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Real life vs ‘this life’ advice please..
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Good morning..
I have noticed a certain someone who I know (not well but enough to say hi) and I’ve always fancied in real life is on Fab.. some cracking photos too..
So.. do I
A) message her on facebook, messenger etc and say ‘fancy a shag’
B) message on Fab and say ‘hi.. it’s Kris, you’re on here wow.. fancy a shag?’
Or
C) Continue to ‘enjoy’ her pics..
Any advice is appreciated. |
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"I don't think A is the right option. People want to draw a line between real life and fab. It's important that we respect that.
Between, B and C, it's up to you. How brave are you?  "
I think you’re dead right - I’m fairly brave - been in the naked room at the attic.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has happened to me before and I chose to go Facebook first, linked up in Fab life, and just as before we never hooked up in either life. Since then we continued to maintain distance in both. |
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By *aps1Man
over a year ago
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Haha yeah I found an old friend on here and reached out to chat on messenger first. Built up the connection again before talking about fab. Nothing ever happened it was great to get her prospective on things. Still friends lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good morning..
I have noticed a certain someone who I know (not well but enough to say hi) and I’ve always fancied in real life is on Fab.. some cracking photos too..
So.. do I
A) message her on facebook, messenger etc and say ‘fancy a shag’
B) message on Fab and say ‘hi.. it’s Kris, you’re on here wow.. fancy a shag?’
Or
C) Continue to ‘enjoy’ her pics..
Any advice is appreciated. "
what about b) part 2:
message on Fab and say ‘hi.. it’s Kris, you’re on here wow.. spotted you the other day at ...not to worry were all here for similar reasons ... fancy a chat/grab a drink' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only a complete idiot would do A
Option B is fine but do not ask for a shag like an idiot. So with that, I can’t say B is fine either
Option C is acceptable but youl always want to reach out.
Consider option D, send her a wink and fab her photos. If she comes to you for a chat that’s good, if she doesn’t then back to option C |
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Contact her on fab, say who you are and that if she chooses not to meet you that's the end of the story you will maintain discretion.
Being contacted away from fab can come across as creepy. At least here you're laying your cards on the table |
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All sound advice - thanks guys.
I have messaged her on here - not asking for a shag but a nice opening message also saying complete discretion etc..
Fingers crossed however she probably gets hundreds of messages.. we will see..
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