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Why start a conversation when you’re 200+ miles away
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By *aytie0 OP Woman
over a year ago
Seaham |
I really don’t understand what you’re trying to achieve here. Not having a go just curious. Unless you’re gonna sort hotel and train (which is v unlikely) genuinely what is the point in wasting your time and theirs ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes it's nice to send someone a message if their profile is worthy of it or, possibly they just want to message someone they think might want to just message, not sex talk just a nice conversation. I do however think that a lot of people (guys) on here want to be crude for wank material and degrade a lady which I hope isn't the case here.
Peace and love.
John.
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By *t0600Man
over a year ago
elvedon |
"Because people travel and have fun in different setups. Ofc I understand some ladies want regular locals, but I also believe in building networks and friendships.  "
I’m glad someone said that think that’s a great point |
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I don't mind as much if its someome i've interacted with in the forum who wants to chat.
If they're absolutley miles away I find it a bit pointless,I prefer someone to at least be in the same half of the country as me.
I once had a bloke ask to meet me & he was in Dover!. |
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By *lecom1Couple
over a year ago
Stornoway |
We've had visitors from Australia, New Zealand, and from the Midlands. We talk to everybody, you never know what is going to happen and let's face it on such a small country nobody is more than 15 hours away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like talking to others and making friends.
Some who we have talked to we hope to see at the swingaton. Others we may meet or never meet but we can still be friends.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We speak to anyone from anywhere. When we originally met on here, there were 100 miles between us, we made it work (somehow).
We do however travel the country visiting all different places on our “us” weekends, so we like to make friends everywhere.
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We like to travel so it's always good to strike up conversations with people further afield. Obviously not for a regular thing but we have made trips to see friends on here and they have come to us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because people like to chat and get to know people on here "
Exactly. I chat with lots of people who I'll never meet due to distance, dont see the problem. |
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"I really don’t understand what you’re trying to achieve here. Not having a go just curious. Unless you’re gonna sort hotel and train (which is v unlikely) genuinely what is the point in wasting your time and theirs ? "
I feel this, unless folks were already travelling to Dorset I wouldn't want them to travel all that way on our account |
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"Because people like to chat and get to know people on here
Exactly. I chat with lots of people who I'll never meet due to distance, dont see the problem."
if I didn't chat with people miles away from me id chat to nobody because trying to get a reply from people around me is like trying to find a needle in a hay barn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really don’t understand what you’re trying to achieve here. Not having a go just curious. Unless you’re gonna sort hotel and train (which is v unlikely) genuinely what is the point in wasting your time and theirs ? "
Damn! I’d be on the first train for you! |
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"Why not?
You never know, you may hit it off so well that travel plans are made and getting together happens.
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I've done that, but only based on forum interaction and conversation. When it's random I delete anything over 20 miles |
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Because its just nice to chat sometimes lol its a sex site but can still make friends lol I chat to people all over the country in fact I even chat in other countries, its not wasting time, its using your time and I've travelled to meet someone that I thought was worth it  |
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"Why not?
You never know, you may hit it off so well that travel plans are made and getting together happens.
I've done that, but only based on forum interaction and conversation. When it's random I delete anything over 20 miles "
maybe the person who contacts you is going to be in your area for a holiday and are trying to get to know you first there's no harm in sending a message explaining that you don't meet people too far away just in case they may be around your neck of the woods. |
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"I really don’t understand what you’re trying to achieve here. Not having a go just curious. Unless you’re gonna sort hotel and train (which is v unlikely) genuinely what is the point in wasting your time and theirs ? "
I personally like travelling as I find people more honest and upfront than I do people in London. I live in London but rarely meet in London. |
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"Why not?
You never know, you may hit it off so well that travel plans are made and getting together happens.
I've done that, but only based on forum interaction and conversation. When it's random I delete anything over 20 miles maybe the person who contacts you is going to be in your area for a holiday and are trying to get to know you first there's no harm in sending a message explaining that you don't meet people too far away just in case they may be around your neck of the woods. "
Sure.
I choose not to meet like that. I'd delete the message. |
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"Why not?
You never know, you may hit it off so well that travel plans are made and getting together happens.
I've done that, but only based on forum interaction and conversation. When it's random I delete anything over 20 miles maybe the person who contacts you is going to be in your area for a holiday and are trying to get to know you first there's no harm in sending a message explaining that you don't meet people too far away just in case they may be around your neck of the woods.
Sure.
I choose not to meet like that. I'd delete the message."
your loss |
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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago
The dot in the i |
"Why not?
You never know, you may hit it off so well that travel plans are made and getting together happens.
I've done that, but only based on forum interaction and conversation. When it's random I delete anything over 20 miles maybe the person who contacts you is going to be in your area for a holiday and are trying to get to know you first there's no harm in sending a message explaining that you don't meet people too far away just in case they may be around your neck of the woods.
Sure.
I choose not to meet like that. I'd delete the message."
I’d delete it too, not something I could enjoy |
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"Why not?
You never know, you may hit it off so well that travel plans are made and getting together happens.
I've done that, but only based on forum interaction and conversation. When it's random I delete anything over 20 miles maybe the person who contacts you is going to be in your area for a holiday and are trying to get to know you first there's no harm in sending a message explaining that you don't meet people too far away just in case they may be around your neck of the woods.
Sure.
I choose not to meet like that. I'd delete the message.your loss "
My choice  |
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I will reply to any message to be polite even if they are not what I’m looking for in my profile and the last thing I look at is their location… distance shouldn’t matter and if you make a friend all the better…. And you never know you might be in the vicinity one day…. |
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"Yes.
I have no idea why I'm constantly winked by people in Scotland or Northern Ireland.
Yeah, chat certainly but show your interest with a wink? Why?maybe they may not know what to say in a message and they just want to break the ice
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Quiet you...
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"Yes.
I have no idea why I'm constantly winked by people in Scotland or Northern Ireland.
Yeah, chat certainly but show your interest with a wink? Why?maybe they may not know what to say in a message and they just want to break the ice
Quiet you...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I chat to people all over the UK and Ireland...it's nice to just make friends with people... who knows a road trip might happen lol"
Good comment i do the exact same as yous x |
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"I really don’t understand what you’re trying to achieve here. Not having a go just curious. Unless you’re gonna sort hotel and train (which is v unlikely) genuinely what is the point in wasting your time and theirs ? "
It's never gonna happen so just ignore x |
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"I chat to people all over the UK and Ireland...it's nice to just make friends with people... who knows a road trip might happen lol"
Yep. I make trips to visit people I really like. Hundreds of miles are no big deal. I live next to an airport. |
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By *linyMan
over a year ago
Manchester/London |
I drove over 4 hours to my last meet and then home the next day. Next week I’ll be driving to London again this time for a week and I have 2 meets planned. Yes I understood that not all will travel but some do and will and yes I cover the hotel, it’s my week away that I share with others. |
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"I chat to people all over the UK and Ireland...it's nice to just make friends with people... who knows a road trip might happen lol
Yep. I make trips to visit people I really like. Hundreds of miles are no big deal. I live next to an airport."
Ooh very handy |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
I once had a woman travel to Dubai to spend a long weekend with me. We'd previously met on a ski holiday and had a bit of a kiss on the last night. We wanted to take it further but I was living in central Asia.
The Dubai weekend was the start of something great for over a year.
I'm hoping a new friend is going to join me in Switzerland for a few days next month.
Both of these women live (or lived) in different countries to me, but boy, am I glad we chatted.
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"I really don’t understand what you’re trying to achieve here. Not having a go just curious. Unless you’re gonna sort hotel and train (which is v unlikely) genuinely what is the point in wasting your time and theirs ? "
Because they could be planning ahead, for a time they are visiting your area with work, family get together, sports event etc? I set up local searches for an area I’m going to be in on a future date, as you just never know who might be looking for a cheeky hotel meet while I’m there….. |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
"Because people travel and have fun in different setups. Ofc I understand some ladies want regular locals, but I also believe in building networks and friendships. "
correct and clear xx Anne |
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