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Are people meeting on this site or just perving
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It depends mostly on your location, and gender. There's definitely more opportunities in the South and Midlands, as there's more dense a population. That being said, if you're a single female, you'll never struggle for meets through Fab wherever you are  |
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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire/Northwest |
Mainly arranging meets, keeping in touch with couples we know, booking onto events and a little forum-ing.
I honestly never perv at profiles ever, if I actually think about it I dont even perv at pictures of a couple we're meeting. To me its all about how we get on as a 4 on the night.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you meeting or perving?"
Can't get the meets I want and it's not that important. Few women reply due to overload and men don't read profiles properly, tgurls hard to find. |
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"Nobody wants to meet me, therefore perving.
Looking at your pics this seems unlikely x great photos (Mrs)"
Thank you, I appreciate that, especially when it comes from a woman.
I’ve been saying that for ages but nobody wants to believe me - let’s normalise the fact women get rejected on this website too. |
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By *ampire69Man
over a year ago
Birmingham West Midlands |
I honestly think that most people on this site are dreamers and have no intention of meeting, there just arm chair wankers a waste of space time and money, but of course cheap armchair thrills are all that some people want.
Some of us really do make the effort and meet |
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Definitely here to meet. Many not interested because of Sam's age (63) - though the complimentary veri has helped. And to be fair our availability is very limited.
But we have arranged 9 meets 2 single ladies (one twice!), one man and 5 couples. 7 didn't happen - cancellations from 15 minutes to 1 day notice, and sudden lack of communication a few days out.
We met a delightful guy for a photo shoot, and actually met a couple.....was supposed to be a hotel meet, moving to be_room if all happy - all were happy, but an overrun of monthly issues restricted it to a social.
We claim to be a full swap couple, but not one private meet where we have engaged in the be_room despite our very best efforts.
Is this ratio of cancellations and drop outs normal? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Definitely here to meet. Many not interested because of Sam's age (63) - though the complimentary veri has helped. And to be fair our availability is very limited.
But we have arranged 9 meets 2 single ladies (one twice!), one man and 5 couples. 7 didn't happen - cancellations from 15 minutes to 1 day notice, and sudden lack of communication a few days out.
We met a delightful guy for a photo shoot, and actually met a couple.....was supposed to be a hotel meet, moving to be_room if all happy - all were happy, but an overrun of monthly issues restricted it to a social.
We claim to be a full swap couple, but not one private meet where we have engaged in the be_room despite our very best efforts.
Is this ratio of cancellations and drop outs normal?"
I don't even get to arranging anything at the moment. So you are one step ahead of me!  |
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"No man will reject any woman lol "
I beg to differ! I’ve walked from public social meets, declined offers (yes plural) of “shall we go in to the be_room?” in private homes, and also declined offers to play in clubs. I do need a spark of attraction in some form |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No man will reject any woman lol
That’s actually not true.
Men have their preferences and standards, and thanks goodness for that. "
Thanks for that dose of reality.
The trope of us all being utter horn dogs with zero discernment is unhelpful. |
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So mostly forums,cam and perving.
Weekend fucking 
Oops I meant ‘meeting for bible studies’ lol 