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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met a very personable Asian (Indian) guy at Chams a month or so ago. He was polite and very respectful. We chatted but weren’t interested in play as it was our first time back on the scene for 3 years. He enjoyed watching us as we played as Just a couple.
However, we have also seen some awful Asian guys at a club we visited a couple of times in Derby. No respect and very grabby Maybe they were from a different group? Not nice.
It’s not the ethnicity that matters. It’s the individual person and their attitude that is the most important  X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It’s not the ethnicity that matters. It’s the individual person and their attitude that is the most important
Exactly there’s good and bad in all, but all I see in here is no Asians everywhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s not the ethnicity that matters. It’s the individual person and their attitude that is the most important
Exactly there’s good and bad in all, but all I see in here is no Asians everywhere "
That is so wrong. But it’s like lots of things in this lifestyle, a few ruin it for the many  |
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It’s not the ethnicity that matters. It’s the individual person and their attitude that is the most important
Exactly there’s good and bad in all, but all I see in here is no Asians everywhere "
Just focus on those who will play with you and ignore other profiles and you’ll be fine  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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It’s not the ethnicity that matters. It’s the individual person and their attitude that is the most important
Exactly there’s good and bad in all, but all I see in here is no Asians everywhere
Just focus on those who will play with you and ignore other profiles and you’ll be fine "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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It’s not the ethnicity that matters. It’s the individual person and their attitude that is the most important
Exactly there’s good and bad in all, but all I see in here is no Asians everywhere
That is so wrong. But it’s like lots of things in this lifestyle, a few ruin it for the many "
It’s a shame |
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"We met a very personable Asian (Indian) guy at Chams a month or so ago. He was polite and very respectful. We chatted but weren’t interested in play as it was our first time back on the scene for 3 years. He enjoyed watching us as we played as Just a couple.
However, we have also seen some awful Asian guys at a club we visited a couple of times in Derby. No respect and very grabby Maybe they were from a different group? Not nice.
It’s not the ethnicity that matters. It’s the individual person and their attitude that is the most important X"
There’s always going to be a handful of folks that have no respect
I can only apologise that you guys have had to endure that
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone gave me the advice to take Asian off my profile because
'Women will think your Indian'
I was like " Asians are all brothers and sisters. I would be honoured as a Mongal to be mistaken for any of them".
Passive racism on this site can really suck! Someone called me as a passable white guy like it was a compliment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone gave me the advice to take Asian off my profile because
'Women will think your Indian'
I was like " Asians are all brothers and sisters. I would be honoured as a Mongal to be mistaken for any of them".
Passive racism on this site can really suck! Someone called me as a passable white guy like it was a compliment. "
I get refered to as mixed all the time and people always seem so disappointed when I tell them that I'm full black
Being on here as a POC is exhausting sometimes
People are allowed to have their preferences of course, but I wish they would learn to not be offensive/racist in expressing those preferences |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"Someone gave me the advice to take Asian off my profile because
'Women will think your Indian'
I was like " Asians are all brothers and sisters. I would be honoured as a Mongal to be mistaken for any of them".
Passive racism on this site can really suck! Someone called me as a passable white guy like it was a compliment. "
thats so rude ...i dont think some really understand what they are actually saying sometimes..
i get it at work from my staff .. always starts with im not being racist but .... sorry the fact you said that you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Asia is a huge continent, people of pretty much all races live there. I have never once been turned down because I was born on the continent of Asia, and I've never seen a profile that specifies "no Asian females"
Bess x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone gave me the advice to take Asian off my profile because
'Women will think your Indian'
I was like " Asians are all brothers and sisters. I would be honoured as a Mongal to be mistaken for any of them".
Passive racism on this site can really suck! Someone called me as a passable white guy like it was a compliment.
thats so rude ...i dont think some really understand what they are actually saying sometimes..
i get it at work from my staff .. always starts with im not being racist but .... sorry the fact you said that you are "
You honestly just get used to it. The ideal isn't to be white, so telling me I am passable makes me feel like they think I should be ashamed my mum is Mongolian.
So many "no Asians" on here. Actually it's a self proclaimed 'Racist Wanker' sign so I wouldn't want to meet them anyway and ruin their lives with my Asian vibes lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a pure hypothetical for Asian guys, if somebody put on their profile "no men of Indian, Pakistani or Bangladeshi heritage please", would you consider that racist?
Bess x |
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Anytime a thread that contains no Asian etc becomes so boring!!!
It comes down to people’s preferences they may converse at work or in a public setting
Doesn’t matter how good looking you are if they not interested just let it be
Always remember everyone is entitled to their own preferences
Respect it and jog on there’s no need to make it into a race conversation
If I’ve offended anyone my apologies
Just saying it how it is!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's more respectful to just ignore the messages from people who you dont want to meet. It's not about the wording but the idea that the race is so off putting to you that you need to publicly say it.
Much better to just ignore the message.
Just for clarity, I am not suggesting not fucking an Asian is racist lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just a pure hypothetical for Asian guys, if somebody put on their profile "no men of Indian, Pakistani or Bangladeshi heritage please", would you consider that racist?
Bess x"
That’s a tricky one, people will say it’s preference but if you discrimination people over their skin colour is that classed as racist? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Asia is a huge continent, people of pretty much all races live there. I have never once been turned down because I was born on the continent of Asia, and I've never seen a profile that specifies "no Asian females"
Bess x"
Asian girls have no problem on here they are loved by all. some guys beg for Asian girls on their profile |
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
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"Just a pure hypothetical for Asian guys, if somebody put on their profile "no men of Indian, Pakistani or Bangladeshi heritage please", would you consider that racist?
Bess x"
We being Indians feel offended when we read it , alternatively we also get offers of playing with Diva and not me. That's absolutely racism.
I believe if you don't want to meet Asians for sex then you don't mention it on the profile but can always refuse the offer if you get one . Why make it more public by mentioning it on the profile .
Diva doesn't feel attracted towards black guys but we don't mention it in our profile. If we get message from a BBC we politely decline it .
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"Someone gave me the advice to take Asian off my profile because
'Women will think your Indian'
I was like " Asians are all brothers and sisters. I would be honoured as a Mongal to be mistaken for any of them".
Passive racism on this site can really suck! Someone called me as a passable white guy like it was a compliment.
I get refered to as mixed all the time and people always seem so disappointed when I tell them that I'm full black
Being on here as a POC is exhausting sometimes
People are allowed to have their preferences of course, but I wish they would learn to not be offensive/racist in expressing those preferences "
You are quite right, respect and manners cost nothing, you are beautiful inside and out
J x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Someone gave me the advice to take Asian off my profile because
'Women will think your Indian'
I was like " Asians are all brothers and sisters. I would be honoured as a Mongal to be mistaken for any of them".
Passive racism on this site can really suck! Someone called me as a passable white guy like it was a compliment.
I get refered to as mixed all the time and people always seem so disappointed when I tell them that I'm full black
Being on here as a POC is exhausting sometimes
People are allowed to have their preferences of course, but I wish they would learn to not be offensive/racist in expressing those preferences
You are quite right, respect and manners cost nothing, you are beautiful inside and out
J x"
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