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Straight guys saying they are Bi
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"Same here. We appreciate there are genuine reasons, everyone needs their first time etc, but if they aren't willing to explain their desires in the first message we usually delete. If you're looking for hassle free bi guys, get a fabguys account. Works perfectly for us and removes 95% of the guess work if they are just looking for a woman " OK thanks for the tip we will take a look at that site | |||
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"A few reasons I’d say. There is the stigma and embarrassment surrounding their sexual interests mixed with shame and possible low self confidence. There are so many bi guys posing as straight to try and get more meets as some couples will state they don’t meet bi guys, as ofcourse if a guy is bi then he’s going to hold down the straight male half of a couple and utterly pump him silly at the earliest opportunity " I’m always concerned they’re just saying they’re bi to get to Kitty! Frankie! | |||
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"We’ve increasingly been getting messages from guys with straight profiles who say they want Bi play. Why are so many guys unwilling to be honest and set up Bi/Bi curious profiles? To us saying you’re straight in your profile and then messaging suggesting you are bi in some form makes us suspicious and reduces your chance of a meeting. " Every guy that has messaged us in this situation and we say no straight guys and they say they are bi but don't put it on their profile because it puts off fully straight male couples etc We just give them a polite no thanks as it to us feels a little bit of deception/lie. | |||
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"It's not just single guys though is it? There's plenty of guys in MF couples who pertain to be straight, but will happily play with a bloke as long as there's a fanny in the room 'Bi-playful' is very much a Fab term " Yep & I've seen women claim to be straight too when it's obvious they're not Some genuinely dont see themselves as bi ,unless they want to have a relationship with someone of the same sex too. | |||
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"Having bi or bi curious on your profile puts a lot of couples off from my experience. A lot of the males in a mf couple being straight don't want a bi guy. I've been told before that I'm not for them because I'm bi. " Same here, I've been told this a number of times  | |||
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"We’ve increasingly been getting messages from guys with straight profiles who say they want Bi play. Why are so many guys unwilling to be honest and set up Bi/Bi curious profiles? To us saying you’re straight in your profile and then messaging suggesting you are bi in some form makes us suspicious and reduces your chance of a meeting. " Sone guys say they are bi hoping to get to fuck the female of the cpl. Had a few try this on hoping they will get to fuck joanne. We just block and move on. John | |||
Lastly it’s a sad time seeing women on here openly saying ‘no bi guys’ in some instances they’re bi themselves. All fo everyone’s has their type but hypercritical | |||
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"There is also the group me included where they are curious and wanting to explore yet not tried it yet. So in this weird limbo land of not straight, not bi, curious and interested. I appreciate that’s the group the ‘fake’ guys seeking just women sit in too. For those who simply want to explore and are genuine it’s quite overwhelming with guys that come across very pushy and literal 1 word answers which is a instant no or you’re trying to find the small couples that seek bi and a newbie…
Lastly it’s a sad time seeing women on here openly saying ‘no bi guys’ in some instances they’re bi themselves. All fo everyone’s has their type but hypercritical "It's not hypocritical. They can choose who to fuck. Bi men are not the same as bi women. | |||
"There is also the group me included where they are curious and wanting to explore yet not tried it yet. So in this weird limbo land of not straight, not bi, curious and interested. I appreciate that’s the group the ‘fake’ guys seeking just women sit in too. For those who simply want to explore and are genuine it’s quite overwhelming with guys that come across very pushy and literal 1 word answers which is a instant no or you’re trying to find the small couples that seek bi and a newbie…
Lastly it’s a sad time seeing women on here openly saying ‘no bi guys’ in some instances they’re bi themselves. All fo everyone’s has their type but hypercritical "It's similar to all the gay guys here, pertaining to be bi-sexual but not wanting to meet other gay men - just wanting to meet 'straight curious guys' That said, it's not for you, or I, to call it out Fab doesn't come with set criteria for membership Despite the cliché, we are mainly here looking for very different things | |||
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"doesnt make a difference if a guy says hes straight or bi, he still gets propositioned by both sexes so why bother!! same for my lady with other women and couples!!" On fab you have option to filter who can message you. As a straight guy while I get a lot of fabs from guys, they are unable to message me let alone proposition me, and I make it clear to any couples that I might chat with that I have no interest in male to male play. | |||
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"I get contacted by a fair few bi men who say they're str8 on profile. I ALWAYS call them out on the discrepancy and I've come to realize that there are two groups of "str8-bi" discordant men 1. The majority - they're NOT being deceptive deliberately, they're bisexual, like men and women BUT ...... a lot of couples and women won't meet bi guys mostly for outdated prejudices (AIDS, the straight husband will get pounced on and shite like that). So they write "str8". I give these men a pass because the odds are already so stacked up against them that I get where they are coming from. And I've enjoyed playing with bisexual men who feel they have to pretend to be str8 I don't hold it against them. 2. This is the smaller deceptive lot that will say anything just to get to a woman. Ive seen "bi" guys invited to bi parties hoping shag a few girls and they're literally walking with their hands over their cocks, hoping that only a woman will approach them LOL. Those need to be kicked in the bollocks and thrown out of these parties they spoil it for everyone. X ps: one word of advice to "str8-bi" men if your profile has a lot of TV friends and/or veris from other men talking about how hot your cock was to suck, you MAY AS WELL change your status to bisexual "Spot on the last part  | |||
"We’ve increasingly been getting messages from guys with straight profiles who say they want Bi play. Why are so many guys unwilling to be honest and set up Bi/Bi curious profiles? To us saying you’re straight in your profile and then messaging suggesting you are bi in some form makes us suspicious and reduces your chance of a meeting. " Because there is straight straight, then there’s only straight in front of my friends straight. The mr | |||
"Well, I put straight on my profile, although I would describe myself as contextually bi, in that, when with a couple, I enjoy seeing, and feeling a nice hard cock, and love the sense that everyone can touch and feel and enjoy whatever and whomsoever they like.There isn't really a category of this on fabs, and perhaps using labels is too rigid anyway. The thing is most of my messages are from guys, even though I have put straight. If I put bi-curious, although I am beyond curious lol, let alone bi..I get deluged withh messages from single gay or bi guys, whereas I prefer to meet with couples. I don't think, therefore, there is anything dishonest in what I say about myself, or putting on straight, and then mailing bi couples. They are free to ignore me (which they often do lol)." This is known as hete  exible, it's very common but the term is not well known. | |||
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"We found if Steve put bi we got pestered by gay men rather than couples or straight guys who want to play with me. " Use your filters then! | |||
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"We’ve increasingly been getting messages from guys with straight profiles who say they want Bi play. Why are so many guys unwilling to be honest and set up Bi/Bi curious profiles? To us saying you’re straight in your profile and then messaging suggesting you are bi in some form makes us suspicious and reduces your chance of a meeting. " As a gay man most of messages i had was from so called straight men with not looking for single guys on their profile.If MR makes a profile on fabguys you would find a large number of supposed single 'straight' guys here are on fabguys.where there is no option to put straight. i have used it being on both as a good filter to out the liars in the past. | |||
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"We to are fed up with straight guys saying they are bi when there profile states they are straight, its just an excuse to fuck the female side of the couple without any interaction with the guy or they just can't be true to there sexuality and they wonder why we don't reply and block them." Not necessarily. They may not be Out in life. Just say the men will fuck and suck first before the woman joins in later. That puts off the straight ones. | |||
"As a bi guy myself I have had messages from straight guys looking to meet on the low down....always the old excuse of "the ladies/couples don't want to play with bi guys, so I put straight" Well, there are many ladies/couples who are happy to meet and play with Bi guys, (best of both worlds IMO)....Yes, it sucks that some people don't want to meet, but just move on, there are others that do. As in all walks of life people have preferences, respect that and above all be honest!!" We won't play with any guys who are listed as straight... lot of couples also like this too. Even if I say so myself and it may be a little bias but look at S... its surely their loss :D | |||
"We only meet bi couples/bi men so for us if they have straight on their profile even if they state their actually bi we won’t meet with them. We’ve heard so many stories where men who claimed to be bi had no interest in the other man at all. We are all about everyone being involved and no one should feel left out. " This is us down to a T. We won't entertain "fab straight" guys, mostly as we have limited time as it is without increasing the risk of meeting chancers and wasting our time. And also we find it dishonest all be it to straight couples but nevertheless it simply doesn't sit right with us. Mr H | |||
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"Opposite for us Bi guys saying they are straight "So guys saying whatever it takes to get sex then? | |||
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