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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is it that very little or no effort is put into face pictures on fab? We really struggle to find anyone that has decent pictures of anything but their genitals? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that very little or no effort is put into face pictures on fab? We really struggle to find anyone that has decent pictures of anything but their genitals?"
You both have one face picture on your profile even then it’s not clear. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why is it that very little or no effort is put into face pictures on fab? We really struggle to find anyone that has decent pictures of anything but their genitals?
You both have one face picture on your profile even then it’s not clear. "
You can only see our public pictures. We have very clear and recent face pictures for friends and to send people. That’s what I am referring to, not public pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that very little or no effort is put into face pictures on fab? We really struggle to find anyone that has decent pictures of anything but their genitals?
You both have one face picture on your profile even then it’s not clear.
You can only see our public pictures. We have very clear and recent face pictures for friends and to send people. That’s what I am referring to, not public pictures."
Maybe the pictures are private….like yours! |
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Privacy as people are judgemental, I got found in previous job.
A few were acting like high and mighty about it saying how it's wrong and stuff.
Also can people black mail you especially if you work a job which needs to keep up a good image. |
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By *hyguy187Man
over a year ago
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"Why is it that very little or no effort is put into face pictures on fab? We really struggle to find anyone that has decent pictures of anything but their genitals?
You both have one face picture on your profile even then it’s not clear.
You can only see our public pictures. We have very clear and recent face pictures for friends and to send people. That’s what I am referring to, not public pictures.
Maybe the pictures are private….like yours! "
Exactly this!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why is it that very little or no effort is put into face pictures on fab? We really struggle to find anyone that has decent pictures of anything but their genitals?
You both have one face picture on your profile even then it’s not clear.
You can only see our public pictures. We have very clear and recent face pictures for friends and to send people. That’s what I am referring to, not public pictures.
Maybe the pictures are private….like yours!
Exactly this!!! "
Ours are friends only and we do actually send them to people. I am referring to people that contact us not the entire site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that very little or no effort is put into face pictures on fab? We really struggle to find anyone that has decent pictures of anything but their genitals?
You both have one face picture on your profile even then it’s not clear.
You can only see our public pictures. We have very clear and recent face pictures for friends and to send people. That’s what I am referring to, not public pictures.
Maybe the pictures are private….like yours!
Exactly this!!!
Ours are friends only and we do actually send them to people. I am referring to people that contact us not the entire site. "
It is not a requirement to send a face picture. Respect people’s boundaries instead of moaning. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Privacy as people are judgemental, I got found in previous job.
A few were acting like high and mighty about it saying how it's wrong and stuff.
Also can people black mail you especially if you work a job which needs to keep up a good image."
I mean this in a respectful way… so do you not show anyone face pictures or expect anyone to show face pictures? I am interested. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why is it that very little or no effort is put into face pictures on fab? We really struggle to find anyone that has decent pictures of anything but their genitals?
You both have one face picture on your profile even then it’s not clear.
You can only see our public pictures. We have very clear and recent face pictures for friends and to send people. That’s what I am referring to, not public pictures.
Maybe the pictures are private….like yours!
Exactly this!!!
Ours are friends only and we do actually send them to people. I am referring to people that contact us not the entire site.
It is not a requirement to send a face picture. Respect people’s boundaries instead of moaning. "
That’s fine if you are happy to meet someone you have no idea who they are? Most people seem to require an exchange of face pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that very little or no effort is put into face pictures on fab? We really struggle to find anyone that has decent pictures of anything but their genitals?
You both have one face picture on your profile even then it’s not clear.
You can only see our public pictures. We have very clear and recent face pictures for friends and to send people. That’s what I am referring to, not public pictures.
Maybe the pictures are private….like yours!
Exactly this!!!
Ours are friends only and we do actually send them to people. I am referring to people that contact us not the entire site.
It is not a requirement to send a face picture. Respect people’s boundaries instead of moaning.
That’s fine if you are happy to meet someone you have no idea who they are? Most people seem to require an exchange of face pictures."
Well I’m not looking to meet so that’s not really an issue! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're not alone, OP, in thinking that because your way suits you, that everyone should do it the same way.
You're not alone in not recognising that some people are more cautious because of a different perspective or worry.
We do not share face pics via the site, because we don't want our face pics to have the fab stamp.
The reason is it could cause a whole lot of trouble for us.
Instead, as expressed in our profile, we chat here to see we get along and eventually move on to WhatsApp for face pic swapping.
If the appeal ends at that point, it ends, no big deal.
It's a common misconception, that everyone is here for the same thing.
That certainly are not. |
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"Privacy as people are judgemental, I got found in previous job.
A few were acting like high and mighty about it saying how it's wrong and stuff.
Also can people black mail you especially if you work a job which needs to keep up a good image.
I mean this in a respectful way… so do you not show anyone face pictures or expect anyone to show face pictures? I am interested. "
I don't share facepics on here and don't have any on my profile at all.
The reason being that I've been in too many chatgroups where other peoples pics and personal details have been shared and I know lots of women who have left groups because other peoples info was being shared.
If I'm chasing to someone and we agree to meet we might exchange facepics so we will recognise each other in the coffee shop.
It's never about attraction at that stage because until I've met someone socially and gotten to know them I won't be making any decision about getting naked with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't have Face Pics on our profile as we wouldn't want to issue of being ID'd. It's a choice we make, if others want to show their faces then that's up to them. We think people should be allowed to run their profiles as they wish. |
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"Privacy as people are judgemental, I got found in previous job.
A few were acting like high and mighty about it saying how it's wrong and stuff.
Also can people black mail you especially if you work a job which needs to keep up a good image.
I mean this in a respectful way… so do you not show anyone face pictures or expect anyone to show face pictures? I am interested. "
We do share Face pictures after we know that the other couple/male/female is not someone we know that is not part of the scene, and it's normally fully clothed face pictures.
We also do video chats. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that very little or no effort is put into face pictures on fab? We really struggle to find anyone that has decent pictures of anything but their genitals?"
Ours are sent on a message but not out in public domain, the pics we use would be easily found on social media
We won’t send to any profiles that ain’t verified by others or have verified themselves, this apples to couples as we know what really happens with some apparent couples
We are confident our fave pics will say all that needs to be said without showing excessive genital pics  |
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"Why is it that very little or no effort is put into face pictures on fab? We really struggle to find anyone that has decent pictures of anything but their genitals?
You both have one face picture on your profile even then it’s not clear.
You can only see our public pictures. We have very clear and recent face pictures for friends and to send people. That’s what I am referring to, not public pictures."
We have them in friends only section or happy to message them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have them in our friends section and happy to send to someone we are interested in meeting. Wouldn’t ever meet someone whiteout seeing a face pic "
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By *ampire69Man
over a year ago
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Face pictures are not mandatory, some people for all sorts of reason either cant show their faces on a public forum like this or simply dont wish to show faces ie married, or for job reasons. There are a million reason why some can and why some cant, i choose not to for the simple reason due to my job, my private life interest ie being on here is not what you would call compatible with my day job, sad but true.
Fore those of you who can show faces brilliant i envy you and for those of us who cant life is a bit harder.  |
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I have face pics in friends only that I'm happy to send to people I'm interested in.
Boss told me that HR can't really do anything anyway, but if I keep my name and face off the public side, then they definitely can't touch me.
So I'll worry about that more than putting off some people that I havent shown any interest in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have face pics in friends only that I'm happy to send to people I'm interested in.
Boss told me that HR can't really do anything anyway, but if I keep my name and face off the public side, then they definitely can't touch me.
So I'll worry about that more than putting off some people that I havent shown any interest in "
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"Privacy
So married guys hiding their identity? But if you won’t show your face, why expect for anyone to be interested? "
Reverse image search is a good enough reason NEVER to send a face pic to anyone on here unless it has NEVER been used anywhere else - like Facebook, Linkedin etc.
Not just married guys - female teachers, people in jobs where their bosses would NOT understand. |
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We sent our face pics to someone who then subsequently printed them out and put them on the noticeboard at the factory where he and many of Miniskirt's family work.
That is enough to put you off ever sending face pics again.
We've also met people who looked very UNLIKE the photo they sent us. So it is always best just to get face to face and see if there's enough chemistry there to get it on. |
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"Why is it that very little or no effort is put into face pictures on fab? We really struggle to find anyone that has decent pictures of anything but their genitals?"
If I'm honest I find it hard to believe you'd be surprised at the lack of face pictures for open public consumption?
Although we agree we're not a fan of everyone's photo choices (as other may not be of ours to be fair).
We wouldn't expect to see/give a face picture unless there was a mutual dialogue and desire to get better acquainted. |
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"I quite like my face - decent it may be to somebody not to everybody and I accept that
Just as I accept some don’t want face pics public - each to there own
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You have the kind of face that is very easy to like. Lovely smile and fabulous eyes.
You're also extremely hot! |
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Ours are hidden behind friend request, so we can get to know people a little beforehand. Also I don't think face pics to identify you on here would be the best of ideas, peoples jobs etc may not like them being on such a site. |
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I don't have mine 'out there' for privacy reasons but also anxiety if I'm honest.
I'm more comfortable showing other areas rather than my face.
That being said, I will send a face picture if requested or if I've been talking to someone for a bit. However, I will try to be creative in order to help me feel confident before doing so.
Come to think of it, I think I've gone full circle in my comment and I do put effort into face pics.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that very little or no effort is put into face pictures on fab? We really struggle to find anyone that has decent pictures of anything but their genitals?"
In your experience, you cant possibly claim this of everyone on the site. why do you think your way is the only way? Also, your assumption that a person choosing privacy means they are married is just ridiculous. Accept that not everyone is comfortable with their face all over their profile. |
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"Why is it that very little or no effort is put into face pictures on fab? We really struggle to find anyone that has decent pictures of anything but their genitals?"
From the side you’re a dead ringer for Lawrence Dallaglio op |
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"I don't have mine 'out there' for privacy reasons but also anxiety if I'm honest.
I'm more comfortable showing other areas rather than my face.
That being said, I will send a face picture if requested or if I've been talking to someone for a bit. However, I will try to be creative in order to help me feel confident before doing so.
Come to think of it, I think I've gone full circle in my comment and I do put effort into face pics.."
I’ve always reckoned the longer you leave it, the harder it is. Best to get the disappointment over with as soon as possible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that very little or no effort is put into face pictures on fab? We really struggle to find anyone that has decent pictures of anything but their genitals?
You both have one face picture on your profile even then it’s not clear. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're not alone, OP, in thinking that because your way suits you, that everyone should do it the same way.
You're not alone in not recognising that some people are more cautious because of a different perspective or worry.
We do not share face pics via the site, because we don't want our face pics to have the fab stamp.
The reason is it could cause a whole lot of trouble for us.
Instead, as expressed in our profile, we chat here to see we get along and eventually move on to WhatsApp for face pic swapping.
If the appeal ends at that point, it ends, no big deal.
It's a common misconception, that everyone is here for the same thing.
That certainly are not. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Unfortunately several professions necessitate never showing faces. Miss has had some colleges lose their job due to rejecting advances on this and similar sites. |
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"Privacy as people are judgemental, I got found in previous job.
A few were acting like high and mighty about it saying how it's wrong and stuff.
Also can people black mail you especially if you work a job which needs to keep up a good image.
I mean this in a respectful way… so do you not show anyone face pictures or expect anyone to show face pictures? I am interested.
We do share Face pictures after we know that the other couple/male/female is not someone we know that is not part of the scene, and it's normally fully clothed face pictures.
We also do video chats."
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"Why is it that very little or no effort is put into face pictures on fab? We really struggle to find anyone that has decent pictures of anything but their genitals?
In your experience, you cant possibly claim this of everyone on the site. why do you think your way is the only way? Also, your assumption that a person choosing privacy means they are married is just ridiculous. Accept that not everyone is comfortable with their face all over their profile."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well you’ve now hidden your profile OP so impossible to see anything of you.
Maybe best to let people run their profiles in the way that suits them, not you. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Privacy
So married guys hiding their identity? But if you won’t show your face, why expect for anyone to be interested? "
That's a big assumption to make about anyone.
I rarely share face pics on here I'm not married. I don't share cos too many on here are free and easy with others information and sharing face pics.
Plenty on here have no issue sharing their face pics just concentrate on those people rather than ones who refuse to jump through hoops because that's what you want from them. |
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Also Mr had somebody find out at work, and show the pics round, what we do isn’t a sordid secret but we choose who to share it with. 