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over a year ago
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can any one give any help or advice about planning a meet
so we know the right pearson for us will turn up
and we will not be stood up let down or disapionted
sue & scarlet |
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I always have a coffee meet first. Seems to help. I sometimes get turned down after coffee, or decide they aren't for me. Trial and error. Keep smiling. |
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"I always have a coffee meet first. Seems to help. I sometimes get turned down after coffee, or decide they aren't for me. Trial and error. Keep smiling. "
Have to agree always have a social meet first |
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"I always have a coffee meet first. Seems to help. I sometimes get turned down after coffee, or decide they aren't for me. Trial and error. Keep smiling. "
I insist on a coffee meet first. Has always worked for me. Find it help the nerves if there happens to a second non coffee meet  |
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Chat - exchange email addy - talk on phone - ask for very recent face pics - meet socially- arrange follow up afterwards
If you lay out how you want to proceed and they follow; its a pretty good assumption they are genuine 
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Always try and get a phone number and have a chat with then its more instant and intimate than messaging on here. If you can ring at any time it could prove the persons single not attatched (if its a single your after) Then if you still get on/click arrange a social meet. Check veris to see if theyre walkers not just talkers. Then fingers crossed they turn up either play on the first meet or arrange another meet for fun.
I hope it works out for you and you find what youre looking for  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"can any one give any help or advice about planning a meet
so we know the right pearson for us will turn up
and we will not be stood up let down or disapionted
sue & scarlet"
Clear communication if possible by phone so you can discuss with a potential meet what suits everyone and what doesn't is always a good idea and helps make things go better.  |
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Don't leave it too long , if they are local by all means have a coffee first , but even then be prepared to play if possible.
Too much faffing about and there is more chance it will fall through.
We have yet to have a failure as we tend to meet on the day or next day , and normally at a club. |
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