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Stockings and suspenders to a social?
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Not unless there was the possibility of it becoming more than just a social, also depends where the social is. Might look a bit inappropriate in a coffee shop on a Wednesday afternoon at 2pm.
I wouldn't go to the effort of wearing nice lingerie or stockings etc if it was strictly only a social and nobody was seeing what's under my clothes anyway. What's the point? |
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"Yeah I'm never sure if it is good to tell someone what they should wear for a social you think that ok doing that then?x"
Telling them? Probably not. Fine to cheekily suggest perhaps. She was comfy in her jeans and that's what matters.
And no, I wouldn't wear stockings and suspenders to a social |
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"Yeah I'm never sure if it is good to tell someone what they should wear for a social you think that ok doing that then?x"
Talk to the person you're going to have a social with. Find out if they're comfortable wearing stockings and suspenders and the reasons you like them to dress that way. Everyone will know where they stand then |
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It's a declaration of intent suggesting more may be on offer. Like a female friend used to say, if a lady is in matching underwear to a date it implies they've put thought into how they look underneath the clothes. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"It's a declaration of intent suggesting more may be on offer. Like a female friend used to say, if a lady is in matching underwear to a date it implies they've put thought into how they look underneath the clothes. "
No it's not.It just means they have dressed up to feel good. Thinking anything else is presumptuous.
And no OP I would most likely not wear stockings to a social especially if I knew it was the persons kink mainly because of the presumption they may have that it could lead to more. And that can be very awkward if you realise you don't want to have sex with the other person. |
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I wear nice lingerie all the time, and sometimes wear stockings as a change from tights. I don't save it for "best" because wearing nice undies all the time makes me feel good
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"It's a declaration of intent suggesting more may be on offer. Like a female friend used to say, if a lady is in matching underwear to a date it implies they've put thought into how they look underneath the clothes.
No it's not.It just means they have dressed up to feel good. Thinking anything else is presumptuous.
And no OP I would most likely not wear stockings to a social especially if I knew it was the persons kink mainly because of the presumption they may have that it could lead to more. And that can be very awkward if you realise you don't want to have sex with the other person. "
I was about to say the same. I'd be very likely to wear stockings to a social but we never play on a first meet. |
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"It's a declaration of intent suggesting more may be on offer. Like a female friend used to say, if a lady is in matching underwear to a date it implies they've put thought into how they look underneath the clothes.
No it's not.It just means they have dressed up to feel good. Thinking anything else is presumptuous.
And no OP I would most likely not wear stockings to a social especially if I knew it was the persons kink mainly because of the presumption they may have that it could lead to more. And that can be very awkward if you realise you don't want to have sex with the other person. "
I like it when they ask if I will wear sexy stockings and lingerie to our first social. Then I can cancel it and not waste my time. |
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"It's a declaration of intent suggesting more may be on offer. Like a female friend used to say, if a lady is in matching underwear to a date it implies they've put thought into how they look underneath the clothes.
No it's not.It just means they have dressed up to feel good. Thinking anything else is presumptuous.
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No it's not.It just means they have dressed up to feel good. Thinking anything else is presumptuous.
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100% this! I dress to make me feel good on a social. That may include stockings or hold ups but it's because I feel good in them and it is not an invitation for anything more. |
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Everyone should dress to make themselves feel good, confident, powerful. Why do men assume its always for them, for their benefit. Such an outdated view xx  |
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I’d wear them as they would make me feel great and be in the right mood to have a social that is obviously geared around checking if “we were compatible” , I’m not going to meet anyone just for a social there has to be some attraction initially to move to that stage, so I’d wear them to make me feel more womanly, sexy, and if the social turned out to be a bust so what if it turned out you wanted to do whatever then at least Katie is dressed appropriately how she likes to be dressed when playing |
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"Everyone should dress to make themselves feel good, confident, powerful. Why do men assume its always for them, for their benefit. Such an outdated view xx "
Exactly
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