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Protection on a first meet
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over a year ago
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"Using a condom for the man, even if both are safe
So... who's happy with bareback fun, as long as the man wears a condom?"
If he wears it over his head then I'm in! |
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Usually only play bare with hubby or the odd regular I’ve met, but very occasionally I’ve got carried away with a new playmate. It’s amazing at the time but then having to go pay £30 for a pill and then get tested kind of kills the mood after  |
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Safe definitely, especially at a first encounter.
Just yesterday I was supposed to meet someone. I brought up condoms and he confessed he’s married so doesn’t have any.  (he had quite a few verifications so not fake). Cancelled.
Imagine fucking behind someone’s back and not even protecting yourself or oblivious spouse. It’s mind boggling. |
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"Safe definitely, especially at a first encounter.
Just yesterday I was supposed to meet someone. I brought up condoms and he confessed he’s married so doesn’t have any. (he had quite a few verifications so not fake). Cancelled.
Imagine fucking behind someone’s back and not even protecting yourself or oblivious spouse. It’s mind boggling."
People really don’t get the ethical in ethical non monogamy! |
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Maby I'm just paranoid, but apart from the obvoious health risks involved in unprotected sex, there is also the risk of pregnancy to be considered. I wouldn't want someone I barely know raising my child, and then being in a a lifelong parental partnership with them.....
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It’s not just the man’s responsibility to have protection. I always have it available, in multiple sizes, and non-latex too.
If it’s really that important to you I don’t know why they’d get all the way to your door without having had the conversation beforehand.
And there is nothing ‘unethical’ about unprotected sex if it’s consensual, even with multiple partners. Unsurprisingly, people have been having it for millennia. Nobody has the right to tell me what I can and can’t do with my own body, as long as I’m not misleading others in any way.
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"It’s not just the man’s responsibility to have protection. I always have it available, in multiple sizes, and non-latex too.
If it’s really that important to you I don’t know why they’d get all the way to your door without having had the conversation beforehand.
And there is nothing ‘unethical’ about unprotected sex if it’s consensual, even with multiple partners. Unsurprisingly, people have been having it for millennia. Nobody has the right to tell me what I can and can’t do with my own body, as long as I’m not misleading others in any way.
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Oh exactly, the unethical part is not testing, not asking about protection before Meeting and cheating on an unknowing partner |
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It’s not unethical to not test either. Irresponsible maybe, but not unethical - not everyone shares the same values. misleading somebody about being tested would be unethical.
And cheating is wrong irrespective of whether it’s protected or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curious to see how many are happy with bare back fun on the first meet if everyone is safe?
I am happy either way, just like to see if this is something with trust being built up first? "
First meet or first fuck? Some of us have socials first and not fuck on first meet. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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no such thing as safe sex only safer sex
everyone should test if you play safer or not just because someone is wearing a condom dont mean you cant catch anything sex involes hands n mouth too as well
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no such thing as safe sex only safer sex
everyone should test if you play safer or not just because someone is wearing a condom dont mean you cant catch anything sex involes hands n mouth too as well
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