There has to be total trust between your wife and the lucky guy. If she is not totally comfortable and feels like she is in control then it won't be as good as it could be. That is of course unless she is really submissive and wants a guy to lead her and push her boundaries.

You can't build that trust by inviting someone over she's not met before or at least been messaging with someone for some time.

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By *ixenandhoundCouple over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

Clubs are a great place for us to meet someone extra to join us, I guess it depends if you're looking for social and getting to know someone first, but if you're looking for more of a spontaneous 3some clubs are great

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By *and12 OP Couple over a year ago

flint

Thanks maybe club it is I’m not sure we would want to be friends afterwards at the moment it would be a one off

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By *ixenandhoundCouple over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

"Thanks maybe club it is I’m not sure we would want to be friends afterwards at the moment it would be a one off"

Then I would say that a club is a great place... we've had 3somes where we've not spoken to them before or after

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By *herry delightWoman over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Best thing to do is not over think it and just go for it, accept that the first time might not go as you expect or planned, but the next MFM will be much better.

Don't be put off by unnecessary worries, just enjoy x

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By *iredhandMan over a year ago

Manchester

Judging by your pics you won’t be short of willing volunteers.

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By *en30216Man over a year ago

york

3 sum in in x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Arrange a short social first as this will give you an idea about chemistry but also if they’re likely to turn up

If all is good arrange a nice hotel meeting within a few days.

If you leave it too long after the social it tends to fizzle out in our experience.

Have fun.

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

You don't need 'to organise' a threesome (or a moresome). Simply go to a club and you can generally pick the guy or guys you'd like to join you either in a private or public room.

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By *enatton2Couple over a year ago

West Midlands

We’ve found that this is the easiest kind of meet to arrange. Most of the time we don’t really plan it far ahead, we jump on here when we want to do it, post a status and then look through the messages we get. Then we see who we like that is available and seems legit. Then meet them, it’s worked every time so far, all decent enough meets too

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