year ago

Wirral

Rach and I have played many times (in the past) with one of my best friends.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man over a year ago

Home

No way. Private life away from here stays away from here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Friends and others are not off limits. If they understand what we are about and we click on the right levels, we will play.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have done in the past, it's what led me into swinging, in the first place.

For a time, it was great, there was trust, enough to push a little further to find our boundaries.

Though it did change our dynamics, a lot.

There's a risk with everything, I'd advise to work out the pros and cons, the best and worst case scenario, and then decide what risk you want to take.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

No...friends are off limits x

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By *batMan over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Real world Friends is a minefield!

Gbat

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By *oxy jWoman over a year ago

somerset

"Friends you already have from the vanilla world "

big no no for me ...i also know many who've regretted doing so too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Friends you already have from the vanilla world

big no no for me ...i also know many who've regretted doing so too "

Same here.

Some boundaries are up for discussion but never this one.

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By *rishsweetheartWoman over a year ago

Cork

Yes at a party in my friends and it ended up as a strip poker game and a bit more but it was never mentioned again so no regrets

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By *aptain Caveman41Man over a year ago

Home

"Yes at a party in my friends and it ended up as a strip poker game and a bit more but it was never mentioned again so no regrets"
when drink is involved things can get a tad wild

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By *lex.and.SexCouple over a year ago

Bedale

We have never done it and Lucy isn't keen, thinks it would be a bit awkward

For my part, I think it would be seriously hot

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By *enuineCoupleCheshireBBWCouple over a year ago

Cheshire

Nope nada Niette No !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What’s everyone’s thoughts about playing with people you know? Any real life experiences?"

Sure have between me and my gfs sister …..

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By *iscreet gent2018Man over a year ago

Newcastle

I’ve slept with a couple of girl ‘mates’ of mine. We’re a group of lads/lasses who’ve been mates for many years and I’ve slept with two of the girls on a number of occasions. We’ve normally been on a night out and without planning ended up back at mine/hers for nights of great sex. Still mates, even though most of them/us are married/in relationships these days. The sex we had didn’t remain secret amongst our group and I’m happy to report that I received really high reviews, which is always good for an ego boost haha.

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By *ackwoody11Man over a year ago

swansea

Yes I have done it and they can be the best meets ever