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What did you wear?
I always wear jeans for socials, they should be very chilled for everyone in my opinion. Casual chat to see if we get on, plus there is a chance of being stood up, so personally, I don't make much effort bar the basics. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"What were you expecting her to wear,boiler suit and a sombrero  "
OMG!!!! If anyone would happily meet me for a social wearing that, preferably somewhere classy rather than Greg's or wetherspoons.....then I'm buying!  
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Yes ,she probably wore what was comfortable for her..
A social is just to see if theres attraction & you hit it off,well it is for me anyway.
I've worn jeans for a day social before & dresses too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a social yesterday and the lady wore jeans is that normal?. Previous socials it never happened."
I wear what I'm comfortable and confident in...that's often a dress because I like wearing them but has been jeans and boots before because I know I look fab in them... |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
It's a social so I don't see why a woman wearing jeans would be an issue ? I think I've worn jeans and a nice top to some before. I'm meeting just to see if we get on well or not in person. I'm not going to get dressed up in sexy lingerie etc for a social and if someone had an issue with that or expected more it wouldn't go beyond a social either. |
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"Well jeans are not the most easy access are they."
If you use reply+quote we know who you're talking to 
Why do you need easy access for a social or had you agreed that your social was going to be followed by sex? |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Most women i had a social ith usually wear a dress or skirt with stockings and suspenders "
Define 'most' ?
I'll skip the 'easy access' comment for now, but I've never in 15 years on here known women to generally wear stockings and suspenders to a social meet where you'll just be chatting.
What difference does what someone wears make when you're just talking?
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"It is the first time anyone wore Jeans."
It's rare that I wear jeans but if I wore a dress/skirt I'd be wearing leggings under it. I certainly wouldn't be expecting me to need easy access if it was just a social  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well jeans are not the most easy access are they."
Which is exactly why I purposefully wear jeans for a social, it’s a social.
If you’re complaining about lack of ‘easy access’ you’re clearly wanting more than a social
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well jeans are not the most easy access are they.
If you require 'access' on a social you should tell her in advance so she can meet your demands. "
Or have the opportunity to say no if she’s not wanting the same too |
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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago
Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk |
"Had a social yesterday and the lady wore jeans is that normal?. Previous socials it never happened."
For me it's perfectly normal as I like to dress comfortably if someone I'm meeting has a problem with that then it's their problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Such a disappointment!
I'd wear to a social whatever I liked and felt confident in. If that was jeans then I'd wear jeans.
If someone suggested to me or asked me to wear something for a social (especially someone I'd never met before) I'd probably strongly suggest that we're wholly incompatible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well jeans are not the most easy access are they.
If you require 'access' on a social you should tell her in advance so she can meet your demands.
Or have the opportunity to say no if she’s not wanting the same too "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I would expect them to wear a white leather mini, fishnets and a pink crop top.
Oh and knee high boots.
Is this the Frog that's never been kissed? ..Hahahaha.. "
Sadly the opposite.
And still a frog. |
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To be honest op if a woman turned up for a first social in a dress and stockings there wouldn't be a second meeting because I'd get the impression she was trying too hard and wasn't relaxed enough to be herself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women i had a social ith usually wear a dress or skirt with stockings and suspenders "
Given the single meet veri on your profile and the others are cam, how many socials have you had? |
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"Personally I would expect them to wear a white leather mini, fishnets and a pink crop top.
Oh and knee high boots.
Is this the Frog that's never been kissed? ..Hahahaha..
Sadly the opposite.
And still a frog."
I'm sure your not but from another planet... |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Well jeans are not the most easy access are they."
It was a social.There is no need for easy access and someone expecting it to mean that they can should get easy access is exactly one the reason I would wear jeans to a social. To me and most of the men I've met off here understand that before we met. |
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