Do any of my fellow single ladies find it increasingly difficult to find exactly what you are looking for on here
For example - I have a fantastic life but feel I need a confidence boost and a little excitement
I have a list of things that I would like to do/try but just struggling to find one or two genuine nice guys who care to share it without all the drama lol |
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over a year ago
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Yes very much so, I’ve discovered the majority I speak to will say what they think I want to hear rather than being open about their wants
It’s why my profile doesn’t state anything specific anymore, too many say yes when they mean no and it’s drama I cba with
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i seem to be the opposite from you lovelies.. i love this place. i get what i want, when i want it.
no time wasters, no feelings, no dramas.. i usually stick to my rule of no repeats.. unless it's couples, or they're fucking incredible.
selective in who i choose to meet, however in love with the social side, making amazing friends along the way at socials, parties, clubs and events.
outside of this lifestyle, i have a very chaotic work life that leaves little time elsewhere.. so i get to utilise fab to maximise the time i do get 
i guess fab fulfills different wants and needs for all of us   Px  |
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"Yes very much so, I’ve discovered the majority I speak to will say what they think I want to hear rather than being open about their wants
It’s why my profile doesn’t state anything specific anymore, too many say yes when they mean no and it’s drama I cba with
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I love your profile |
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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago
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"i seem to be the opposite from you lovelies.. i love this place. i get what i want, when i want it.
no time wasters, no feelings, no dramas.. i usually stick to my rule of no repeats.. unless it's couples, or they're fucking incredible.
selective in who i choose to meet, however in love with the social side, making amazing friends along the way at socials, parties, clubs and events.
outside of this lifestyle, i have a very chaotic work life that leaves little time elsewhere.. so i get to utilise fab to maximise the time i do get
i guess fab fulfills different wants and needs for all of us Px "
Second this! Thankfully I'm in this boat! |
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"Yes very much so, I’ve discovered the majority I speak to will say what they think I want to hear rather than being open about their wants
It’s why my profile doesn’t state anything specific anymore, too many say yes when they mean no and it’s drama I cba with
I love your profile"
Thanks, I know it’s ranty but when it’s not the messages become unbearable so always revert back to ranty |
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"Yes very much so, I’ve discovered the majority I speak to will say what they think I want to hear rather than being open about their wants
It’s why my profile doesn’t state anything specific anymore, too many say yes when they mean no and it’s drama I cba with
I love your profile
Thanks, I know it’s ranty but when it’s not the messages become unbearable so always revert back to ranty "
When I was first on here I didn't understand why some women were a bit ranty on their profiles, but I so do now! |
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OP yes I am struggling and in need of timeout again. I have met some really lovely people via fab and had some nice socials and meets. I only have small amounts of time I am free and able to meet and hard to find people that fit with that when ideally someone more regular is preferable to lots of one offs.
As others have said unfortunately some people will also say what they think you want to hear to get a social or potential play meet. Which means I've had a few people lie about their relationship status, age etc and I find that frustrating because it takes away my choice about who I want to play with.
I am currently short on patience for dishonesty so delete and block are my friends.
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"Yes very much so, I’ve discovered the majority I speak to will say what they think I want to hear rather than being open about their wants
It’s why my profile doesn’t state anything specific anymore, too many say yes when they mean no and it’s drama I cba with
I love your profile
Thanks, I know it’s ranty but when it’s not the messages become unbearable so always revert back to ranty
When I was first on here I didn't understand why some women were a bit ranty on their profiles, but I so do now!"
I alternate between ranty, not much detail and hiding my profile along with locking down all message filters.
Do like the idea at peaking a profiles that send friend requests when off line and then deleting |
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"Do any of my fellow single ladies find it increasingly difficult to find exactly what you are looking for on here
For example - I have a fantastic life but feel I need a confidence boost and a little excitement
I have a list of things that I would like to do/try but just struggling to find one or two genuine nice guys who care to share it without all the drama lol"
Life is give and take.a balance! |
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I hope this is taken in the right context but the couple of women who have said they are not struggling on this thread both have fairly open profiles with plenty of info in their bios and enough public photos for people to see.
If you’re profile is pretty hidden or doesn’t have much information or photos on it I think it’s quite normal for you not to get much interest |
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"I hope this is taken in the right context but the couple of women who have said they are not struggling on this thread both have fairly open profiles with plenty of info in their bios and enough public photos for people to see.
If you’re profile is pretty hidden or doesn’t have much information or photos on it I think it’s quite normal for you not to get much interest "
The issue is not lack of interest, its not being able to find what looking for even when my profile is unhidden and has a clearly written profile because too many people don't read it and are dishonest. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I can't say I've had any issues with fab and finding what I wanted off here in the time I've been on here. Yes I have had a little bit of abuse over the years,and yep I had a couple of guys trying to say what they thought I wanted to hear but I found not falling for the false compliments etc helped suss them out fast. Yep I had a few socials that went nowhere and a couple of really not so nice ones. But everything was a learning curve and most of it good. And yes I'm really happy with my fab journey and where it lead me. |
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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago
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"I hope this is taken in the right context but the couple of women who have said they are not struggling on this thread both have fairly open profiles with plenty of info in their bios and enough public photos for people to see.
If you’re profile is pretty hidden or doesn’t have much information or photos on it I think it’s quite normal for you not to get much interest
The issue is not lack of interest, its not being able to find what looking for even when my profile is unhidden and has a clearly written profile because too many people don't read it and are dishonest. "
I just go out and hunt for what I want instead of replying to the messages in the inbox. |
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I've never had any issues finding the right ones. I have always taken the time to chat and have never done instant meets. You soon find out which ones are genuinely interested and which ones are just the any hole is a goal type x |
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